Ukusondela ekusakazweni kwezingane njengomdlalo nendlela yokuxhumana nabanye kuzokugqugquzela futhi kukwenze uzizwe kahle.
Kulezi zinsuku, kujwayelekile ukuhlangana nezingane ezivela ezinganeni ezinxuswa ngabazali bazo ukuthi zibambe iqhaza ekusakazeni izingane ukukhangisa ngemikhiqizo, ukubonisa noma ukuba yisithombe esihle futhi esingenacala sezimpawu zezimpahla zezingane. Eqinisweni, kuncane okwaziwayo ngalokho okusembonweni womhlaba wokulingiswa kwezingane. Ake sibone ukuthi yini okuhle nokubi okubandakanya.
Inkampani ifuna amamodeli wezingane noma abalingisi
Kuneziteshi eziningi ezengeziwe ze- ithelevishini Ngakho-ke, ukulethwa kwezingane kulo mkhakha nakho kuyanda. Isitatimende sabasebenzi sikhuluma ngokuqashwa kwabantwana emibonisweni. Ngeshwa akukho ukulawula okuphelele kulokhu. Igunya labasebenzi nemicimbi ethile abangacela lezi zinsizakalo ezingaphansi kweminyaka eyi-16. Kepha ngubani obukele lokhu? Akukho ukulawula okwenziwa abaphathi. Akekho oqinisekisa ukuthi izidingo zenkontileka yezingane zihlangatshezwa ngokuphelele.
Abazali abaningi ababona ubuhle nokuzenzela kwezingane zabo bacabanga ukubayisa ekulingisweni kwezingane. Imvamisa benza kahle ngokuziqhenya kwabo, ukubakhombisa umhlaba wonke, ngakho-ke kuyisisekelo sokuqala ezingeni lobungcweti nasengxenyeni yezomnotho. Abazali babona amakhono athile ezinganeni zabo, kodwa-ke akuwona wonke ama-ejensi azobona.
Ama-Model ejensi, abalingisi ... bafune izici ezithile, ezingahambelani ngaso sonke isikhathi nombono womzali. Ubaba akasoze abe nenhloso uma kukhulunywa ngendodana yakhe. Isikhathi sokusakaza sezingane singaqhubeka amahora, into umzali okufanele ayicabangele. Kunezingane okuthi ngemuva kwenkulisa noma esikoleni zigxiliswe kokuhlangenwe nakho okukhathalelayo futhi ezingaziqondi zisencane.
Izinzuzo nobubi bokuphonsa ingane
Izinzuzo
- Isifiso sengane sokuhamba. Unesikhathi esimnandi, usibona njengomsebenzi omnandi futhi ongajwayelekile futhi ufuna ukuya khona. Ingane ibona ukuzivocavoca njengomdlalo, hhayi njengesibopho noma isibopho.
- Omncane ufuna ukubukeka njengomlingisi noma umculi amthandayo. Bona leli phuzu njengesibonelo esihle sokuthi ukufana nalo kuzothuthukisa umdlandla omncane, ukuzibophezela, umzamo kanye nogqozi. Ezikhathini eziningi izingane zifuna ukuzinikezela kuyo ngokuzayo.
- Ubungane, yabelana nabanye.
- Funda ukudlala futhi uqonde ukuthi awunqobi njalo.
- Qonda ukuthi umzamo wakho uzuze, nokuthi umsebenzi wakho ubewufanele nokuthi uzuze umphumela omuhle.
- Thola izindlela zokwamukela ungapheli amandla. Khululeka futhi unganiki ukubaluleka ngokweqile kokungenakho.
Izingqinamba
Ukuncisha ingane izinqubo zeminyaka yakhe kuzomenza azinze futhi kudale ukuthi angaqondi kahle.
- Isikhathi sokulinda singaba side kakhulu. Kubangela ukukhathala kwengane encane nokudinwa.
- Umthwalo wabazali. Umuzwa wokubekwa endaweni enhle noma ovelele phakathi kwabanye. Bona ukuthi abazali bafuna okungaphezulu kakhulu kuye futhi nganoma iyiphi inkokhelo.
- La ukukhungatheka yokungabi okhethiwe ngenkathi sebevele bekuqonda ukwenqatshwa.
- Makube umncintiswano, hhayi ukuphambukisa.
- Indawo yokuhlala eyabantu abadala, kunezinto ingane engazazi: umsebenzi, abasebenzi, ama-oda, isikhathi sokusebenza ...
- Uma wenqatshiwe kungakuthinta kakhulu ukuzethemba kwakho. Akukuhle ukuthi abazali bahlale begcizelela ukuthi ingane iyona ehamba phambili noma ebukekayo.
- Ukunikeza ukubaluleka okweqile emizimbeni nasekulandeleni imiyalo ethile yobuhle.
- Noma ngubani angalahla imali yomncane. Lokhu akwenzeki kwamanye amazwe.
- Ukulahlekelwa yinkululeko, ukungakwazi ukudlala ngaphandle kwezibopho, hhayi, ngamafuphi, ingane.
- Udumo luyinkemba esika nhlangothi zombili. Ingane ingazizwa ikhungathekile futhi ijabule iye ekukhohlweni noma ekuthukweni.
- Isibopho sokuvuthwa ngaphambi kokuba sikhokhwe.
Ukuzethemba okuphansi kanye nezakhiwo ezinganeni
Kubaluleke ngempela ukwazi ingane nesimo sayo somzwelo. Ingane enokungazethembi, ukwesaba, ukwesaba ukwehluleka noma ukwenqatshwa ngamandla omzimba noma ngamakhono athile omuntu nawokutolika akufanele kuvezwe ekwahlulelweni komphakathi. Akuwona umqondo omuhle ukufuna okuthile kuye angeke nakanjani akuthole ngokuthobeka. Ukukhungatheka kuyindaba ekhohlisayo. Ingane esivele ikuqonda ukwenqatshwa nokuhlolwa okwenziwe abanye ochwepheshe ingabona ukuphepha kwayo nokuzethemba kwayo kuncipha.
Abazali kumele banake kakhulu futhi bangasinaki isici sengqondo. Ingane encane kakhulu ayicabangi okwamanje, kepha lapho ineminyaka engu-6 noma engu-7 ubudala ingakwazi futhi ingazizwa imbi ngaye nangesimo. Ingane idinga ukuzungezwa yimvelo yomndeni emvikelayo, iphephile, lapho ingakhula khona ngendlela enempilo ngokomzwelo. Susa kokuqinisekile izindlela ejwayelekile yengane yobudala bayo izomenza angazinzi. Kusasa uzobe engenakho okuhlangenwe nakho angakwazanga ukukwenza ebuntwaneni bakhe.