Kungenzeka ukuthi uqale uhambo lwakho lokuba ngumama noma lobaba ngemibono ethile yokuthi izingane nezinsana kufanele babe kanjani. Eqinisweni, eziningi zalezi zinkolelo zivela ngokwabelana ngolwazi nabanye abazali abanezingane.
Kuyadingeka ukuthi ushintshe le ndlela yokucabanga futhi uqede yonke imiqondo ongase ube nayo. Olunye lwezinguquko zokuqala emcabangweni wakho ukungazinaki ukuthi izingane kufanele "zenze" kanjani futhi zigxile enganeni yakho… Okudingwa yingane yakho akumele kube yilokho okudingwa abanye.
Mhlawumbe ezinye izingane zizolala ubusuku bonke kanti ezakho ngeke zilale, futhi lokho akusho ukuthi kukhona okubi okufanele kwenzeke. Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, uzobona ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuyibuka ikhula futhi ichithe isikhathi nayo.
Ingane yakho izokhula uzoba ingane futhi aqhubeke nokukhula. Umlingo wokuba ngumzali uthola ukuthi ingane ngayinye ihluke kanjani nokuthi ikunikeza kanjani impilo ngokubuka nje ubuso bayo. Akudingekile ukumodela izingane ukulingana amamodeli 'ajwayelekile' anikezwa ngumphakathi, lokho akuyona into yangempela.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ushintshe okulindele emaphethini akho okulala, kulokho okufanele ukwazi ngempilo nokuthi ugxila kangcono ekutheni ungawakhulisa kanjani amakhono okubhekana nokubhekana nokuthi unjani umntanakho nokuthi yini ayidingayo kuwe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Lapho izinyanga ezimbalwa sezidlulile selokhu ingane yakho yazalwa emhlabeni, uzoqala ukubona ukuthi ukuba nayo kuyinto enhle kunazo zonke ezake zenzeka kuwe. Izokufundisa izifundo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuba ngumzali ongasoze wazifunda uma unengane yokuhlala eningi. Ukubekezela kwakho kuzoqiniswa futhi ukubopha kwakho nengane yakho nakho kuzoqiniswa.