Ukuba ngumama nowesifazane namuhla kuwumsebenzi ongenasiphelo, ongapheli. Kuyafakazelwa ukuthi abesifazane abasebenza ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya bahlushwa amazinga aphezulu kakhulu okuxineka nokuzizwa benecala. Njengokungathi wonke umthwalo obukubo ubungeke wenele, bazibeka icala ngokungakwazi ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yabo ngokuphelele. Ake sibone ukuthi unjani ingcindezi yokuba ngumama nowesifazane.
Owesifazane Ophelele
Umphakathi ulindele ukuthi sinakekele izingane zethu sengathi asinamsebenzi, futhi sisebenze sengathi asibona omama. Futhi lokho akunakwenzeka ngokuphelele. Asikwazi ukusebenza amahora angama-36 ngosuku. Asiwona amarobhothi futhi asizenzisi. Singabantu abanamandla alinganiselwe okumele zihlukaniswe ukuze zikwazi ukufinyelela kukho konke. Futhi lokhu kudinga kwangaphandle, kanye nesidingo sangaphakathi, kubangela ukucindezeleka kukhule kakhulu.
Uma ufika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, umsebenzi uqhubeka unganqamuki. Imishini yokuwasha, ukudla kwakusihlwa, ukugeza, ukuthukuthela ... okunye ukwenza amandla okuthatha amandla wokugcina osele nawo. Asikho isikhathi esisele sakho, sizibeka ngemuva bese sibeka i-automatic. Ukukhathala njalo kushiya umuzwa wokudinwa kwengqondo okuwumthelela emzimbeni.
Ukubuyisana phakathi kwempilo yomsebenzi nokuba ngumama namuhla kuseyinto enhle ngeshwa. Futhi abesifazane abaningi kufanele banqume phakathi kwecala lokushiya izingane zabo zisencane kakhulu, noma ukungakwazi ukuthuthukisa imisebenzi yabo yobungcweti.
Ukuba ngumama kunzima
Uma sesivele sisezweni esikulo, kunzima ukuba ngowesifazane (uphahla lwengilazi, ukubandlululwa ngokocansi, amaholo aphansi), kunjalo kakhulu uma nathi singomama. Basithumela izimpawu zazo zonke izinto ezidinga ukwenziwa ukuze ube ngumama okahle, imbewu ebuchosheni bakho yokuthi uma ungakwenzi lokho, awukwenzi kahle. Ingcindezi ihlala njalo.
Sesivele sazi ukuthi ukucindezela okuqhubekayo kuthinta umzimba nengqondo yethu ngendlela enesihluku. Ngaphezu kwe kuthinta ukulala kwethu, ukusebenza, ukugxila namandla, kusithinta ku ukugaya kwethu ukudla, kwandisa ikhanda nobuhlungu bemisipha, futhi kudala izifo noma kubi izifo ezazivele zikhona.
Asiphelele
Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ake sivume ukulinganiselwa kwethu. Lokho siyabona ukuthi sinamandla alinganiselwe okumele siwaphathe. Futhi ukuthi kuzo zonke izibopho zethu asikwazi ukuzikhohlwa. Labo bethu abadonsa inqola, labo esisezansi komhosha nabo badinga isikhathi sethu. I-bubble bath, incwadi enhle, ingilazi yewayini, ukudansa, ukudlala imidlalo. Zinike izikhathi zakho, ukunqamula, ngezinto ozijabulelayo. Ukuxhumana nawe futhi. Ukuyeka ukuba ngumama futhi ubuyele ekubeni uwena.
Akubona bonke abantu abazwakalisa ukucindezeleka ngendlela efanayo. Kunabantu ebanika ukuthi badle, abanye ngokuphambene nalokho, kwabanye ithatha ubuthongo bese ibanikeza abanye. Kufanele sifunde ukulalela imizimba yethu ukuze sibone ukukhanya kwethrafikhi. Yazi ukuthi umzimba wethu uphendula kanjani uma sicindezelekile futhi sikuliphi izinga. Ngakho-ke singama ngaphambi kokushiswa bese iya kokuningi. Uma ungakwazi wedwa, unganqikazi ukucela usizo lochwepheshe. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singakusiza ubhekane kangcono nengcindezi nezimpawu zako.
Kufanele yeka ukuzifunela okwakho nathi. Yeka ukuzama ukuba ngumama ophelele, owesifazane ophelele, kanye nomsebenzi ophelele. Ukuphelela akukho. Kuzofanele sithole ibhalansi lapho sizizwa sikhululekile khona, sabela imithwalo yemfanelo ekhaya, sakha okusemqoka, sahlukanisa phakathi kwezinto eziphuthumayo nezingenasidingo kangako, sizihlele kahle. Yiba namaqiniso ngokwengeziwe kulokho esikulindele.
Zihalalisele ngakho konke osukuzuzile, ungazishayi isifuba bese wenza kabusha. Impilo imfushane kakhulu.
Ngoba khumbula ... ukwenza izinto zishintshe ngaphandle, kufanele siqale ngokuziguqula.