Izici ezinomthelela ekuziphatheni kwezingane

Ingane ingaziphatha ngandlela thile ngokuya ngezici ezahlukahlukene ezingamthonya kuyo yonke impilo yakhe emfushane. Kunezingane ezingajikijela isilinganisi noma zithukuthele lapho zingakwazanga ukuthola okuthile, kodwa kukhona nabanye futhi abamukela ukwenqatshwa kokuthile okuhle. Kunezici ezithile ezingaba nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwezingane futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi uzinakekele ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungani beziphatha ngandlela thile kunokunye.

Ifa lofuzo

Ifa lofuzo lidlala indima ebalulekile ekuziphatheni kwezingane. Ungaqaphela ukuthi isimo sengane yakho sifana nesakho noma sozakwenu… futhi lokhu kujwayelekile.  Uma ungumuntu onenkani, akufanele umangale lapho ingane yakho ithukuthele. lapho izinto zingahambi ngendlela afuna ngayo. Uma ungumuntu osebenzayo noma otatazelayo, kufanele futhi ukhumbule ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi nengane yakho ... ungakhathazeki ngalokhu, vele uqonde indlela aziphethe ngayo ngokuzibheka wena noma umlingani wakho, uzoqonda izinto eziningi!

Ukuziphatha kwabazali

Ukuziphatha kwabazali nakho kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba kuyithonya elikhulu ekuziphatheni kwezingane nesimo sabo sengqondo ngempilo. Ngalo mqondo, udinga ukucabanga ngaphambi kokwenza izinto nokuthi uyakhumbula ukuthi lawo mehlo amancane akubhekile athule ... futhi afunda kukho konke okwenzayo noma okushoyo.

Noma ngabe usiza umuntu osekhulile ukuthi awele umgwaqo, amemezele esiminyaminyeni sezimoto, noma amemeze umlingani wakho noma ingane yakho, uzobe ebuka konke okwenzayo noma okushoyo. Izingane zakho zizofunda kuwe ukuthi zenzenjani ezimweni ezahlukahlukene ngakho-ke kuyadingeka (noma kunalokho kubalulekile) ukuthi ucabangisise ngezenzo zakho nangamazwi akho.

Ukuzethemba kwezingane nokuzethemba kwakho nakho kuzothonywa ngqo yizenzo zabazali bazo. Uma ungumuntu ohlale ekhononda ngayo yonke into, ungangabazi ukuthi nengane yakho izokhala. Uma uhlala ekudleni noma uthi unonile esikhundleni sokuzamukela njengoba unjalo, kuzofanele uqaphele ngoba izingane zakho zingaba nomthelela kulokhu okushoyo futhi okubi kunakho konke, ukuthi imiphumela iwela kubo ngqo (futhi uhlushwa uhlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka). Kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane zakho zibone kuwe isibonelo sokuzethemba okuhle nokubhekana kahle nempilo.

Abezindaba

Ngisho nezingane ezisencane zihlala zivezwa inqwaba yemidiya yezokuxhumana, ukukhangisa okuningi kanye nemiyalezo engaphansi kakhulu ezimweni eziningi engaba yingozi ekukhuleni kwayo. Izingane ezineminyaka esukela ezinyangeni eziyi-15 ziyakwazi ukuphindaphinda izindlela eziziphatha ezizibona kuthelevishini... ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi ukhethe okuqukethwe okubona esibukweni ngokucophelela okukhulu. Yize izithombe zingabonakala zingenacala, uma ingane yakho ibona ukuthi abalingiswa ababili bayalwa, kungenzeka ukuthi izifunde lezi zimilo, futhi okufanayo kuya ngamagama angcolile.

Lapho izingane sezikhulile, kuyadingeka ukuthi zikuqonde lokho okushicilelwa kwabezindaba nokuthi yini inhloso yangempela yento ngayinye. Amantombazane amaningi anenkinga yokudla ngenxa yokubona amahle adumile futhi ekhazimulayo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ebona amamodeli amancane kakhulu ... Ithelevishini ibenza bakholelwe ukuthi uma bengebahle ngeke bakwazi ukuphumelela. Abafana bangaqonda ngephutha ukuthi uma bengenayo imali, umzimba osebenza kahle, imoto enhle, noma izinto ezibonakalayo, nabesifazane ngeke baphumelele.

Kufanele uqaphele kakhulu ukuthi izingane zithatha ini ekukhangiseni nakwabezindaba, kuyadingeka ukuthi ukwazi ukukhetha kahle izinhlelo zethelevishini ukuze nabo babone ukuthi izindinganiso ezidluliselwa ekhaya ziyahambisana nomphakathi olinganiselayo. Ngalo mqondo, kuyadingeka ukubachazela ukuthi ukukhangisa kwenzelwa ukuthengisa nokuthi izinhlayiya zobuhle zikude kakhulu neqiniso (ngisho nakumamodeli athwathwa kabusha kuthelevishini noma abonwe komagazini).

Imvelo nabangane

Elinye lamathonya amakhulu akhona ezinganeni futhi elinomthelela omkhulu ekuziphatheni kwabo nasekucabangeni kwabo, imvelo nabangane (noma ofunda nabo). Ukuxhumana okuqondile nabanye kuzokwenza ingane yakho iziphathe ngandlela thile, abantu banesidingo sokuzizwa bamukelekile eqenjini futhi mhlawumbe emzamweni wokwenza izingane zibamukele zingase ziziphathe ngendlela engafanele ukuze zijabulise ontanga noma abangane bazo.

Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki, kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane zizizwe ziyingxenye yeqembu: umndeni wazo. Ukuthi banezimiso ezinhle nokuthi kusukela ebuntwaneni bafundisiwe benaka ukucabanga okubucayi futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuthi bafunde ukuzenzela izinqumo. A) Yebo unokuzethemba okwanele namandla angaphakathi ukwamukela ukugxekwa abanye futhi uthi cha lapho okuthile kungamthandi, noma ngabe kusho ukusuka eqenjini lontanga.

Kepha njengoba osebenza nabo nabangane bangaba nethonya elibi, zingaba nethonya elihle, ngakho-ke akuyona yonke into okufanele ibe yimbi. Ngale ndlela, kuyadingeka ukufundisa izingane ukuze zithole izindlela lapho zikhetha abangani bazo, ukuthi zingakwamukeli okungabenzi bazizwe kahle nokuthi bazi ukuthi akunandaba uma bengenabo abangane abaningi , ngoba kubalulekile Okubalulekile ukuthi bangabangani abaqotho.

Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho iziphatha ngendlela ethile futhi ithonywe okuthile ngokukhethekile? Ucabanga ukuthi yini engaba nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwabo?