Manje njengoba sekusele kancane ukuthi ihlobo liphele futhi izingane ziqale isikole, kungenzeka ukuthi yize kusasele inyanga yokwenza lokho, ikhanda lakho selivele liqala ukuhlela izinsuku lapho imizila izophinde ibe ngabalingani bakho bansuku zonke futhi. Kepha mhlawumbe nawe uqala ukucabanga ukuthi ngemuva kosuku lwesikole, uma kungaba ngumqondo omuhle ukubhalisa izingane zakho emisebenzini yangemva kwesikole noma uma kungcono kunalokho.
Ukuze wazi ukuthi kuwumbono omuhle ngempela yini - noma cha - kufanele ube nezinto ezithile zicace bha, ngoba yize unesibopho uma ingane yakho kufanele noma ingakwenzi ukwenza imisebenzi yangezinye izikhathi noma uma ungakwazi noma ungakwazi ukuyikhokhela - isabelomali somndeni-, Lowo ozoba nezwi lokugcina lokuthi akwenze noma cha kuzofanele abe yindodana yakho.
Isabelomali somndeni
Into yokuqala okufanele uyicabangele nangaphambi kokukhuluma nengane yakho mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle ngaphandle kwamahora esikoleni isabelomali somndeni. Imisebenzi yangezinye izikhathi ayikho mahhala futhi ayinawo wonke amanani anenani elifanayo, ngoba kuzoncika ohlotsheni lomsebenzi, ubude besikhathi nokuthi yenzeka kuphi.
Cabanga ngemisebenzi ingane yakho efuna ukuyenza noma leyo ocabanga ukuthi kungaba yimibono emihle kuye noma ekukhuleni kwakhe, bese ucabanga ngesabelomali somndeni ngokuya ngezindleko umuntu ngamunye anazo. Uma ungavumela ingane / izingane zakho ukuthi zenze imisebenzi yangaphandle kwenyanga njalo futhi ziyavuma, kuzobe kungumbono omuhle impela. Futhi kwazise ukuthi isabelomali semisebenzi yengane asifani, ukuthi uma unezingane ezimbili noma ezintathu futhi zonke zifuna ukwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle, isabelomali singaphakama kakhulu.
Izintshisekelo zezingane
Ukuze izingane zakho zenze imisebenzi yangaphandle, enye yezinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bafuna ukuyenza. Ungalokothi uphoqe izingane zakho ukuba zenze imisebenzi yangaphandle ngoba ucabanga ukuthi kuhle kuzo futhi awunaki umbono wazo, ngale ndlela uzobe ubenza bangazizwa njengabazenzayo futhi bengazijabuleli noma bezwe ukuthi kuyinto ebalulekile kubo.
Imisebenzi yesikole kufanele ibe yimisebenzi ebasiza ukuthi bathuthukise amakhono abo nsuku zonke, kepha ngaphezu kwakho konke, kufanele babe yimisebenzi abathanda ukuyenza. Uma ingane yakho inganqunyelwe noma isencane kakhulu ukuthi ingazi ukuthi iziphi izinto ezithanda ukuzenza kakhulu, kufanele udlale ukuze ube ngumseshi wayo wangasese. Lokho wukuthi, kufanele ubheke ukuthi ziyini izintshisekelo zabo, uzibuke nsuku zonke. Ungathola ukuthi unomoya wokudala, okuthile okuhle ukubhalisela imisebenzi yobuciko yangemva kwesikole, noma ungahle uthande ezemidlalo, kepha yini enye?
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ingane yakho idinga ezinye izinhlobo zemisebenzi yezifundo ukuqinisa amakhono esikole, into ngalo mqondo, kungadingeka ukubhekisisa ukuhlanganisa neminye imisebenzi abayithandayo nokuthi bangazizwa le misebenzi ibekiwe noma ukuphoqelelwa. Ukuze ingane ikwazi ukusizakala ngemisebenzi yangemva kwesikole - noma ngabe nayo ifundile-, kufanele kuqala, ikufune ukuyenza.
Akuningi kakhulu
Imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole yinhle uma nje isezingeni elifanele. Lapho ingane inemisebenzi eminingi yangemva kwesikole, ingakhathala kakhulu emini noma izizwe icindezelekile noma ikhathazekile. Izingane zidinga isikhathi sokuba yizingane futhi ukuzithwalisa ngokweqile ngemisebenzi yangemva kwesikole akuyona inketho enhle.
Imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole kufanele ibe mbalwa phakathi nesonto, kube sengathi yinye kuphela. Okubalulekile ukuthi leyo misebenzi yesikole oyenzayo iyithanda ngempela futhi ikushukumisele ukuthi uyisebenzise ngokunembile. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ubeke phambili ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi izingane zakho ezingayithanda kakhulu futhi ungazibeki kakhulu kuyo yize zingazithanda zonke. Kufanele bakhethe labo abangabathanda kakhulu futhi ngenxa yalokho bathokozele imisebenzi kahle. Bazofunda ukubeka phambili futhi bawazise umsebenzi abawenzayo.
Isikhathi esikhululekile
Kepha ngaphezu kokubeka phambili imisebenzi yangezinye izikhathi ezinganeni zakho futhi ukwazi ukukhetha izinto ezizithandayo nezizithandayo, kufanele wazi futhi ukuthi izingane zidinga isikhathi sokudlala, ukuba izingane, ukuphumula futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuba uhlangothi lwakho.
Ngokwalesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izingane ezihambela imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole, Banesikhathi sokwenza imisebenzi yokufunda nokufundela ekhaya, isikhathi sokudlala futhi babe nesikhathi samahhala, kepha ngaphezu kwakho konke futhi isikhathi sokuba babe futhi babe eceleni kwakho.
Isikhathi samahhala nesingahlelwanga siyadingeka ezinganeni ukuze zithuthukise ubuhlakani bazo nomcabango wazo, into ebaluleke kakhulu kepha edingekayo futhi ukuze ikwazi ukujabulela eminye imisebenzi efana nemisebenzi yangaphandle.
Futhi khumbula ...
Uma ucabanga ukubhalisa izingane zakho emisebenzini yangezikhathi zesikole lapho kufika uSepthemba, khumbula ukuthi into yokuqala okufanele uyikhumbule umbono wabo, wazi ukuthi bafuna ngempela noma abafuni ukukwenza, ungaziphoqeleli uma kwenzeka object, Yazi isabelomali onaso ekhaya ukuze bakwazi ukusenza, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke lokho balandela izintshisekelo zabo nokuthi bazizwa benesifiso sokwenza lolu hlobo lwemisebenzi. Uma ubona ukuthi abanqunyelwe, into enhle kakhulu ukuthi ubasize bakhethe izinto ocabanga ukuthi zingabathakazelisa, ugcine engqondweni izinto abazithandayo nabazithandayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungalayishi izingane ngokweqile ngamahora ngemisebenzi yangezinye izikhathi, ngoba zingazizwa zicasukile, zikhathele, zingenasifiso sokwenza noma yini, kungonakalisa ukusebenza kwazo ezifundweni ... kungcono uma kunemisebenzi embalwa kodwa ngiyayithanda ngempela.
Uma uphumelela emisebenzini yangaphandle, ngaphandle kokungabaza bazoba nezinzuzo kuphela kubo ngoba amakhono abo azothuthukiswa futhi bazokwazi ukuthola ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi abayithanda kakhulu noma leyo engazizwa inentshisekelo engako. Ingabe usuvele uyazi ukuthi hlobo luni lwemisebenzi yangemva kwesikole ozoyihlosela izingane zakho phakathi nonyaka wesikole?