Uma ungowesifazane ongusomabhizinisi futhi nawe uqhuba ibhizinisi lakho, kungaba nzima kuwe ukuhlanganisa impilo yakho yomsebenzi (okuzothatha isikhathi esiningi) ngempilo yakho yangasese neyomndeni… kungaba umsebenzi onzima impela. Manje njengoba sesisekupheleni konyaka nalapho uKhisimusi ususondele, uma ungusomabhizinisi wesifazane cishe uzobona ukuthi ukungabi nesikhathi kuqala kanjani ukukuhlula uma unikeza izingane zakho amaholidi kaKhisimusi.
Kepha akudingeki ukuthi ukubone njengento embi, kufanele ubone lokhu kuphela konyaka njengokubuka kuqala kokuthi unyaka wakho olandelayo uzoba njani, ukucabanga ngalokho ofuna ukukwenza ngokuhlukile, mayelana nezinguquko ozozenza empilweni yakho yangasese, emsebenzini nakwebhizinisi ... futhi ufeze amaphupho akho futhi, nesikhathi esihle nomndeni wakho. Kepha, uma ungomunye noma ufuna ukuba ngomunye womama abaningi kwezamabhizinisi ezweni lethu nasemhlabeni, yini okudingeka uyazi?
Kuwumsebenzi onzima
Into yokuqala okufanele uyazi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthi ukuba ngumama wezamabhizinisi kuwumsebenzi onzima nokuthi ukwakha umsebenzi wakho akuyona into etholakala ngokushesha ... kufanele ucacise ukuthi ufuna ukugxila kuphi kuyo yonke imizamo yakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi ufunde ngosomabhizinisi abathile asebengosozigidi cishe ubusuku bonke, kepha labo "abanenhlanhla" akuyona into ejwayelekile, futhi noma yimuphi usomabhizinisi obuzayo uzokutshela ukuthi kuthatha umsebenzi omningi, imali nesikhathi. Kukhona labo abazuza ukunqoba okuncane kancane kancane ukufeza imiphumela emihle nabanye abaphonsa ithawula ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Okusemqoka ukuthatha ukwehluleka njengejika emgwaqweni elizokuvumela ukuthi ufunde kukho., khula uqhubeke nokwakha indlela yakho. Kufanele ubhekane namaqiniso ekuqaleni ukwazi ukuthi noma umgwaqo unzima ungathola imiphumela emihle ... kepha-ke, ngaphandle kokuzidela wena nomndeni wakho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Kufanele uzilungiselele
Awukwazi ukuhlelela impumelelo, kufanele uhlelele ukwehluleka… ngoba sonke simiselwe impumelelo. Uma usebenza usuku lonke ngaphandle kwenhloso ethile, izinto ngeke zilunge. Kufanele usebenze ukuze uthole imiphumela emihle kepha kufanele uzilungiselele okungalindelekile. Uma ungumama, mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku kuyodingeka usebenze kancane (futhi uhole kancane) ngoba indodana yakho igulile futhi iyakudinga, noma ngoba kuyiholide lesikole futhi awukwazi ukuqasha abagcini bezingane ... sebenza ngakho-ke uzothola imiphumela emihle. Ungalahlekelwa yiminti yakho yangasese noma usebenze ... kepha ungavumeli ukuba bahlangane.
Uzodinga isikhathi sokuhlela
Uzodinga isikhathi somndeni wakho, sakho kanye nokuhlela usuku, isonto ngisho nenyanga. Ukuhleleka kungukhiye ukuze ukwazi ukwahlukanisa amahora osuku ukuze ukwazi ukufinyelela kukho konke ngaphandle kokuzicindezela. Kufanele usethe imigomo enengqondo nezinsuku zokugcina, ukwazi ukuthi ungahamba ibanga elingakanani empilweni yakho yomsebenzi ngaphandle kokudebeselela impilo yakho yangasese neyomndeni.
Thembeka kuwe uqobo ngamathuba
Kubalulekile ukuthi uthembeke kuwe uqobo futhi ungazideli izinto ngoba ucabanga ukuthi kufanele. Ungakhohlwa imigomo yakho, kepha ungawushiyi nomndeni wakho. Ngakho-ke, uma unamathuba phambi kwakho ongawathatha, kufanele ube nokuqonda futhi ucabange ukuthi lelo thuba lingawuthinta kanjani umndeni wakho, isikhathi sakho noma izinsiza zakho. Kepha kunjalo, uma kuyithuba lelo kuzokunika umfutho wezomnotho udinga ukwazi ukufinyelela ezinhlosweni zakho noma ukuziphilisa, mhlawumbe lelo thuba ngumbono omuhle. Kuzofanele uthathe ipeni nephepha ukuze ukwazi ukubhala phansi konke okuhle nokubi ukuze wenze isinqumo esihle kakhulu ngaphambi kwalelo thuba.
Bamba ukuqala konyaka
Manje lapho uqala unyaka, ungabhala izinto ofuna ukuzizuza bese ushintsha ephepheni bese ubhala phansi izinhloso zakho nokuthi ufuna ukuzifeza kanjani. Kufanele ubeke phambili izinhloso ukuze ubhekane namaqiniso futhi ubheke nezindlela zokuzifeza. Ungenza uhlu lucabangele okusemqoka ngakunye, futhi ngaleyo ndlela bakwazi ukuthola izinsizakusebenza ezidingekayo ngokuya ngokubaluleka kwazo.
Yiba umuntu oqotho
Kubalulekile, kudingekile futhi kubalulekile ukuthi uhloniphe amakhasimende akho, abasebenzi bakho uma unalo, umncintiswano nanoma ubani okuzungezile. Ungabi mnandi, ngoba lokho ngeke kukuyise ndawo. Abantu abaseduze kwakho bazodinga ingxenye yakho kanye nawe. Futhi, uma uhlonipha bonke abantu abaseduze kwakho, izingane zakho zizokwazi ukukubona futhi zifunde kuwe. Lokho kungcono kakhulu kunokuthi ube ngowesifazane ongathembekile ebhizinisini.
Gcina ukuxhumana okuhle nabantu, umqondo ovulekile, ukwaziswa nokunaka okwenzekayo, kuyadingeka ukuze ukwazi ukwenza indlela enhle ekuthuthukiseni kwakho komuntu siqu nobungcweti.
Kujabulele okwenzayo
Uma ukujabulela okwenzayo, awusoze wazizwa sengathi uyasebenza futhi. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi osomabhizinisi ezweni lethu kumele bagxume imigodi eminingi (ikakhulukazi yezomnotho ngenxa yazo zonke izintela okufanele sizikhokhe njalo ngenyanga nangekota), kodwa ngaphandle kwalokho, ukwaneliseka komuntu siqu kungaba kuhle impela uma ukujabulela okwenzayo nsuku zonke. Uma uwuthanda umsebenzi wakho nebhizinisi lakho, ungasebenza kanzima ukuwenza usebenze ngaphandle kokuthinta impilo yakho engokomzwelo, eyomzimba noma eyomndeni.
Ungawunaki umndeni wakho noma impilo yakho yangasese
Noma kusobala, kubalulekile ukukukhumbula. Kuyadingeka ukuthi uthole isikhathi (nokuthi usibheke njengeseqhulwini kwezinye izinto) ukuchitha isikhathi nomndeni wakho futhi uthole nesikhathi sakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi uchithe isikhathi nezingane zakho, wenze imisebenzi yomndeni, uhambisane namasiko omndeni owathandayo, ukuthi uhambe epaki uwedwa noma nomndeni wakho, ukuthi uhleke nabo njalo ntambama, ukuthi nidla ndawonye, ukuthi niyangana ... Ukuze ube ngumama omuhle kwezamabhizinisi kuzodingeka uphile kahle ngokomzwelo futhi ngalokho kufanele ube nabathandekayo bakho eduze kakhulu.