Namuhla, njalo ngoNovemba 20, kugujwa i-International Day of the Child. Usuku lokukhumbula ukuthi kuseningi amantombazane nabafana amalungelo abo aqhubeka nokwephulwa. Ngalolu suku kukhunjulwa lokho wonke amantombazane nabafana emhlabeni banamalungelo afanayoakukhathalekile ubulili bakho, ubudala, ubuzwe, ubuhlanga noma inkolo.
La malungelo afakiwe ku- Ingqungquthela yamalungelo ezingane. Isivumelwano samazwe omhlaba, esivunywe yi-United Nations General Assembly, esiqoqayo amalungelo ayisisekelo amantombazane, abafana nentsha futhi kungokwesicelo esiphoqelekile nokugcwaliseka kwabo bonke ohulumeni abasayine. Izindatshana ezingama-54 zomhlangano zifingqiwe ezimisweni eziyishumi eziyisisekelo njengoba kuchazwe nguMarta kulokhu post.
Singawafundisa kanjani amadodakazi ethu namadodana ethu ngamalungelo eNgane?
Bazali, othisha, abasebenzi bezempilo nawo wonke umuntu ohlobene nomhlaba wobuntwana, kufanele sisebenzele siza izingane ziqonde futhi ziqonde amalungelo azo.
Umndeni uyindawo yemvelo yokuba izingane zikhule futhi zifunde izindinganiso, ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi kusukela ebuncaneni kakhulu sikhulume ngokukhululeka nezingane zethu futhi sigxilisa kuzo ukuthi ayini amalungelo nemisebenzi yazo. Kepha ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezinsizakusebenza eziningi esingazisebenzisa ukwenza amadodana namadodakazi ethu aziwe amalungelo abo nokubakhuthaza ukuthi babavikele.
Fundani futhi nixoxe njengomndeni
Ungafunda nezingane zakho imigomo eyisisekelo emalungelweni ezingane futhi uzivumele zizindle ngazo. Ngabe uyawajabulela la malungelo? Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi zonke izingane emhlabeni ziyawajabulela? Le yimibuzo ongayibuza yona.
Ngalokhu ungavakashela iwebhusayithi ye Gcina izingane esishicilele iSivumelwano Samalungelo Engane ngezinhlobo ezahlukene kuye ngeminyaka yamantombazane nabafana.
Amavidiyo nezingoma
Kwabancane, i-Unicef isethula kuwebhusayithi yayo a uchungechunge lwamavidiyo lapho UPocoyo nabangane bakhe basikhombisa amaLungelo engane. Inamavidiyo ayisishiyagalombili lapho kuchazwa khona ilungelo lokulingana, ubunikazi, ukuba nomndeni, ukudlala, ukubamba iqhaza, imfundo kanye nezempilo.
Kuwebhusayithi efanayo, ungathola abadumile ingoma yasebukhosini eyenziwa ngabakwaLunni. Ingoma elula futhi ehehayo ehlose amantombazane nabafana ukubakhumbuza ukuthi wonke umuntu uyalingana nokuthi amalungelo akhe kumele avikelwe.
Pheka njengomndeni
Singathatha ithuba lokuchazela izingane zethu nge ilungelo lokudla lokudla okunomsoco ukulungiselela iresiphi enempilo futhi elinganiselayo. Ngenkathi sipheka singaxoxa ngendlela ezinye izingane ezingondlekile ngayo kanti ezinye zidliswa ngokweqile. Singathatha futhi ithuba ukukunikeza ama-brushstroke ku ukudla okunempilo.
Imidlalo yokuqonda amalungelo ezingane
I-Play ingenye yamalungelo ayisisekelo ezingane futhi futhi iyithuluzi lokufunda elinamandla. Zonke izingane ziyathanda ukudlala futhi sesiyazi vele ukuthi lokho okufundwa ngenjabulo kufakwa kangcono. Ngakho-ke ake sithathe ithuba lokuzijabulisa futhi sifunde nezingane zethu.
Ilungelo lokungabandlululwa
"Bonke abafana namantombazane banamalungelo afanayo kuzo zonke izimo, ngaso sonke isikhathi nakuyo yonke indawo."
Ukufundisa izingane zakho ukuhlonipha zonke izinhlanga, izinhlanga, izinkolo noma ubulili, ungasebenzisa imidlalo yokulingisa ebandakanya ukubona ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukucwaswa nokuthi abantu abaphathwa kanjena bazizwa kanjani.
Isibonelo, unganamathisela izitika ngemuva komdlali ngamunye ubanikeze indima abangayazi. Umdlalo uqukethe ukubuka ukuthi sibaphatha kanjani abantu ngokuya ngenkolo yabo, ubulili, ubuzwe noma amandla okuthenga. Ekupheleni komdlalo kumele sizindle ndawonye ngendlela esizizwe ngayo nangalokho esicabanga ukuthi bekufanele kushintshe.
Ilungelo lokubamba iqhaza
"Izingane zinelungelo lokuthintwa mayelana nezimo ezizithintayo nokuthi kubhekwe nemibono yazo."
Lo mdlalo uzama ukuthola imibuzo engenza ukwehluka kwemibono ku funda ukuveza imibono, ulalele futhi uhloniphe imibono yabanye. Kulokhu sizodinga amakhadi anemibuzo noma izingqinamba zamanje nokunye okuthintekayo umuntu ophethe phansi azokubamba ngaso sonke isikhathi. Le nto ingaba yinoma yini, isigqoko, umgexo, unodoli, noma yini oyifunayo.
Umdlalo uqukethe ukubeka amakhadi phansi futhi umdlali ngamunye adwebe elilodwa. Uma sekufundwe, imibono, imibono noma iziphakamiso maqondana nesihloko esithile kufanele kuvezwe. Ngenkathi umdlali oyedwa ekhuluma, bonke abanye kufanele bathule belalele. Lapho umdlali eseqedile, bangadlulisela induku komunye umdlali ongabe eseveza umbono wabo noma umncintiswano. Ama-rounds enziwa lapho abadlali kufanele bakhumbule imibono eyahlukene ukuze bakwazi ukukhombisa ukuvumelana noma ukungavumelani kwabo, njalo ehlonipha izikhathi zokuthula nokulalela.
Ilungelo lezintshisekelo zengane
"Noma yisiphi isinqumo, umthetho noma inqubomgomo engathinta izingane kumele ibheke ukuthi yini elungele izingane."
Singafundisa izingane zethu ukuthi qaphela ukuba sengozini nokubaluleka kokuba nomuntu ozokusiza, ngomdlalo womhlahlandlela odumile. Umdlalo ulula kakhulu, kufanele nje uvale iso umdlali oyedwa ngenkathi omunye ezoba umhlahlandlela wakho.
Ngemuva kwesikhashana kufanele sishintshe izindima ukuze wonke umuntu abhekane nezimo zombili. Uma umdlalo usuphelile, kufanele sicabangele ukuthi sizizwe kanjani futhi ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuphendukela kwabanye abantu ukuze basisize.
Ilungelo lokuphila, ukusinda nentuthuko
"Wonke amantombazane nabafana banelungelo lokuphila futhi bathuthuke ngokwanele, baqinisekise ukutholakala kwezidingongqangi namathuba alinganayo."
Ukusebenzela ukuzwelana, ukubekezelelana kanye nomqondo wokuthi sonke sinelungelo lokuthola amathuba alinganayo, singadlala nezingane zethu "ukushintsha ubuntu bazo." Kumele khetha umuntu futhi uziphathe kahle, ukhulume futhi ucabange njengaye. Ngale ndlela singaqonda ukuthi omunye umuntu uzizwa kanjani futhi ngasikhathi sinye sazi ukuthi abanye basibona kanjani. Uma umdlalo usuphelile, xoxani ngokuthi kungakhathalekile ukuthi ungubani, amalungelo kumele afane.