Ngoba yizingane kuphela ezichitha isikhathi esiningi zodwa, ziyazijabulisa futhi zivame ukuba nobuciko kunabo bonke ama-oda wokuzalwa. Njengezelamani ezindala, bayazethemba, bakhulume kahle, banake imininingwane, futhi bathambekele ekwenzeni kahle esikoleni. Futhi, ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nabantu abadala kuvame ukwenza izingane kuphela zenze "njengabantu abadala abancane."
Izingane kuphela ezingakaze kudingeke zincintisane nokunakwa ngabazali bazo noma zabelane ngamathoyizi nezingane zakubo, ngakho-ke baba sengozini yokuthola umugqa wokuzicabangela bona. Zijwayele ukuzizwa zibalulekile futhi zingaba nobunzima lapho izinto zingahambi ngendlela yazo. Ngoba izibonelo zakho zingabantu abadala abanekhono, izingane kuphela ezisengozini yokuphelela kunamazibulo.
Ukukhulisa ingane okuwukuphela kwayo
Ukubheka ubuntu izingane ezivame ukuba nazo (kepha ukwazi ukuthi ngayinye ine-idiosyncrasy yayo nokuthi izakhi zofuzo nemvelo nakho kunendima ebalulekile), Okulandelayo sizokunikeza amanye amathiphu okwenza ukukhuliswa kwabo kube lula.
- Njengoba bengajwayele ukwabelana nezinye izingane ekhaya, yizingane kuphela ikakhulukazi ezingazuza emidlalweni yamaqembu.
- Izingane kuphela ezincike ekupheleleni, ngakho-ke imodeli yamukela amaphutha akho. Mkhumbuze ukuthi awukwazanga ukusika umbuthano ophelele eminyakeni yakhe.
- Ungasebenzisi wonke amathuba ukumfundisa indlela engcono yokwenza okuthile; Uma welula umbhede ngemibimbi ethile, ungaphinde uwenze. Awufuni ukuthumela umyalezo wokuthi akakafiki kulo msebenzi angakwazi ukwenza izinto.
- Mvumele ahlanganyele nezinye izingane ezingontanga yakhe, njengabangane, abazala ...
Izingane eziyizingane kuphela zingakhuliswa kahle noma zingenazo izingane zakubo, ungazichazela izinto futhi uziqondise endleleni yokuphila.