Abazali bayesaba ngokuqondakalayo lapho indodana noma indodakazi yabo ingafinyeleli ezinqubweni ezibalulekile zentuthuko ngesikhathi esifanayo nontanga yabo. Kunengqopha-mlando eyodwa ikakhulukazi abazali abakhathazeke ngayo kakhulu: ukufunda ukukhuluma. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukubambezeleka kolimi noma ukuphazamiseka kwenkulumo kuzoba nomthelela wesikhathi eside emandleni engane okuphumelela esikoleni nangale kwalokho. Kodwa isimo esibizwa ngokuthi i-Einstein syndrome sibonisa ukuthi lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kulokhu, kungathiwa izingane eziphuza ukukhuluma zihlakaniphe kakhulu.
I-Einstein syndrome iqanjwe ngo-Albert Einstein, inhlakanipho eqinisekisiwe futhi, ngokusho kwabanye babalobi bokuphila kwakhe, isikhulumi sekwephuzile esingazange sikhulume imisho ephelele ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-5. Uma sithatha u-Einstein njengesibonelo, kwakucatshangwa ukuthi izingane eziqala ukukhuluma kamuva zihlakaniphe kakhulu., elandela ezinyathelweni zalo sosayensi odumile. Noma kunjalo, kuseyindaba ekhathaza abazali.
Ingabe izingane eziqala ukukhuluma kamuva zihlakaniphe kakhulu?
I-Einstein syndrome yisimo lapho a ingane izwa ukufika sekwephuzile kolimi kodwa ikhombise ukuzithoba kwezinye izindawo zokucabanga kokuhlaziya. Ingane ene-Einstein syndrome iyakwazi ukukhuluma ngaphandle kwezinkinga, kodwa ihlale iphambili kwezinye izindawo. Nakuba ukukhuluma sekwephuzile kungase kube uphawu lwe-autism noma ezinye izimo zokukhula, kunamaphesenti abalulekile abafana namantombazane akhuluma sekwephuzile kodwa abese enza kangcono kakhulu, okubonisa ukuba ongqondongqondo abahlaziyayo nabakhiqizayo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi akubanga khona ucwaningo olwanele ngalesi sifo. Itemu elichazayo elingenayo incazelo okuvunyelwene ngayo noma imibandela yezokwelapha, okwenza kube nzima ukucwaninga. Ngempela asazi ukuthi lesi simo sisakazeke kangakanani, uma siwufuzo noma imvelo, noma uma sivela nezinye izimo njengoba i-autism, okubangela ukubambezeleka kolimi nenkulumo. Kukholakala ukuthi iphesenti lezingane okutholwe ukuthi zikhuluma sekwephuzile liyakudlula lokhu kubambezeleka kokukhula futhi zibonakalisa ukuthi zinesiphiwo futhi zikhanya ngendlela emangalisayo. Lezi zingane zizoba abantu abazozifaka phakathi kwe-Einstein syndrome, futhi ezimweni zazo kungaba yiqiniso ukuthi izingane eziqala ukukhuluma sekwephuzile zihlakaniphe kakhulu.
Ucwaningo lwabantu selukhombisile ukuthi iphesenti elincane kuphela lezingane eziqala ukukhuluma sekwephuzile ezine-autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Kodwa odokotela abaningi bazama ukubheka izimpawu ezengeziwe ze-autism ezinganeni ezikhuluma sekwephuzile, kunokuzama ukukhipha isimo. Ngakho-ke enganeni ekhuluma sekwephuzile engenazo ezinye izimo ezicashile, ukuhlonzwa kwe-ASD ngeke kube okunembile futhi izindlela zokwelapha ezinconyiwe ngeke ziphumelele.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane iphuza ukukhuluma?
Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi indodana noma indodakazi yakho ingaba ne ukubambezeleka kokukhuluma, isinyathelo sokuqala okufanele usithathe ukuya kudokotela wakho wezingane. Udokotela wakho uzokwenza ukuhlolwa okuphelele kwezokwelapha futhi akuxhumanise ne-pathologist yolimi lokukhuluma kanye nabanye ochwepheshe uma kunesidingo. Ochwepheshe abaningi bayavuma ukuthi ukungenelela kusenesikhathi kubalulekile. Ngakho-ke, ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukusola ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yakho ayifinyeleli ekukhulumeni ngendlela efanele, hamba uye kudokotela wayo wezingane ukuze uthole ukuthi yini engalungile. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi kungase kudlule izikhathi eziningana ngaphambi kokuba kutholakale ukuxilongwa.
Ungesabi ukungavumelani nokuxilongwa uma ucabanga ukuthi akulungile. Uma wazi ukuthi ingane yakho iyaphendula lapho ukhuluma nayo futhi ibamba iqhaza emhlabeni oyizungezile, ukuxilongwa kwe-ASD kungase kungalungile. Ngaphambi kokufika kulelo phuzu, ukuzwa kungase kuhlolwe ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi akukho ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba lokho kuvimbela ingane ukuthi ikhulume.
Iyiphi impatho engaphathwa ingane ephuza ukukhuluma?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yakho ine-Einstein syndrome, i-ASD, noma uhlobo oluthile lokulibaziseka kwenkulumo, kufanele iqale ukwelashwa ukuze kuthuthukiswe isimo. Kodwa ngaphezu kokwelashwa ngochwepheshe, kukhona nemisebenzi engenziwa ekhaya khuthaza ingane ukuthi iqale ukusho amagama amaningi. Ukwelashwa kuzofanelana nohlobo lokubambezeleka onalo njengoba kuboniswa ukuhlola kwakho.
Ngokwesibonelo, indodana noma indodakazi yakho ingase itholakale inokubambezeleka kolimi, lapho inenkinga yokukhuluma kodwa ikuqonda okushiwoyo futhi iphendule. Kulokhu, ungathola uhlu lwemisebenzi enconyiwe ekhaya kanye nokwelashwa kwenkulumo okusemthethweni. Ukubambezeleka kolimi okuvezayo nokwamukelayo kungase kudinge ukuhlolwa okwengeziwe kanye nokwelashwa okujulile, ngoba umntwana wayengeke abe nobunzima bokukhuluma nje kuphela kodwa nokuqonda.