Izingane nentsha ayidingi ukujeziswa noma ukubekwa ukuze zifunde ukuzibophezela ezenzweni zazo futhi zithole ukuthi yiziphi izenzo ezifanele kakhulu ngezikhathi ezithile. Izingane nentsha zidinga ukuthi ube ngumqondisi wazo, ukwesekwa kwabo nokuthi ubaqondise ohlotsheni lwemiphumela ezoba khona ngokuya ngokuziphatha kwabo.
Imiphumela yezingane nentsha ayikwazi ukufana ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba kuzoncika kubudala kanye ne-idiosyncrasy ngayinye ngayinye lowo okhetha umphumela owodwa noma eminye. Imiphumela kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kuvunyelwane ngayo kusengaphambili ukuze izingane nentsha zizwe ukuthi zinengxenye yokulawula kulokho okwenzeka kuzo, ngale ndlela zizokwamukela kangcono imiphumela futhi zizwe umthwalo wemfanelo ukushintsha indlela yokuziphatha kwabo ukuze bathuthukise inhlalakahle yabo engokomzwelo kanye neyabo bonke.
Imiphumela yezemfundo kufanele icabangeke, kufanele ibe ngamathuluzi okusetshenziswa noma kunini lapho kunesidingo sokuhlinzeka ngemfundo enhle yomuntu siqu, ukuvimbela nokuba ngumhlahlandlela omuhle ekukhuliseni izingane. Imiphumela ifundisa izingane ukuthi yini okungafanele ziyenze nokuthi iziphi izindlela zokuziphatha ezifanele isikhathi ngasinye. Kodwa-ke, imiphumela iyodwa ayifundisi izingane amanani kanye namakhono abaluleke ngempela ekusebenzeni ukuzethemba kwabo, ukuxazulula izinkinga, noma ukuzithiba ngasikhathi sinye.
Imiphumela yezemfundo esebenzayo
Imiphumela idinga ukuholwa ukuze iphumelele futhi nezingane zazi futhi zifunde okufanele zenze. Ukuqondiswa kungumnyombo wesiyalo esisebenzayo: ukufundisa izingane okulungile nokungalungile, ukuzisiza zifunde ukuthatha umthwalo wezenzo zazo, nokuzifundisa ukuxhumana kahle nabanye nokuzazi.
Kuyadingeka ukulandela imihlahlandlela ethile ukuze imiphumela yokufunda ekhaya isebenze. Ngale ndlela, izingxabano noma izingxoxo zizogwenywa ngoba izingane nentsha bazokwazi okufanele bakulindele ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ungalahli imininingwane:
- Imiphumela kufanele yenzeke eduze nesikhathi sokungaziphathi kahle.
- Izingane kufanele zikwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokulungile nokungalungile.
- Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki kungumphumela wokuziphatha kwazo ngamabomu, hhayi ulaka lwabazali bazo.
- Imiphumela kufanele ihambisane futhi ivumelane nezimo.
- Umphumela kufanele ube nengqondo futhi ungabi kubi kakhulu kunokungaziphathi kahle. Uma kuvunyelwane kusengaphambili kangcono kakhulu.
- Phendula ekuziphatheni okungekuhle okuvela ezinganeni zakho ngasese, esikhundleni salokho phendula ekuziphatheni okuhle ngokuzincoma noma kuphi, noma esidlangalaleni.
- Ungakuhlukumezi ukusetshenziswa kwemiphumela.
- Imiphumela AKUFANELE ibe nodlame.
Izinhlobo zemiphumela ngokuya ngeminyaka
Ukuthi ulungisa iphutha lakhe (phakathi kweminyaka engu-6 nengu-18 ubudala)
Uma ingane yakho iphakathi kweminyaka eyisithupha kuya kwengu-6 ubudala futhi yephula okuthile noma idala umonakalo othile, kufanele ilungise iphutha layo. Ungamsiza enze uhlelo lokukwenza, noma ngabe konga ukuthenga into ephukile, wenza uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi ukuze aqoqe iphutha njengokulungisa utshani kamakhelwane uma eyinyathela wayicekela phansi, njll. Thola ukuthi ingane yakho ingalilungisa kanjani noma ililungise kanjani iphutha bese uyinika izinkomba zokwenza lokho.
Isikhathi sokulinda (phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-12)
Isikhathi sokulinda yisikhathi sokuzindla ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukucabanga ngosizo lwakho ngokwenzekile. Kuyindlela yokulungisa isimilo ngokuba sendaweni ethulile imizuzu embalwa ukuze abonakalise ngamunye bese ekhuluma naye ngenkinga. Isikhathi sokulinda noma sokucabanga kufanele sibe sifushane ngoba uma siba yisidina noma side kakhulu asizukusiza ngalutho. Okufanelekile, sebenzisa iminithi elilodwa onyakeni ngamunye weminyaka yengane.
Ungasebenzisa lesi sikhathi lapho ingane yakho isike yalwa noma yangaziphatha kahle njengokushaya ingane yakini. Okuhle kakhulu ukwehlisa umoya bonke abathintekayo, akuyona indlela yokujezisa ingane yakho, inhloso ukuthi ingane yakho icabange ngokwenzekile nokuthi phakathi kwenu nobabili nifuna isisombululo esiphumelele kakhulu. Ungalokothi ushiye ingane yakho yodwa egumbini ngaphandle kwesiqondiso sakho ngoba lapho-ke uzobe uhlakulela igqubu nentukuthelo kuphela.
Vumela imiphumela yemvelo (yonke iminyaka)
Imiphumela yemvelo ngokungangabazeki iyithuluzi elihle lokufunda lezingane, intsha, kanye nabantu abadala. Vumela ingane yakho ithole imiphumela yemvelo yokuziphatha kwayo. Le miphumela akumele ibangelwe noma ilawulwe ngumuntu omdala, futhi akufanele ibe yingozi enganeni yakho, kepha kufanele ingabi mnandi ngokwanele ukugqugquzela ingane yakho ukuthi iguquke.
Isibonelo, uma ungafuni ukufaka izingubo zakho ezingcolile kubhasikidi wokuwasha, ungaziwashi kuze kufike isikhathi lapho ungenazo izingubo zokugqoka. Uma engafuni ukugeza, mtshele nje ukuthi yini engenzeka (uzonuka kabi futhi abantu bazokubona, akukuhle). Ngokuziphatha kwabo nemiphumela yabo yemvelo bazokusiza uqonde ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okuhle kakhulu, kodwa hhayi ngoba abanye bebatshela, uma kungengenxa yenzuzo yabo.
Yethula imiphumela enengqondo (yonke iminyaka)
Imiphumela enengqondo ifana nezinhlawulo ezinengqondo ezixhunywe ekuziphatheni okungalungile. Uma, ngokwesibonelo, izingane zakho zihlala zishiya amathoyizi azo egcekeni lapho ziqeda ukudlala futhi zingawacoshi, khona-ke ungazifaka zonke esikhwameni uzigcine egalaji uziyeke zingenawo amathoyizi azozidlalela zona isikhashana.
Chaza ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kukwenza uzizwe kanjani (yonke iminyaka)
Lapho ingane yakho inokuziphatha okungafanele, chaza ukuthi imiphi imizwa abayivezayo kuwe. Imizwa yokudangala, ukukhathazeka, noma ukudabuka. Izingane zifuna ukujabulisa abazali bazo ngokwemvelo futhi Ukudumala kukodwa kungazwakala njengomphumela omkhulu ezinhliziyweni zabo.
Ukulahlekelwa amalungelo (aneminyaka engu-4 kuya ku-8)
Ukulahlekelwa yilungelo kungaba ithuluzi eliphumelelayo. Isibonelo, uma ingane igibela ibhayisikili ngaphandle kwesigqoko sokuzivikela, ukususa ibhayisikili isikhashana kungasebenza. Uma ingane ingalungisi itafula ngoba ibuka ithelevishini, ukumsusa ithelevishini nakho kungaba yithuluzi elisebenzayo. Ukulahlekelwa amalungelo kufanele kube nengqondo ngokuya ngokuziphatha futhi kufanele ukwenze ngendlela eqinile kodwa enobungane. Yenza amadili nezingane zakho, ungalithola lelo lungelo uma usebenza kanzima ukulungisa lokho kungaziphathi kahle.