Lapho kufika ihlobo, abazali abaningi bacabanga ngamathuba okubhalisa izingane zabo emakamu ukuze bakwazi ukujabulela izinsuku zabo zokuphumula ngenkathi befunda, bazijabulise futhi benze nabangane. Imvamisa inketho abazali abasebenzayo abayazisayo ukuze izingane zabo ungakuqapheli ukungabikho kwabo kakhulu ngenkathi kufanele babe kude nasekhaya ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi.
Kepha hhayi noma yiliphi ikamu elizosebenza, kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane ziphephe futhi zijabule emakamu, ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokubhalisa izingane zakho kwelinye bese ukhokha imali, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi ikhempu enhle nokuthi ihlangabezana nochungechunge lwezidingo ezibalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho zizonakekelwa kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ochwepheshe abaneziqu ezihambisanayo
Kungenzeka kube nabantu abaningi abathanda ukuchitha isikhathi nezingane futhi abazijabulisa nabo ngokwenza izinto zokudlala. Kodwa ukuchitha isikhathi nabo akufani nokuchitha izinsuku eziningana ekunakekelweni kwabo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi ngobani abazokuba ngabantu abazoba nezingane zakho ekamu.
Kudingeka babe ochwepheshe bezempilo, bezemfundo nabangcebeleka. Vele, kufanele babe neziqu zabo ezihambelanayo nolwazi lomsebenzi. Lapho bezochitha izinsuku eziningana nezingane ngaphandle kwemizi yabo nasendaweni ekude yasekhaya Kuyadingeka ukuthi abantu abadala ababaphethe babe nolwazi oludingekayo ukwazi ukuhambela kuzo zonke izimo.
Ukuqeqeshwa kwabaqaphi
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyadingeka futhi ukuthi ochwepheshe babe nokuqeqeshwa kwabaqaphi kanye nesikhathi samahhala sokuqinisekisa ukuthi bayayazi yonke imithetho, usizo lokuqala nokuthi baqeqeshelwa isikhathi sokuphumula nesikhathi samahhala. Ekuqeqeshweni kwabaqaphi awukwazi ukuphuthelwa ukuqeqeshwa okuqhubekayo ukuze bakwazi ukusebenzisa kabusha ulwazi futhi ngaleyo ndlela bakwazi ukufunda izinto eziningi ukuze kusizakale izingane ezisekhempini.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekuqeqeshweni kwabaqaphi, kufanele kucace bha ukuthi isilinganiso sabafundi kumuntu omdala ophethe siyini. Kuyadingeka ukuthi nabazali bayazi le datha ukuze bazi ukuthi uma inani elithile lezingane lihamba lapho kuzofanele kube khona ochwepheshe abaningi futhi ngokukhethekile ukuze bakwazi ukumboza zonke izimo ezingase zivele.
Sula izinyathelo zokuphepha
Uma ufuna ukuthola mayelana nekamu, kufanele bakuchazele ukuthi yiziphi izindlela zokuphepha eziyoba khona uma izingane zakho sezikhona. Uma banewebhusayithi, kubalulekile ukuthi bachaze ngokusobala ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo zokuphepha zansuku zonke eziyoba nakuwo ngamunye wemisebenzi abayilungiselele ukuyenza.
Kuyaphinda futhi, ukubaluleka kochwepheshe abaneziqu ezihambisanayo kuyathathwa, ngoba ulwazi nesipiliyoni kubalulekile ukuze bakwazi ukulandela kahle izindlela zokuphepha ezisunguliwe. Uma uzwa ukuthi kukhona okungahambelani, unelungelo lokucela izincazelo, ukuphepha kwezingane kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Izindinganiso Nezinkambiso Zekamu
Amakamu angalandela amanani nemigomo ehlukene, ukuze ukwazi ukukhomba izingane zakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi konke kuzolunga. Kufanele kube yizindinganiso ezihambisana nemibono yakho yokuba ngumzali noma ezithuthukisa izinto ofuna izingane zakho zizifunde ngendlela yokudlala nejabulisayo.
Isibonelo, kunamakamu akhuthaza izindinganiso zobuKristu noma zenkolo ngokugcizelela emisebenzini ebathuthukisayo. Abanye bangenza imisebenzi noma bathambekele ekufundeni ulimi olusha, abanye ukuqinisa isibopho nemvelo, abanye mhlawumbe ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle nezimo zengqondo ezifanele ngempilo ... Kuwo wonke la makamu kumele babe nochwepheshe abangafeza imisebenzi ngokusho kwalawa magugu nokuthi ukwenza ngcono akuyona into eyenzekayo. Le misebenzi kufanele ihlelwe kusengaphambili ukuze abazali bayazi futhi bahlole ukuthi ngabe yimisebenzi efanele izingane zabo noma cha.
Uhlakaniphile ngokomzwelo
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi i-Emotional Intelligence ibhekwe ekamu. Kulezi zindawo izingane eziningi zivame ukuhlangana futhi kufanele kube nokuhlalisana okuhle kohlangothi lwabantu abadala kanye nezingane futhi kuqinisekiswe ukuthi lokho okuhlangenwe nakho kuzoba yinto enhle kubo bonke abantwana abaya ekhempini. Inhloso enkulu ukuthi ngaphezu kokuthuthukisa amanani nokwenza imisebenzi ehlongozwayo, nakho Kumele kusetshenzelwe imizwa ukuze izingane zizizwe zizinhle ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukuze usebenze ngemizwa, kuzobaluleka ukuyibhekisisa kuyo yonke imisebenzi eyenziwayo kungakhathalekile ukuthi iyini ingqimba yekamu. Ngokunjalo, kuzodingeka ukuthi kusetshenzwe ekuxazululeni izingxabano ukuze sikwazi ukunikeza amasu anele empilweni yansuku zonke. Ukuba khona kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane noma uchwepheshe wezemfundo engokomzwelo phakathi kwabaqeqeshi bekamu kungaqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kusetshenzwa kahle nokuthi izingane zifunde izifundo ezinhle zempilo yansuku zonke emakhaya azo nasekusebenzisaneni nabanye.
Amamenyu afanele wonke umuntu
Esinye isici esibaluleke ngempela okufanele wonke amakamu asicabangele ngamamenyu ezingane. Namuhla kunezingane ezinesifo sikashukela, isifo se-celiac noma ukungezwani komzimba okuningi futhi ochwepheshe abasebenza ekamu kumele bakunake konke lokhu ukugwema izingozi ezimpilweni zezingane. Kuyadingeka ukuthi uma kunezingane ezinesifo sikashukela, isifo se-celiac noma ezinye izinhlobo zokucatshangelwa ezizocatshangelwa, kufanele zibe namamenyu azenele futhi zithathe izinyathelo zokuphepha ezidingekayo.
Futhi, kubalulekile ukuba nezinye izinketho zemenyu ezitholakalayo njengalezo ezimaka izindlela zokuphila ezahlukene njengokudla imifino. Kuningi imindeni elandela le modeli yokuphakela nezingane ziyayilandelaNgakho-ke, zonke izinhlobo zamamenyu kufanele zinikezwe ngokuya ngezimpawu zezingane eziza ekamu.
Ukungafihli lutho kuyo yonke imininingwane
Ngaphezu kwakho konke okuxoxwe ngakho kuze kube manje, kuzobaluleke kakhulu ukuthi inhlangano ephethe ikhempu icaciswe ngokuphelele futhi ibe sobala kulwazi, ukuthi inawo wonke amaphepha ahlelekile nokuthi iyinkampani esungulwe kahle ekuhlinzeka ukuphepha ngaphezu kwakho konke.
Yini enye ocabanga ukuthi kufanele ibhekwe ngaphambi kokubhalisela izingane ekhempini?
Yeka imininingwane ephelele! Ngiyabonga ngalokhu okuthunyelwe. Iqiniso ukuthi ukunakekela izingane ezinkambeni zasehlobo noma emakoloni kungumsebenzi omkhulu, futhi kunezikhathi lapho abazali bebheka kuphela izici zokudlala kakhulu, ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi kunemininingwane eminingi okumele iphathwe ukunikela ngekhwalithi nokuphepha.
Isikhathi samahhala noma ukuqeqeshwa kwezokungcebeleka kusakhohliwe kakhulu, futhi izinkampani ezisebenza kulo mkhakha (ikakhulukazi lezo ezenza kahle) ziyakwazi: ukuhlela, umshuwalense, ukuqeqeshwa kosizo lokuqala, ukukhethwa kwabaqaphi, ukunaka imizwa (njengoba usho) izingane ... ngike ngabona nabaqaphi okuthi ngemuva kwamahora okusebenza banakekele abazali kube sengathi kufundisa (kanti bayimisebenzi yesikhashana).
Le misebenzi ihlanganisa isidingo esikhulu senhlalo (abancane baseholidini futhi abazali abekho), kepha kulezi zinsuku akusenziwa nganoma iyiphi indlela, kodwa ngentando yensizakalo enikeza izinzuzo eziningi, futhi ikwenza ngesikhathi mfushane kakhulu kunonyaka wesikole.
Ngikholwa ukuthi i-athikili ifeza izinhloso ezimbili: ukuncoma ukuthi abazali babheke ikhwalithi nokuphepha, nokwenza umsebenzi obonakalayo lapho abaqaphi abaningi, abaqaphi abaningi (noma abaxhumanisi) bebeka inkohliso enkulu.
A ukubingelela.