Ayikho iminyaka "ekahle" okufanele ibe phakathi kwezingane uma kuziwa ekuhlukaniseni ukukhulelwa ukuze zikhule kakhulu noma kancane, kepha kuyiqiniso ukuthi lapho uthola umntwana wokuqala futhi ucabanga ngokuthola owesibili, bathambekele ekucabangeni ngezinye izici eziphathelene nobudala okufanele zicatshangelwe. Futhi kungenxa yokuthi uma wazi ukuthi uzoba nezingane eziningi, unganquma ukuthi uzoqala nini ukufuna ingane yesibili noma yesithathu.
Kodwa ukuba nomntwana omusha kuyisinqumo esikhulu okungafanele sithathwe kalula. Kunezinzuzo nezinkinga eziningi uma kukhulunywa ngokuhlukaniswa kweminyaka kubantwana futhi kufanele kubhekwe nakho. Ukuba nezingane eduze kakhulu kungaba nezinto ezinhle hhayi ezinhle kangako, nokuba nazo ziqhelelene kakhulu, Ngabe uyafuna ukwazi ubuhle nobubi bokuhlukaniswa kweminyaka ezinganeni?
Lapho zithatha unyaka
Lapho izingane zihlala nomunye isikhathi esifushane kangaka zingaba abangane abahle kakhulu ngoba zisondelene kakhulu ngeminyaka, kepha zilindele okuncane kakhulu phakathi kokukhulelwa kokunye kungaba nzima kuwe.
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Konke kuzohlanganiswa kangcono
Kungenzeka ukuthi eminyakeni emibili yokuqala lapho izingane zakho ezimbili zingaphansi kweminyaka emibili ungaba ngumshini ophelele odonsa amahora ungalalanga futhi ushintshe inabukeni ngokushesha, ukugeza neminye imisebenzi kungenziwa nezingane ezimbili ngasikhathi sinye ngoba onkhe bobabili bazofana. Ngalo mqondo, ungathola isikhathi esithe xaxa sokwenza eminye imisebenzi.
Omdala ngeke alubone ushintsho oluningi
Uma ingane yakho enonyaka owodwa inomfowenu omncane, ngeke alubone ushintsho kakhulu futhi mhlawumbe ngeke azizwe ecasuke kakhulu ukufika. Mncane kakhulu ukuqonda kahle ukuthi ukufika komunye umzalwane kusho ukuthini ngeke zibe khona izinkinga zomona noma ukwenqatshwa.
Izingane zakho ziyoba nobuhlobo obuseduze
Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi izingane zakho zibe nobudlelwano obusondele ngenxa yobudala obuzihlukanisayo. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi kungahle kube nokulwa okuningi, bazophinde basondelane ngokomzwelo futhi bazokwabelana ngabangane, imidlalo ngisho nemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa.
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Kunzima emzimbeni wakho
Ukuba nomunye umntwana kungaba nzima kakhulu emzimbeni wakho, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi awutholakali ngokuphelele. Izinga lakho le-iron ne-calcium lingancipha futhi ungahlushwa ne-anemia ngaphambi kokubeletha noma uzizwe ukhathele ngokweqile futhi usesimweni esibi. Yini enye, uma ukhulelwa ungakapheli unyaka, ingane yakho yesibili ingazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi Futhi ungahle ube nethuba lokuthola ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha ngemuva kwengane yakho yesibili. Ngokufanelekile, linda izinyanga eziyi-18 phakathi kokukhulelwa kokunye.
Ukukhathala
Uzokhathala ngoba ukuthola izingane ezimbili ekhaya kuwumsebenzi omkhulu. Ungaba nengane efunayo esenezidingo eziningi zokuhlangabezana nayo. Ukungalali ebusuku, amanabukeni, ukuncelisa ibele, nakho konke okujwayelekile kuzokwenza uzizwe ukhathele kakhulu.
Kufanele uhlukanise ukunaka kwakho
Kufanele uzame ukukhulisa isibopho somama nengane bobabili ngasikhathi sinye, ngoba bobabili bazoba ngaphansi kweminyaka emibili futhi Badinga isibopho nawe ukuze baqiniswe nsuku zonke ukuzizwa uvikelekile.
Lapho bethatha iminyaka emibili
Kuleli qophelo izingane zakho zisondele ngokwanele ngeminyaka ukuba zabelane ngezintshisakalo nesikhathi kanye nomunye. Uzokwazi nokulinda isikhashana phakathi kokukhulelwa kwakho zombili ngakho-ke kuzoba lula kuwe. Bathi iminyaka emibili iyisikhathi esikahle, kepha iqiniso ukuthi kuzoya ngamanani abazali kanye nesikhathi abayikho. Kwesinye isikhathi, kufanele ucabangele ezinye izici ezinjengezezimali noma isikhala ekhaya.
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Umzimba wakho usukulungele
Lapho kudlule iminyaka emibili ngemuva kokuthola umntwana wakho wokuqala, umzimba wakho usukulungele ukukhulelwa okulandelayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuze itholakale ngokugcwele uzozizwa unamandla ukubhekana nokukhulelwa okusha.
Zimbalwa izinkinga ekukhulelweni
Uma ulinda iminyaka emibili ukuthola omunye umntwana, kunezinkinga ezimbalwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Njengoba ngikuvezile ngenhla, inhloso ukulinda izinyanga eziyi-18 phakathi kokukhulelwa njengoba inciphisa ubungozi bokuthi ingane yakho encane ifike ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma inesisindo esiphansi sokuzalwa (ikakhulukazi uma ungaphezu kweminyaka engama-35).
Awukhohliwe ukunakekelwa kwengane
Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma ngabe awuyinakekeli ingane yakho yokuqala njengengane, awukakhohlwa imiqondo eyisisekelo edingwa ngumntwana ukuze ayinakekele, ngakho-ke uzozethemba ngokuphelele kuwe ukuze unakekele kahle ingane yakho elandelayo.
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Umona phakathi kwezelamani
Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane yakho yokuqala ngabe isivele yadlula iminyaka emibili futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ibe nomona kakhulu ngengane. Umbango ungaba mkhulu ngoba ufuna ukuba maphakathi nekhaya futhi kumele ahlanganyele nalo nengane esanda kufika, into okungangabazeki ukuthi ingakuthola kunzima ukukucabanga. Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki, kufanele ufake izibulo lakho ekukhulelweni futhi lapho ingane ifika kuzobaluleka ungazizwa ushiywe indawo yokuhlala umzuzwana.
Izibulo lakho lingaziphatha kabi
Kungenzeka ukuthi ngokufika "kweminyaka emibili esabekayo" futhi ngasikhathi sinye sengane entsha, uzoba nendodana endala evukelayo ngandlela thile, ethukuthele futhi ehlale ithukuthele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi azoba nzima kakhulu futhi abe nenselele kuwe lapho kufika umfowenu omncane.
Umfowethu osekhulile angabuyela emuva
Kwesinye isikhathi lapho ingane ineminyaka emibili futhi ingane ifika ekhaya, angahlehle futhi alingise indlela ingane yakubo eziphatha ngayo (ukuncela izithupha, ukufuna i-pacifier, izingozi zokuqeqesha izindlu zangasese, ulimi lwezingane, ukukhala okungenasidingo, njll.).
Kungaba nokuxakeka konke
Ngokufika kwengane entsha kanye neminyaka emibili yobudala enganeni yakho yokuqala, kungenzeka ukuthi ekhaya kunengcindezi enkulu, isiphithiphithi nokungezwani ekhaya lakho. Kufanele ube nesikhathi sokuphumula ngisho nemizuzu eyi-10 ngosuku ngempilo yakho enhle yengqondo, futhi Uma kufanele ucele usizo, lwenze.
O izinkumbulo ezingaka! 🙂
Izingane zami sezinezinyanga ezingama-28 ubudala futhi ngifunde izingqinamba, futhi kufanele ngivumelane nawe: sidlule emuva, umona, isiphithiphithi ... ukungabi nezingalo ... Ngokuqondene nezinzuzo, kimi azinazo bekulungile, futhi bekungabonakali (Yize nginabangani nezingane nabo abathathe iminyaka emi-2 obekungenjalo). Ngigcizelela izinto ezinhle kakhulu njengokuthi ngenze amakhulu ezinto ndawonye, ngoba leso sikhathi asilutho, futhi kube nokwenzeka ukuhlanganyela imisebenzi iminyaka eminingi.
Ngijabule ngezingane zami, futhi bengingeke ngenze engikwenze ngendlela ehlukile, ngoba indlela ebaholele empilweni yami iyona kuphela evumelekile. Vele: lapho othile ebuza umbono wami, ngiyaqinisa ngaphandle kokungabaza "iminyaka engu-6 noma ngaphezulu!", Ngoba umehluko weminyaka - ngokombono wami - oqinisekisa ukukhuliswa okuzolile, futhi nokukwazi ukuhambela ngamunye ngendlela efanele, umbono wami, kunjalo.
Okwenzekayo ukuthi obuzayo usuvele enombono wakhe, yingakho lokhu okuthunyelwe okuhle / okuhle kuhle kakhulu.
Ukulawula,
Ngiyabonga kakhulu iMacarena ngokusitshela ngesipiliyoni sakho 🙂 Noma ngicabanga ukuthi iminyaka eyi-6 ingaba miningi kakhulu (kwabancane, kubazali nakanjani iyinto ephelele hehe) Ukugona!