Kwabesifazane abaningi, ukufika kwezingane kusho ushintsho oluphelele kokuyimpilo yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi. Ngesinye isikhathi, bonke omama bayazibuza ukuthi ngabe kufanele baqhubeke nokusebenza noma, kunalokho, kufanele bayeke umsebenzi wabo wobuchwepheshe ukuze bazinikele ngokuphelele ekunakekeleni izingane. Kubalulekile ukuqala ngesisekelo sokuthi, noma yini oyikhethayo, ayikwenzi ube mubi noma ube ngumama ongcono.
Kunoma ikuphi, omama uqobo bangabasebenzi bonke, ochwepheshe emikhakheni ehlukahlukene lapho isipiliyoni siphenduka sibe yiziqu. Kepha ngaphezu komsebenzi womndeni, abaningi bakhona omama kulezi zinsuku banquma ukujoyina impilo yokusebenza ngemuva kwekhefu lokuyobeletha. Futhi lokhu, ngaphandle kokungabaza engakudalela kona, kuthwala uchungechunge lwezinzuzo ezibalulekile ezinganeni.
Sisesikhathini lapho abesifazane baya ngokuya befuna indawo yabo emhlabeni. Ngokwandayo, yize kuhamba kancane kakhulu, ngabesifazane abanezikhundla zomthwalo emikhakheni eyahlukahlukene. Abesifazane okuthi, ngaphezu kokuba ngochwepheshe abakhulu, abangomama, okwathi ngesikhathi esithile kwadingeka bathathe isinqumo ongase usithathe ngalesi sikhathi.
Isibonelo esihle sezingane
Ungase ucabange ukuthi umsebenzi wakho uthatha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ukuchitha nezingane zakho futhi lokhu kukubangela umuzwa omkhulu wecala. Kepha kufanele wazi ngesibonelo esihle sokwenza ngcono, ukubekezela nobuchwepheshe ozobe ubunika izingane zakho.
Amantombazane anomama osebenzayo maningi amathuba okuthi ayiphinde leyo ndlela. Bangamantombazane akhula ngesibonelo sensika yawo enhle, amantombazane azokhula abe bazi ngokubaluleka kwemfundo yabo ukuze babe ngabesifazane abanekhono, abanezikhundla zomthwalo wemfanelo. Omama abasebenzayo bayisibonelo esihle se ukuthuthukiswa kwabesifazane futhi lokhu namuhla kungumzabalazo wabo bonke abesifazane.
Ukulwa okuqondile nokungalingani
Ngokuvamile, ezindlini lapho umama esebenza khona, kukhona ukwabiwa kahle kwemithwalo yemfanelo ekhaya. Indima yokuba ngumama ayisekho eyedlule, lapho omama babengabomama abebhaka amakhekhe futhi begcina ikhaya lingenabala kumyeni wakhe nasezinganeni zakhe. Ngenxa yendima entsha yokuba ngumama osebenzayo, izingane zikhula zisebenzisana nomsebenzi wasendlini futhi lokhu kuyimpi enkulu yokulwa nokungalingani.
Imfundo ibalulekile ukuze abafana namantombazane bafunde ukuthi awekho amadoda noma abesifazane ekhaya, kodwa amalungu omndeni ofanayo okufanele asebenze ndawonye ukuze kuzuze bonke. Futhi lokhu kuyinto etholakala ngenxa yesibonelo sokuba nomama osebenzayo.
Umama osebenzayo udlulisa injabulo yakhe ezinganeni
Ukunikela ngempilo yobungcweti akulula futhi kungaba imbangela yezinkinga ezingokomzwelo kumama. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abathatha isinqumo sokusebenza ngemuva kokuba ngomama bazojabula kakhulu futhi lowo muzwa uzodluliselwa ezinganeni zabo. Izingane zakho zizokuthanda ngendlela efanayo, yize uchitha isikhathi esincane nazo noma kufanele uchithe isikhathi esiningi ungekho ekhaya.
Ukuba ngumama akukuvimbeli ekubeni ngowesifazane, ukuba namaphupho, imigomo yobungcweti neyakho, futhi konke lokhu akukwenzi umuntu omubi kakhulu futhi kungasaphathwa ukuthi ube ngumama omubi kakhulu. Inqobo nje uma kuyisinqumo sakho, kuzoba yisinqumo esihle kunazo zonke enhlalakahleni yezingane zakho. Ngendlela efanayo, uma uthatha isinqumo sokuhlala ekhaya futhi uzinikele emzimbeni nasemphefumulweni ukunakekela izingane zakho, uzoba ngumama ohamba phambili kuzo.
Vele, ngeke ukwazi ukugwema ukuhlela kangcono isikhathi sakho ukuze ubanikeze isikhathi sekhwalithi ezinganeni zakho. Impumelelo isekelwe ebhalansi futhi ngalokhu kuzofanele ufunde ukuhlela nokuphathisa abanye. Njengoba ungeke ukwazi ukunakekela yonke into futhi awukwazi futhi akufanele ungeze izibopho ezingeziwe emuva kwakho.