Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi amahloni nokungeniswa kuyafana, kepha akukho okungaba kude neqiniso. Zibukeka zifana kodwa azihlukile ngokuphelele. Uma ingane yakho isingeniso, ungakhathazeki ngoba akuyona into embi nhlobo. Kunalokho okuphambene ngokuphelele.
Kunabazali abadida ukungenisa ngamahloni, lokhu kubenza bakhathazeke lapho bebona ukuthi izingane zabo zizigodle kakhulu noma lapho zihoxa emaqenjini amakhulu ezinsizwa, noma ukuthi zibonakala zinobunzima ekuzihlanganiseni. Kepha Uma ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili ingumethuli, ukuzijabulisa akunzima kuye, isivele ikhethe abangani bayo.
Amahloni nokungeniswa akufani
Amahloni nokungeniswa akuhambelani yize kungahle kubonakale ngeso lenyama. Intsha enamahloni ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingahle ibe nokukhathazeka komphakathi, kepha intsha engenayo enokukhathazeka ngabazali bayo, kodwa hhayi bona. Abazali bavame ukukhathazeka kakhulu ngoba izingane zabo zibonakala zintula amakhono okuxhumana nabantu, kepha empeleni, lawo makhono anawo, kumane kungukuthi bakhetha ukuthi bazowasebenzisa nini. Intsha engenisiwe ijabule ukufakwa, kuyingxenye yobuntu bayo.
Intsha engenisiwe idinga ukubekelwa phansi okuncane kwezenhlalo futhi inethezekile kunontanga yayo abanesibindi lapho bebodwa. Kepha isingeniso asikho kusimo nge-extrovert nhlobo, zinokuthandwa okuhlukile, futhi zombili izintandokazi zibenza bajabule.
Mhlawumbe nawe unephuzu lokungenisa futhi uzizwa umuhle ngaleyo ndlela. Ama-introver azithokozisa ngaphandle kokuhlala nabantu abaningi, futhi angajabula kakhulu ukuzungeza nabantu abambalwa kepha ababheka njengabanekhwalithi. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi ingane yakho ayingenisi, kufanele uqhubeke ufunda ngoba uzothola izinzuzo ezithile zokuba munye, ingane yakho ijabule kanjena!
Izinzuzo zokuthi ingane yakho ingenise
Uzozijabulisa ngaphandle kwesidingo sanoma ngubani
Intsha ephuma kakhulu idinga ukuhlala njalo nabanye abantu ukuze izizwe kahle futhi ibungazwe. Badinga imisebenzi yomphakathi, bazophuma kakhulu bachithe isikhathi esiningi bengekho ekhaya. Esikhundleni salokho, Intsha eyethuliwe izozijabulisa ngokuzungeza nabantu abambalwa noma ize ibe yodwa, futhi lokhu akuyona into embi.
Ungathola injabulo encwadini noma ezintweni ozithandayo wedwa. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ingane yakho iyahlupheka, kude nakho. Kuzofanele unake kuphela ukuze wazi ukuthi ujabulile kanjena, ukuthi uyamamatheka, ukuthi uhleka nezinto ezimenza azizwe kamnandi. Intsha eyethuliwe iyakujabulela ukuba ngaleyo ndlela ngoba iyabakhetha abangane bayo futhi ayidingi okungaphezu kwalokho.
Kunalokho, Uma ucabanga ukuthi unokukhathazeka komphakathi noma ukuthi unamahloni nokuthi angathanda ukuxhumana nabantu abaningi kepha angazi ukuthi angakwenza kanjani, lapho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi umfundise amakhono okuxhumana nabantu ukuze akwazi ukuwathola noma ukuthi uxhumane nochwepheshe ukuze amqondise futhi amsize kule ndlela.
Uzoba nabangane abambalwa kepha bazoba seqophelweni eliphezulu
Abantu abaphumayo bazohlangana nabantu abaningi, bazoba nenethiwekhi enkulu yoxhumana nabo, kepha-ke empeleni, uma kukhulunywa ngokuba nabangane beqiniso lapho ubadinga, ungazizwa unesizungu kakhulu kunalokho obekulindelekile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, osemusha ongenazi lutho uyakwazi ukukhetha abangane abangakufanele ngempela ukunakwa.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi lapho udinga usizo, ngeke ube nankinga yokwenza kanjalo, ngoba abangane bakho bazoba bangempela. Intsha eyethuliwe izokwenama ngeqembu layo elincane labangane futhi ngeke idinge ukuba phakathi kwabantu 'abadumile'. kusuka esikhungweni esizokwamukelwa. Ubuntu bakhe bunamandla kakhulu kunakho konke lokho. Lokhu kuhle ngoba kukhombisa amandla abo angaphakathi futhi lapho osemusha efuna ukwamukelwa omunye cishe njalo, kuyizindaba ezimbi ngoba bangenza noma yini ukumane bazizwe bemukelekile emphakathini.
Ngizochitha isikhathi esengeziwe ekhaya
Lokhu kuhle ukuthula kwakho kwengqondo njengomzali. Intsha engenisa izethulo izosebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ekhaya ngakho-ke ngeke kudingeke ibekezelele noma ihlupheke ngengcindezi yenhlalo engabenza bakhethe izindlela ezingafanele.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iqiniso lokuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi ekhaya nakho kukuhle ngoba uzokwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nomndeni wakho. Kuzoba yinjabulo ukukhula kwabo kanye nesibopho somndeni kwazise nikwazi ukuhlela imisebenzi enizoyenza ndawonye. Ukuze osemusha achithe isikhathi esengeziwe ekhaya futhi ekuthanda ngempela ukuba sekhaya njengomndeni, kuyisibusiso emindenini eminingi.
Sizogxila kakhulu emicabangweni yakho
Intsha engenisiwe ijwayele ukugxila kakhulu emizweni nasemicabangweni yayo kunaleyo yabanye abantu noma ontanga yayo. Ngakho-ke, lokhu kuhle ngoba ngenxa yokugxila kakhulu emicabangweni yabo baba ngabantu abanobuciko obukhulu futhi bazokwazi ukuzenzela izinqumo ezingcono.
Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, bazokwazi nokucabanga okuvuthiwe kakhulu. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, bayazi ukuthi bazi kanjani nemicabango yabo kuzobenza baqonde imizwa nemizwa yabo, ngakho-ke bayoba nozwela, ukuzethemba nokuqina, Kudingekile kunoma ngubani nasemphakathini uwonke!
Intsha eyethuliwe umuntu omuhle
Imvamisa osemusha ongenile ungumuntu olungile, uyayiqonda imizwa yabanye ngenxa yozwela futhi akafuni ukuba nezinkinga nabanye abantu. Mancane amathuba okuthi babe iziqhwaga esikoleni esiphakeme futhi bathande ukusiza abanye lapho besenkingeni.
Lokhu kuyadingeka emphakathini wethu njengoba siphila emphakathini okuthi yize kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu ufuna ukuba nenhlalo enkulu futhi abe noxhumana nabo abaningi kumanethiwekhi abo okuxhumana nabantu, lapho i-push iza ukushova, lapho othile edinga usizo, babheka kwenye indawo. Intsha eyethuliwe izokuba ngomunye walabo bantu abazokwazi ukuthi bangabasiza kanjani abanye lapho beyidinga.
Kubalulekile ukuthi umphakathi uyeke ukudicilela phansi izethulo, ngoba, ezimweni eziningi, yibo abashukumisela umhlaba kangcono.