Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ezikhathini eziningi ukuziphatha kwezingane ezikhohlisayo, ezingalaleli nezithukuthele kubizwa ngokuthi: "ingane emperor syndrome" noma "izingane ezinobushiqela". Yize kuyindlela yokuqamba lokhu kuziphatha ukwazi ukuthi ingane inhloboni yesimo sengqondo, empeleni ilebula elingakhubaza kakhulu ukukhula kwengane.
Eqinisweni, ngemuva kwanoma iyiphi ingane enale ndlela yokuziphatha, kunengane, edabukisayo, ezizwa inesizungu futhi enemizwa enamandla engazi ukuthi izilawula kanjani. Ngakho-ke, ingane ebhalwe ukuthi "nguzwilakhe" ayisiyonto edlula ingane edinga imfundo yezemizwa futhi ukwesekwa okukhulu nothando oluvela kubazali babo kanye / noma kothisha.
Kepha ukubiza ingane ngale ndlela kuzomenza acabange ukuthi unenkinga kanti akunjalo. Kulo mphakathi, umcabango wombono wabantu abadala uyabusa, lapho izingane zifunwa ukuba ziziphathe khona, ngaphandle kokwenza umsindo futhi ngaphandle kokuqonda noma ukunakekela izidingo zazo ezingokomzwelo, ngakho-ke lokhu kungathinta kakhulu impilo yengqondo yabancane. Uma abazali beguqula lo mbono futhi babone ukubaluleka kwe- fundisa izingane ezinobuhlakani bemizwa zisencane kakhulu, khona-ke konke kuzoshintsha.
Izingane zidinga abazali bazo eduze, ukuze zibalungise lapho benza amaphutha ngothando nangenhlonipho. Kuyadingeka ukufundisa izingane ukuze zikwazi ukucabanga kahle, ukuze zazi ukuthi zithatha kanjani izinqumo, ukuze ziqonde imizwa yazo kanye neyabanye. Ngale ndlela, bazoba intsha elinganiselayo futhi ngeke kudingeke uchithe imali ekukhuleni kwakho, ngezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu ezikwenza ungabaze ikhono lakho lokufundisa. Zifundise wena kuqala Futhi-ke, ngeke kudingeke ubize izingane zakho ngokuthi "izingane ezinobushiqela" futhi uzokwazi ukuzifundisa ngenhlonipho nangothando.