Ezinye izingane azivuthiwe noma zinezimo eziningi zobuntwana ezicini ezithile, uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izingane ezingontanga yazo. Lokhu kungaba okujwayelekile ngokuphelele, ngoba ngasinye sinesilinganiso sokukhula nobuntu baso okubuye kube nomthelela ezingeni labo lokuvuthwa. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlola izimo zengqondo ezingaba wuphawu lokuxwayisa ukuthi okuthile akusebenzi ngendlela efanele.
Uma ingane yakho ibonakala ingakakhuli ngeminyaka yayo ngoba incike kakhulu, mhlawumbe ngoba iqala ukukhala lapho okuthile kungahambi kahle noma ngoba isimilo sayo sinobuntwana kakhulu kunezinye izingane ezingontanga yayo, kufanele ubheke ezinye izinhlobo zokuziphatha. Ukuvuthwa kwengane kulinganiswa hhayi kuphela ngobuntu bayo, kepha ngokwakhiwa kwamakhono athile okumele ahambisane nokukhula.
Wazi kanjani uma ingane yami ingakakhuli ngeminyaka yayo
Kunezinyathelo ezithile zokukhula kwengane okuyilezo ezisiza ukunquma ukukhula okufanele kwabafana namantombazane esigabeni ngasinye sobuntwana. Yize kungekhona ngokuqhathanisa nabo, kepha mayelana thola iphuzu lokhonkolo lapho ungabeka khona izinga lokukhula kwezingane. Isibonelo, kulinganiselwa ukuthi kusukela eminyakeni ethile izingane ngokujwayelekile zivuthwa ukuqeqeshwa ethoyilethi.
Okungasho ukuthi zonke izingane kufanele zikufinyelele eminyakeni efanayo. Njengabanye abaningi amakhono izingane okufanele azithuthukise, ukuqeqeshwa ethoyilethi kungukuvuthwa. Okungukuthi kuleli cala kuyisibonakaliso sokungavuthwa kwezinsana. Ngaphezu kwalokhu, kunezinye izingqinamba ezingaba uphawu lokuthi ingane iyiyo engakakhuli ngeminyaka yakhe.
- Izinkinga zolimi: Kusukela eminyakeni ethile kulindeleke ukuthi izingane zakhe imisho enamagama ama-2 noma ama-3. Ingane engakakhuli ngeminyaka yayo ingakhombisa ukubambezeleka kolimi noma ubunzima bokuchaza amagama anamalungu angaphezu kwelilodwa.
- Ukudidiyelwa kwezimoto okungekuhle: Izingane ezihlala njalo shayisana nezindonga futhi bajwayele ukukhubeka lapho behamba.
- Ukubambezeleka kokuqeqeshwa kwendlu yangasese: Esinye sezinyathelo ezihlobene kakhulu nokuvuthwa ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Ingane engakakhuli ngokwanele ngeminyaka yayo ingaba nayo unenkinga yokubeka inabukeni.
Zonke lezi zinkinga zihlobene nokungavuthwa ngokwengqondo futhi kungaba wuphawu lwenkinga okufanele ilashwe ngochwepheshe. Kusuka ekubambezelweni kokuvuthwa kuya kwi-Autism Spectrum Disorder, okumele ihlolwe ngudokotela wezingane ngokushesha okukhulu.
Ukungakhuli noma okwengane nje?
Kunezingane ezingavuthiwe, kepha zimane zinezingane kakhulu futhi zikubonisa ekuziphatheni kwazo. Lesi yisimo sezingane ezingazethembi, ezidinga ukunakwa njalo futhi bakholelwa ukuthi ngokuziphatha njengomntwana bazogcina lokho kunakwa kalula. Futhi ingahlotshaniswa neminyaka, ngoba esikoleni ingane ingaba nomehluko cishe wonyaka maqondana nabanye abafundi ofunda nabo.
Izingane ezingakakhuli ngeminyaka yazo zivame ukuziphatha ngendlela engafanele, kuya ngokuthi kulindeleke ini kuzo lapho zifinyelela eminyakeni ethile. Ukukhipha ezinye izinkinga zokuthuthuka, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuxhumana nodokotela wezingane. Ekhaya, ungasiza ingane yakho vuthwa ngezenzo nangemisebenzi ekusiza ukuba ukwazi ukuzimela.
Ukwenza uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ongazibophezela kulo futhi uthole ukuqiniswa okuhle ngemuva kwalokho kuyisiqalo. Ungazama futhi ukuxhumana nengane yakho, uzama ukuyenza ifunde ukuxhumana ngendlela ethe xaxa, ichaze ngomoya ophansi usuku lwayo nosuku. Khombisa intshisekelo ezintweni zabo, ukuze bazizwe bebalulekile. Lapho ingane yakho iziphatha kahle, mklomelise ngamazwi amahle, ngoba lapho-ke uzoqonda ukuthi nansi indlela ukuthola ukunakwa kwakho nokungaziphathi njengengane.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, hamba nengane yakho endleleni yokukhula. Msize akhule, asebenze nokuzethemba kwakhe ukuze azizwe ekwazi ukwenza noma yini. Ngoba ukuzithanda kufanele kukhuthazwe ukuze izingane zifunde ukuzazisa futhi bakholelwe kubo uqobo. Lesi yisinyathelo sokuqala sokuba ingane yakho ibe ingane evuthiwe nezizimele.