Njengoba wazi, namuhla (nangesikhathi samahora ambalwa) uJuana Rivas uzinikele kwezobulungiswa, futhi unikezwe ukukhululwa kwesikhashana; wenze lokhu okugcina kungenze ngabubula ngokukhululeka. Kepha angizukungena kuwo ngoba lokhu esikhuluma ngakho kulokhu okuthunyelwe kumayelana nalawo madodakazi namadodana, izisulu ezingabonakali ze i-violencia de género, kwesinye isikhathi ezibhekwa njengesandiso somama wabo, futhi Ubudlova benziwa kubo futhi ngenhloso yokuxhaphaza nokuhlupheka. kwalokhu.
Kusukela ngoJuni odlule Izingane ezi-6 zazibulewe abazali bazo, njengomphumela wochungechunge lweziqephu zokuhlukunyezwa nodlame; Kwezinye izimo umhlukumezi usebenzisa izimvume ezinikezwe kuhulumeni wokuvakasha (noma asebenzise ilungelo lokuhlala ndawonye) ukuqeda izimpilo zezingane zakhe. Kulinganiselwa ukuthi unyaka nonyaka amadodakazi namadodana abesifazane abahlukunyezwayo angama-840000 bathola imiphumela yobudlova obusekelwe ebulilini (540000 ngqo). Eqinisweni kufayela le- Isivumelwano Sombuso sokulwa nodlame lobulili lokho kwasayinwa ngenyanga kaJulayi, sezivele zifakiwe njengezinyathelo zokuqedwa kokugcinwa ndawonye kwabanukubeziwe, umbuso wokuvakashelwa, kanye nokuvakashelwa ejele ukuze izingane zibone umzali.
Kuphakanyiswa futhi ukucindezela ukunciphisa izigwebo ngokuhlukumeza (ukubuyisela umonakalo noma ukuvuma icala). Sishilo ngezikhathi ezithile ukuthi Udlame LoBulili (udlame olubukhali, uma ufuna) ikhona, futhi kuyisimo esikhathaza kakhulu esizibonakalisa ngezindlela ezihlukile. Okubi kakhulu ukubulala abesifazane, futhi sibuyekeze idatha namuhla, okuyinani lezisulu (kufaka phakathi izingane zabesifazane abahlangabezana nalolu dlame) kubantu abangama-71. Akukhona futhi ukubheka ngenye indlela, noma ukubekezelela amahlaya, amahlaya ngokungathandeki, noma ama-memes abuza ubuqiniso bamaqiniso.
Iningi labesifazane abayizisulu abazibiki izehlakalo (cishe ama-80%) ngezizathu ezihlukile, futhi ngokunembile enye yezinyathelo zalesi Sivumelwano Esibalwe ngenhla ukuthi “isimo sesisulu sizokwelulekwa nakwabesifazane abangakasifaki isikhalazo sobugebengu "Ngale ndlela, ukufinyelela kwabo ezinsizakalweni zokuvikela nokunakekelwa okuphelele kuzokwenzeka.
Udlame olubizwa nge-Vicarious: lapho umhlukumezi elimaza izingane njengezisulu zesibili.
Izingane okwabelwana ngazo ngokufanayo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi izingane ezilethwa yilowo wesifazane kozakwethu bangaphambilini, 'zisetshenziswa' njengezinto zokuphatha kabi umama; kulezi zimo banesimo esiphindwe kabili esidabukisayo: izisulu zodlame lobulili kanye nezisulu zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane. Kuyinkinga okufanele ihambisane, hhayi kuphela ngombono wezomthetho (kugxile "ezintweni ezinhle kakhulu zabancane", njengoba besifunda ngezingane ezimbili zikaJuana Rivas), kepha ngoba lezi zidalwa zizohlupheka zilandelana futhi zizomakwa impilo yakho yonke, Futhi bazodinga ukunakekelwa kwezenhlalo kanye / noma kwengqondo, ukuze babhekane futhi bavikele ukuphazamiseka okuhlukile. Nakulokhu futhi, ukuthuthukiswa kwesikhathi esizayo kweSivumelwano Esimelene Nodlame Lwabobulili kuzosungula ukuvimbela njengethuluzi elisebenzayo lokuthola
Patricia hernandez Ngonyaka owedlule wafika ebudaleni, futhi wahola inhlangano ethi "Advance without Fear", ubonile ukuthi umama wakhe waphathwa kabi ngubaba wakhe, futhi wezwa ukwesaba ezikhathini eziningi. Uyazi ukuthi amantombazane nabafana abacacisi kulezi zimo: abanamuntu ongacela usizo, futhi abanikezwa ukunakwa okwanele noma ukwesekwa. Kungakho ephakamise ukuthi abe yizwi lamanye amantombazane nabafana, yingakho elwela ukuze uhlelo lokwahlulela lusebenze ngempela kulaba abahlukumezekile. Ngamazwi akhe: "Umhlukumezi akasoze waba ubaba omuhle."
Amanga e-SAP.
I-Parental Alienation Syndrome isunguliwe, noma kunalokho: ayikho futhi ayemukelwa ngezigaba zomhlaba zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo; ivikelwa abanye ososayensi nabameli, futhi waqondwa njengombono wokuthi umzali oyedwa (ikakhulukazi umama) ubeka izingane ngokumelene nomunye (ikakhulukazi ubaba). Namuhla seyamukelwa ezinkantolo njengomkhakha wokuxilonga, ngokusho kukadokotela wezocwaningo uMiguel Llorente, kodwa akufanele kube njalo, inqobo nje uma ingamukelwa umphakathi wesayensi. I-SAP isetshenziselwe ukuthola amalungelo, ukugcinwa noma ukuvakashelwa, ngabazali. Futhi ngasendleleni, ngokubonakalayo eCatalonia izosuswa, okuyizindaba ezimnandi.
Siphila emphakathini onezinhlaka zamasiko eziqhubekisela phambili ubukhokho, futhi okungenzeka kube nomthelela ohlelweni lokwahlulela: okudingeka izisulu zodlame lobulili ukuqwashiswa okukhulu kwezenhlalo nokuqina ngokwedlulele ekubhekaneni necala ngalinye, kuguqulwe izindlela ukuze ngamunye amacala, nokuvikela ngokwanele izisulu.
Izintshisekelo ezinhle zomncane.
Isizathu esikhulu sokuthi izingane zinakekelwe yilokho Bangabantu abasathuthuka, abasengozini kakhulu futhi abasesimweni sokuba sengozini; bona futhi bayizisulu eziqondile (ukuhlukunyezwa okuqondile) kanye nezisulu ezingaqondile (ukusiza ukuphathwa kabi ngumama). Kubukeka kucacile ukuthi kuzobathinta kabi: kusuka ekujwayeleni udlame kanye nobudlelwano obungalingani, ukubambezeleka kwezemfundo, izinkinga zokuxhumana nabantu kanye nezinkinga ezahlukahlukene ezingokomzwelo, zokulala nokudla.