Ingqikithi emelwe emindenini eminingi, eyabafana neyamantombazane, futhi yilapho indodakazi ithanda unina kuphela. Intombazane ikhetha unina ngakho konke, ukugqoka, ukukama izinwele zakhe, ukuzilungisa, njengesimangalo ... umsebenzi oqeda amandla nokuthi umama ukuyisa kuphi. wenze ukukhetha indima eyinhloko yakho konke okunamathiselwe nesibopho maqondana nendodakazi yakhe.
Eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe, kujwayelekile ukubona izingane zinamathele konina ukuba ukuphela kwesicelo futhi ngisho nokuphela komuntu abangamethemba kakhulu. Ukuzama ukunyamalala lesi simo, ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma kungaba ukuthi intombazane idlule isikhathi esithe xaxa nabanye abantu futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuqinise ukuzimela kwabo kancane kancane. Kepha uma ukuncika kumama kuphawuleka kakhulu, kuzodingeka kutholakale izizathu ezivame kakhulu.
Kungani indodakazi yami ithanda umama wayo kuphela?
Impela uke wahlangabezana nezikhathi zokuyekethisa lapho indodakazi yakho isiza ikutshela "Mama, ngikuthanda kakhulu kunoBaba." Yizikhathi lapho ungazi ukuthi kufanele usabele kanjani, sihlala sibonga kakhulu futhi sibuyekeza isibalo sikababa njengomuntu obuye amthande ngokulinganayo.
Ngaphansi kweminye imigomo nayo ingachazwa igama "mamitis" okuyilapho indodakazi yakho ingasidedeli isandla sakho, ihlale ifuna ukuthi uyithathe, uyigqokise, uyifunze futhi idlale nayo. Futhi nokuningi lapho kwenzeka kwenziwa kanjena:
Umama uchitha isikhathi esiningi ekhaya ukudlula ubaba. Kwenzeka ngoba awunawo umsebenzi, uthathe ikhefu noma ungaphansi kwanoma yisiphi isimo. Kepha qaphela, uma umama kufanele abuyele emsebenzini omusha, mhlawumbe intombazane kungadala ukuncika okuningi, ngenxa yokushoda kwesibalo sakhe ayekujwayele.
Ukufika kukamfowethu omusha ikhaya singesinye futhi isizathu. Bakha i-halo encane yomona futhi bazizwe benganakekelwanga kangako ngoba babona ukunakwa okwengeziwe kumfowabo osanda kuzalwa. Kulokhu ziheha ukunakwa kukho konke ukunakekelwa okuyisisekelo futhi ngisho nezinye izingane zinayo "Ukuhlukumezeka ebuntwaneni bakhe" ukuthola ukunakwa okuningi.
Lapho kube khona izinguquko ezinqala nokunyakaza okungajwayelekile ekhaya. Mhlawumbe umama akasakwazi ukunakekela indodakazi yakhe amahora angama-24 ngosuku futhi udinga ogogo nomkhulu, ubaba ngisho nomnakekeli ukuze bamsize. Impela indodakazi yakho iyenqaba ukunikezwa imithwalo yemfanelo noma imisebenzi uma ingaphawulwa ngesandla sikanina. Ukuhamba nakho kumele kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwezingane, izinguquko azithathwa kahle futhi zingaphendula ngamaqiniso afana nalawa.
Kuhle noma kubi ukuthi indodakazi yami ithanda umama wayo kuphela?
Umbuzo wabazali abaningi. Iqiniso lokuthi indodakazi yakho ifuna ukuba nonina kuphela isinamathiselo esingafuni kuyaziwa ngokuthola ukuthi kuhle noma kubi. Kulokhu kufanele hlaziya uhlobo lwe- "mastitis”Futhi okunamathiselwe okwenzekayo. Siyazi ukuthi amantombazane asondelene kakhulu nonina. Yibo abamele isibalo sabesifazane abafuna ukusilingisa. Kunina bathola imininingwane abazoyinaka kamuva, njengokulungela, ukugqoka nokugcoba.
Lokho okunamathiselwe nokuphepha ngakumama Kumele ixhunyaniswe nokukhuliswa okuhle, lapho izingane kufanele zinikezwe ukuphepha nothando oluningi. Musa ukudala okunamathiselwe ngokweqile. Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi kufanele zisabele kanjani uma umama engaziniki isixazululo kuqala noma ezixazulula ngqo. Njengoba intombazane incane, ungakwazi nikeza amathuluzi athile ukuze angakhulumi isibopho esikhulu kangako kumama. Ungahlala uxazulula ngokumtshela kubantu abasemvelweni yakhe ukuze azithobe kulolo thando noma lokho ube yingxenye yezinto ezithile ze-fetish ngakho-ke bazizwa bephephile uma benabo futhi bangakhohlwa. Ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngezihloko ezihlobene ungafaka "¿¿kuyini okunamathiselwe ngokomzwelo futhi kuqukethe ini?"Noma"ukubaluleka kokunamathiselwe empilweni"