Esinye sezizathu ukuthi izingane zivame ukungazimele yingoba nje azicaci ngalokho ezinelungelo lokukulindela kwabanye abantu. Kuyakhokhela ukusiza izingane zesikole ukuthi zibhale umthethosivivinywa wamalungelo abantu ukuze ukwazi ukufeza umqondo othile wokucaca ngale ndaba.
Izingane zidinga ukunquma ukuthi zinelungelo lini, yiziphi izindinganiso okufanele zigcinwe, nokuthi umugqa uphakathi kokuziphatha okwamukelekayo nokungamukeleki.
Inhlonipho
Inhlonipho iyinto esemqoka ekuqinisekiseni, kepha isimilo sokuzethemba ngokweqiniso akusikho nje ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhloniphayo kwabanye; kumayelana nokubonisa inhlonipho ekusebenzelaneni kwakho nabo.
Enye yezinzuzo zokuzinika isikhathi sokucabanga ngamalungelo akho uqobo ukuthi inika nezingane imihlahlandlela ecacile mayelana ukuthi bangaziphatha kanjani ngendlela ehlonipha amalungelo abanye abantu.
Lapho ingane yakho iqhamuke nezimiso ezinhlanu kuya kweziyishumi abajabule ngazo, zinike isikhathi ukuzibhala ngokucophelela. Mhlawumbe ungahlela ngisho nedokhumenti bese uyibeka kwenye indawo uzoyibona nsuku zonke. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi yenze lo msebenzi ngendlela yayo, kepha uma isikweletu kufanele sisebenze Njengesilinganiso esisebenzisekayo sokuziphatha okuqinile, kufanele ufake ezinye zalezi zimiso ezilandelayo. Nginelungelo:
- Ukusho engikucabangayo
- Ukuveza imizwa yami nezifiso zami
- Phathwa ngenhlonipho
- Phila impilo yami ngaphandle kokuxhashazwa noma ukusetshenziswa
- Ukuba yimina uqobo
- Ukuvikela amalungelo ami
- Hlonipha amalungelo abanye
- Ukusebenzisa amakhono namakhono ami
- Ukukhetha ukuthi ngiphendula kanjani kwabanye abantu
Hlala wazi ukuthi inqubo yokuqina kakhudlwana nokuthola indawo emnandi phakathi kokuzethemba nolaka yinto izingane ezingathatha isikhathi ukuyiphelelisa. Kwesinye isikhathi izimo abahlangana nazo ebaleni lokudlala zingaphonsela inselelo ngisho nakumuntu oziqhenya kakhulu. Yiba khona ukuze uthole ukusekelwa nezeluleko noma nini lapho kudingeka.