Namuhla kunemindeni eminingi okumele ihlale emakhaya lapho kukhona amakamelo ambalwa ngakho izingane kufanele zisebenzise igumbi elilodwa lokulala, noma mhlawumbe imindeni ithathe isinqumo sokuthi izingane zihlanganyela ekamelweni elilodwa ukuze zibe nendawo ethe xaxa ekhaya eminye imisebenzi. Ukwabelana ngekamelo kungahle kungabi umqondo omuhle kakhulu wezingane ezisendlini, Kepha uma ihlotshisiwe futhi yenziwe kahle, igumbi lokulala lezingane elabiwe kungaba igumbi lokulala elihle kakhulu labancane.
Ukuthola imiphumela emihle kuzodingeka ucabange ngokwakhayo ukuze ukwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zezingane ekamelweni ngaphandle kokuyekethisa isitayela noma ubuntu begumbiuku. Ngokulandelayo ngizokunikeza imibono yokuhlobisa yekamelo lokulala lezingane elihlanganyelwe nokuthi izingane zakho zingakujabulela ukuhlala ndawonye futhi lapho zidinga ubumfihlo obuncane, ucabanga ukuthi lokho akunakwenzeka? Qhubeka ufunde!
Cabanga ngokuthanda kwabo
Zimbili noma mhlawumbe zintathu, kepha zonke zinobuntu bazo futhi kufanele ziboniswe ekuhlobiseni kwegumbi. Kujwayelekile ukuthi ucabange ukuthi kungaba nzima ukukhombisa ubuntu bezingane ekamelweni, kepha akudingekile ukuthi uhlobise lonke igumbi lokulala ucabangele ukuthanda kwabo kuphela. Eqinisweni, okulungile ukuthi ucabangele ukuthanda kwabo imininingwane emincane noma izindwangu, kepha ukuthi lonke igumbi linemibala echazwe kahle lapho ingahlotshiswa khona ngokuhlanganiswa okuhle. Isibonelo, ungapenda izindonga ngombala omhlophe noma ongathathi hlangothi bese ukhetha imibala enempilo ukuze unikeze ubuntu esikhaleni somuntu ngamunye.
Hlukanisa kahle igumbi lokulala
Kuyadingeka ukuthi igumbi lokulala lihlukaniswe kahle ukuze kwakheke izindawo ezizimele neziseduze lapho wonke umuntu angathola ubumfihlo bakhe. Isibonelo, ukwehlukanisa igumbi lokulala ungalandela le mibono elandelayo:
- Sebenzisa isikrini ukusabalalisa izindawo.
- Sebenzisa imibala ehlukile endaweni ngayinye ukuze isikhala sichazwe kahle.
- Sebenzisa ifenisha ukwehlukanisa amakamelo nokuthi ahlukene kahle.
- Ukuthi wonke umuntu unesikhala sakhe (amadilowa, amakhabethe, ideski, umbhede ...) ngaphakathi kwekamelo lokulala futhi ngaphandle kokuzihlukanisa ngokomzimba, zingazi ukuthi iyiphi indawo ehambelana nenye nenye.
- Ukuthi ngamunye abe nezikhala zakhe zokugcina izinto zakhe.
- cunt umnyango oshelelayo maphakathi negumbi ukuze ukwazi ukuthi amakamelo ahlukaniswe kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukukhula ndawonye
Lapho izingane zihlanganyela ikamelo lokulala, kungenzeka isikhathi eside, noma kungaba isikhala abelana ngaso kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele imibala emhlophe izingane ezazi ukuthi zingangcola ngokushesha kangakanani, Kungcono ukuthi ukhethe ukufaka ifenisha ngemibala engathathi hlangothi nokuthi ungangeza nokuthinta umbala nobuntu kukhaphethi, embhedeni noma ezithombeni. Kulezi zinto ungabamba ubuntu bengane ngayinye ekhulela kulelo gumbi.
Khetha ifenisha esebenzayo
Udinga ukutshala imali kwifenisha esebenzayo eyenza impilo ibe lula kuwo wonke umuntu. Isibonelo, uma singekho isikhala esanele sokuhlukanisa igumbi ngoba igumbi lokulala lincane, kufanele ukhethe ezinye izindlela nemibono yokuhlobisa. Umqondo kungaba ukusebenzisa imibhede embhedeni noma umbhede wesigaxa ukuze ngamunye abe nendawo yawo kepha futhi konge isikhala egumbini lokulala. Omunye umqondo kungaba ukusebenzisa ikhabethe noma amagumbi okugcina lapho wonke umuntu angaba nendawo yakhe echazwe kahle.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kungaze kushaywe indiva ukuthi wonke umuntu unobuntu obuhlukile nokuthi bobabili (noma ngaphezulu) kufanele babe nelungelo lobumfihlo nobumfihlo. Izingane lapho zidlula ebusheni zidinga njengokuza kuqala ukuze zikwazi ukuba nesikhala sazo sokubalekela iqiniso, kuzodingeka zicabange, zizizwe futhi zikhule egumbini labo lokulala futhi lesi sikhala kufanele sinikezwe ngisho nasekhoneni lokuphumula noma ngezinye izindlela ngaphakathi kwekamelo lokulala lezingane okwabelwana ngalo.
Izindawo ezabiwe
Kepha kuzoba nezindawo ezithile egumbini okufanele zihlale zikhona futhi nazo okufanele kwabelwane ngazo. Ngiqonde indawo yokufunda noma indawo yokufunda. Endaweni yokufunda ungangeza amakhushini amabili amancane phansi eduze kweshelufu, lapho ngalinye linendawo yalo yokugcina izincwadi zalo. Endaweni yokufunda, inketho engcono kakhulu uma isikhala sivuma ukuthi bobabili banesikhala sabo ukufunda, netafula lakhe nosihlalo, kanye nesikhala sokugcina konke okuphathelene nezifundiswa.
Izindawo zokudlala noma zokuphumula
Uma izingane zisencane, zizodinga indawo yokudlala lapho zingazijabulisa khona futhi zijabulele ubuntwana bazo, lapho zingathuthukisa khona umcabango wazo futhi zabelane nesikhathi ndawonye. Indawo lapho amathoyizi angagcinwa khona kalula ngemuva kokusetshenziswa futhi ngasikhathi sinye kulula ukuwathatha futhi uwadlale.
Esikhundleni salokho, uma izingane ziqala ukukhula bazodinga leso sikhala sezinye izinto cIsibonelo, indawo yokuphumula ongabelana ngayo nabangane. Irowu, isikhwama sebhontshisi noma amakhushini kuzoba umqondo omuhle.
Okokuhlobisa
Okokuhlobisa kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela ngemibala ofuna ukuyisebenzisa ukuze ilungele ukuthanda kwabo nokuthi inhlanganisela nayo ibe yimpumelelo. Isibonelo, uma kukhulunywa ngekamelo lokulala lezingane, imibala engathathi hlangothi nokwengeza imibala ecace bha kungaba ngumbono omuhle kakhulu, kepha lapho intsha kungukuthi izokwabelana ngesikhala, mhlawumbe into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuhlanganisa amaphethini nemibhalo ehlinzeka ngesitayela nobuntu.
Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlanganiswa kwezitayela ngokobuntu babo kungaba yimpumelelo enhle, kanye nokuhlanganisa izingqikithi enizithandayo nobabili eningazijabulela. Amakamelo abo okulala kufanele abe yisiphephelo sabo ngakho-ke kuyodingeka bazizwe bekhululekile futhi bejabule ngaphakathi kwalelo gumbi, noma ngabe kwabelwana ngalo.