Ngabe ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili inesimo sengqondo sokuyekethisa futhi ijwayele kakhulu ukwenzelwa izinto? Mhlawumbe ngenkathi uhlanza noma uhlunga izingubo, ingane yakho ilele kusofa ibukele ithelevishini noma ibhalela abangane bayo kumakhalekhukhwini wayo. Leso simo sengqondo kufanele siphele ngokushesha okukhulu ngoba ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili ihlala ekhaya, kufanele uhlanganyele ekunakekelweni nasekugcinweni kwayo.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi kungaba nzima ukwazi ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi ongayinikeza ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili. Kungaba nzima nakakhulu ukumenza enze imisebenzi omtshela ukuthi ayenze. Kubalulekile ukuthi uzenze ngoba umsebenzi wasendlini ufundisa izingane zakho umthwalo wemfanelo futhi uzisize zibe umuntu ongcono, isakhamuzi esingcono, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: uzofunda ukuzinakekela.
Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi ukhulisa umuntu osemusha okungenzeka ngelinye ilanga ayohlala ngokuzimela noma nomunye umuntu. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhulisanga ingane eyivila okungekho muntu oyisekelayo ukuze iphile, kufanele kube yisibonelo!
Banikeze imisebenzi futhi ubakhuthaze ukuba bayenze
Intsha ikwazi ukwenza noma imuphi umsebenzi abantu abadala abangawenza. Kepha, badinga ukuholwa nokuholwa njengoba befunda ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini kahle. Kodwa-ke, ukuma akumele kube izikhalazo zakho. Kufanele uzifundise ukuthi ungawenza kanjani umsebenzi othize bese ubheka umsebenzi wabo ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi bangawenza ngokuzimela.
Uma ingane yakho ayihlanza indlu yangasese ngenhlanzeko, noma inqubo yayo yokugunda utshani ishiya okuningi ongakufisa, kubheke lokhu njengesikhathi sokufunda. Mfundise indlela efanele yokwenza izinto futhi wenze okulindelwe kucace. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa umsebenzi wasendlini njengendlela yokufundisa ingane yakho ngempilo yabantu abadala.
Ukumkhuthaza, ungamnika isabelo esincane samasonto onke sokwenza eminye imisebenzi engajwayelekile ekhaya ngaphezu kwalabo aseke wababela futhi okungumsebenzi wakhe. Futhi ungaxhumanisa imisebenzi ethile namalungelo athile. Kwenze kucace ezinganeni zakho ukuthi ukusebenza kanzima kuholela emvuzweni, njengoba nje nomsebenzi onzima owenzayo ngokuzayo nawo uzoba nomholo ekupheleni kwenyanga ... kodwa uma kungenziwa lutho, akukho okufezwayo.
Uzodinga ukunikeza ingane yakho uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ukuze zazi ukuthi zenzeni. Ngemuva kwalokho ungamvumela avumele ukuthi akwenze nini. Isibonelo, uma ungakakwenzi konke ukuphela kosuku, noma ngokuphela kwesonto (kuya ngemisebenzi), uzophelelwa yimali futhi ngaphandle kwamalungelo.
Ungaxhumanisa futhi umsebenzi nelungelo elithile, Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane bakho ngaleyo ntambama, kuzodingeka uqedele umsebenzi wakho wesikole kuqala kanye nomsebenzi wesikole. Uma uqeda ngesikhathi esiphephile, ungaphuma isikhashana.
Ezinye izici okufanele uzicabangele
Iningi lentsha likhule ngokwanele ukuba lenze umsebenzi wesikole ngaphandle kokugadwa okuncane noma cha. Kepha, yonke ingane eyeve eshumini nambili yehlukile, ngakho-ke kuzodingeka ubhekisise ngokucophelela izinga lekhono lengane yakho ngaphambi kokwenza uhlu lwemisebenzi efanele amakhono ayo.
Amakhemikhali asekhaya, ngokwesibonelo, angaba yingozi. Khuluma nengane yakho ngokubaluleka kokungahlanganisi amakhemikhali futhi nikhulume ngezinkinga zomoya. Yini enye, Ungakhuluma ngalokho okufanele ukwenze uma ingane yakho ichitha ngengozi ikhemikhali emzimbeni wayo.
Ngaphambi kokuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi isebenzise isitofu, umshini wokugunda utshani, isixubanisi, amathuluzi kagesi, noma ezinye izinto zokusebenza, hlola izinkinga ezingaba khona zokuphepha. Gada ingane yakho ekuqaleni ngaphambi kokuyivumela ukuthi izisebenzise lezi zinto wedwa, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi zisebenzisa izindlela zokuphepha ezidingekayo. Ingane yakho kudingeka iqonde ukuthi akudingeki. Sebenzisa izintambo ezibunjiwe lapho ufaka noma iyiphi into. Futhi kuzofanele ukhulume nezingane zakho ngezinkinga zokuphepha kwentambo, njengokuthi ungalokothi usebenzise ikhebula uma limanzi ...
Imisebenzi efundisa intsha ukunakekela izinto zayo
Fundisa ingane yakho ukugcina isikhala sayo siqu sihlanzekile futhi sihlanzekile. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukuhlanza ikamelo lakho lokulala nokugcina izinto zakho zihlelekile lapho zisezindaweni ezivamile zendlu. Le misebenzi kufanele ibe yizinto ezisiza ingane yakho ukuthi ibone ukubaluleka kokuzinakekela okwayo nokwabanye. Nayi eminye imisebenzi okufanele yenziwe yintsha yonke:
- Umbhede
- Beka izingubo zakho
- Shintsha amashidi
- Yenza ikhabethe lihleleke kahle
- Igumbi lokulala lihlanzeke ngothuli, lishanyelwe futhi lishaywe
- Njalo hlala kahle igumbi lokulala
Imisebenzi efundisa umthwalo wemfanelo
Ngenkathi yonke imisebenzi ifaka umthwalo wemfanelo, ukudala uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ezibandakanya ukunakekela abanye abantu, izilwane ezifuywayo, noma izitshalo kunika ingane yakho ithuba lokuzibophezela. Lezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi zikhombisa ukuthi uyamethemba nokuthi ulindele ukuthi enze umsebenzi omuhle ngoba kukhona umuntu noma okuthile okuncike kuwo.. Cabanga ukufaka ezinye zalezi zinto ohlwini lwezinto okumele zenziwe yintsha yakho:
- Nakekela izitshalo
- Yondla izilwane ezifuywayo
- Khipha inja
- Shintsha ibhokisi lesanti le-fato
- Geza isilwane
- Ukunakekela izingane zakini
- Lungiselela izingane zakini isidlo sasemini
- Lungiselela ugogo nomkhulu isidlo
Imisebenzi esiza intsha ukuba izakhamizi ezinhle
Nikeza ingane yakho imisebenzi ehlukahlukene. Ungacabanga ngezelamani ezishintsha imisebenzi inyanga nenyanga noma isonto ngesonto ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi wonke umuntu unokuzijwayeza umsebenzi ngamunye. Faka eminye yale misebenzi ebandakanya ukunakekela izindawo ezivamile ekhaya ngoba zizofundisa ingane yakho ukuba yisakhamuzi esihle:
- Hlanza uthuli naphansi egumbini lokuphumula, emaphasishi, izitebhisi, amakamelo okulala, njll.
- Hlunga wonke amakamelo
- Hlanza ifenisha
- Ukuhlanza izindlu zangasese
- Hlanza okhaphethi
- Khipha izibi
- Pheka isidlo sakusihlwa ngemiyalo
- Hlanza izinto zokubala zasekhishini
- Hlanza izingubo
- Sula imishini yokuwasha izitsha noma ugeze izitsha
- Hlanza amawindi
- Hlanza ifriji ngaphakathi nangaphandle
- Hlela ukudla kwamakhekhe
- Khipha amagciwane ezindaweni okukhona kuzo
- Lungisa igalaji
- Hlela amashalofu
Uyazi ukuthi yini ingane yakho engayenza namuhla?