Abanye abazali bathola ukuthi banemibono engafani ngobuzali, okungadala izingxabano. Kungaba lula ngomzali ukuba abe "uchwepheshe" futhi kuqeda ukwethenjwa komunye.
Kuyasiza ukuxoxa ngemibono yabanye bese uzama ukwakha indlela yokubambisana. Kubalulekile futhi ukwamukela ukuthi ungaba nezindlela ezahlukahlukene zokunakekela ingane yakho. Ukuthi wenza izinto ngendlela ehlukile akusho ukuthi enye indlela ilungile noma ayilungile.
Ubudlelwano bomzimba
Uhlangothi lomzimba lobudlelwano lungashintsha kakhulu, ngenxa yokukhathala, lapho kubhekene nomthelela ongokomzimba nangokomzwelo wokuzalwa kanye nezidingo zokuphila nosana olusanda kuzalwa. Kungathatha isikhathi ukuzizwa uthanda ukuya ocansini futhi emva kokuzalwa.
Indlela enhle ukubekezela, ukuba namahlaya, ukuqonda nokuzimisela ukuthola izindlela ezintsha zokubonisa uthando lwenu kuze kube nobabili uzizwe ukulungele ukwenza ucansi futhi.
Ukuxhumana
Ukukhulumisana okuvulelekile nokwethembeka kubalulekile kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo, futhi ikakhulukazi kubazali abasha, kubaluleke kakhulu ngemuva kokubeletha. Uma kukhona ukungezwani phakathi kwenu:
- Thatha isikhathi sokuxoxa lapho nobabili senizolile.
- Lalela bese uzama ukuqonda umbono wozakwenu.
- Gwema ukugxekwa noma ukusolwa.
Ukudangala kwangemva kokubeletha kungathinta bobabili omama nobaba, futhi kunomthelela omkhulu ebudlelwaneni. Uma ucabanga ukuthi wena noma umlingani wakho nibhekene nokudangala, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi nisekelane futhi nithole usizo.
Ubudlelwano obubanzi
Ukuzalwa kwengane kungaletha ubudlelwano obuthile nabangane nomndeni ngokuseduze kunalokho obekulindelwe, kanti abanye bangaba kude noma babe yinselele. Abazali abaningi bathola ukuthi abangani nemindeni yabo bazonikeza izeluleko nemibono, kwesinye isikhathi ngaphandle kokubuza futhi kwesinye isikhathi kungqubuzana nemibono yabo ngokuba ngumzali.
Uma ungavumelani neseluleko esinikezwayo, kungasiza ukugxila eqinisweni lokuthi uvame ukusho kahle futhi Kukuwe ukuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi uyasamukela noma cha iseluleko osinikezwa wena.
Kubazali abaningi, ukwesekwa ogogo nomkhulu, amanye amalungu omndeni, abangane, ngisho nomakhelwane kungasiza kakhulu. Ukwesekwa kwezenhlalo kungasiza kakhulu enhlalakahleni engokomzwelo yabazali esikhathini sokubeletha, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukucela noma ukwamukela usizo.