Ngeshwa, ukuxhashazwa noma ukuxhashazwa kuyaqhubeka kukhona futhi kungaba khona kunoma yimuphi umkhakha wezenhlalo. Kunabafana namantombazane amaningi namuhla ahlukunyezwa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo ngabafundi abanemiphumela okubandakanya lokhu.
Ngemuva kwalokho sizokhuluma nawe ngale miphumela futhi ukuthi izithinta kanjani izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa okunjalo.
Imiphumela yokuxhashazwa
Imiphumela yokuxhashazwa ngeshwa miningi. El ukuhlukunyezwa uzohlushwa izinkinga ezingokomzwelo, ukudangala, ukukhathazeka, izinkinga zokuzethemba ngisho nemicabango yokuzibulala. Ngokuhambisana nalokhu, umbukiso ohlukunyezwayo awunantshisekelo kangako ezifundweni, okuzoholela ekuhlulekeni kwesikole. Kungakho abazali, lapho bebhekene nenguquko engazelelwe engokomzwelo enganeni yabo, kufanele bafune usizo ngokushesha okukhulu.
Ungabona kanjani ukuthi uyisisulu sokuxhashazwa?
Uma indodana noma indodakazi yakho ihlukunyezwa esikoleni, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi emasontweni adlule babe nosizi, bangafuni futhi abanandaba kakhulu. Ukufeyila esikoleni kungenye yezimpawu ezingakhombisa ukuthi uyahlukunyezwa. Ngokombono womzimba, isisulu sivame ukuba nezinkinga ezinkulu ngesikhathi sokulala, izinhlungu ezinzima zesisu, ukuhlanza noma isicanucanu. Njengoba sesishilo ngenhla, kuyadingeka ukuthi ingane ibhekwe isikhashana ukuze yazi ukuthi ngabe lezi zimpawu zinde yini futhi zingumphumela wokuhlukunyezwa ababhekana nakho nsuku zonke.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kunamiphi imiphumela kulowo okuqinelayo?
Kukholakala ukuthi amaphesenti aphezulu, ama-stalkers azoba yizigebengu zesikhathi esizayo. Yingakho kubalulekile ukumisa ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo ngesikhathi futhi welaphe lowo okuhlukumezayo ukuze inkinga ingabi yimbi kakhulu. Into ejwayelekile ukuthi isiqhwaga cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi senza ngendlela enobudlova, yokuxhamazela neyokugunyaza. Abawamukeli omunye umbono futhi badinga ukwenza ngobudlova nangokuthukuthela ukuze bazizwe kahle ngabo. Udinga usizo oluphuthumayo ngokwengqondo ukuze ikusasa lingabi isigebengu esiyingozi.