Izinguquko ebusheni ziyenzeka, kuyinto engenakugwenywa ... izinguquko zamahomoni kanye nokukhula kwazo ukuqinisa ubuwena kwenza imfundo ibe yinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Ukuyala okuhle kuzoba ngumlingani wakho omkhulu ukuze izingane zakho ezisencane zisendleleni efanele. Noma kuyiqiniso ukuthi izenzo zengane yakho zingalindeleka, futhi kwesinye isikhathi zingabikho endaweni, Isiyalo, yize sibukeka siyinselelo, singafinyelelwa.
Indodana yakho emnandi isibe yintsha enezimo eziguquguqukayo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ama-hormone ahlala kuyo amenza abe nesimo sengqondo esingesihle neze. Intsha izama ukuzazi ukuthi ingobani futhi lokhu kukhonjiswa ngendlela abagqoka ngayo, izitayela zezinwele ngisho nokuphuza utshwala -into eyenza abazali abaningi bakhathazeke futhi kunesizathu esizwakalayo.
Intsha idinga ukuzizwa ivikelekile futhi ivikelekile ngenkathi izama ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani ngalesi sikhathi esididayo ezimpilweni zayo. Ukuziphatha okuhle kudlala indima enkulu kukho konke lokhu. Khumbula ukuthi njengobaba noma umama awuyena umngane wezingane zakho, badinga ukuthi ube ngumhlahlandlela nesiqondiso sabo futhi angalokothi alingane… lokhu kuzomenza azizwe edidekile futhi elahlekile.
Uma ufuna ukusebenzisa isiyalo esihle nezingane zakho, kufanele ucabangele amaphuzu alandelayo emfundweni yansuku zonke:
- Sungula imithetho ndawonye, ngakho-ke izingane zakho zizoyazi imingcele futhi uzokwazi ukuthi ziyizwisisile.
- Ukukhulumisana okuhle kutholakala ngokulalela nokuhlonipha ingane yakho.
- Yakha ubuhlobo obuhle, khombisa intshisekelo ezintweni ezithandwa ingane yakho.
- Vumelanani ngemiphumela uma imithetho yephuliwe. Lapho bephuka, hlisa umoya ulalele konke okushiwo yingane yakho kuwe.. Thola imiphumela ndawonye bese nisingatha isimo ... Kuhle ukuthi unikeze ingane yakho ithuba lesibili lokumnika ithuba lokuzama futhi futhi ufunde emaphutheni.