Kufanele uzikhumbuze ukuthi imiphumela iyizipho ezicashile, hhayi ukushiya "isibopho" sakho sikamama sokuvikela izingane zakho ezinseleleni. Ukwehluleka kuyadingeka ezinganeni ukuze zifunde emaphutheni azo, zithuthuke futhi ziguquke.
Kunezinsuku lapho kufanele uyeke ukuzama ukuzivikela ngokweqile ngawo wonke amandla akho. Kulezo zikhathi, zikhumbuze ukuthi kufanele uthathe isinyathelo emuva futhi ngeso lengqondo ofuna izingane zakho babe: abantu abadala abanamasu, abazethembayo, abazimele nabanekhono.
Kufanele uzikhumbuze ukuthi ufunde izifundo empilweni yakho ngokwenza amaphutha. Uvunyelwe ukwehluleka futhi lokho kukwenza ube nesibopho ngezenzo zakho futhi wakwazi ukuziphonsela inselelo waze wenza intuthuko. Awufundelanga nje kuphela ukubhekana nezingqinamba nokwehluleka, kepha uthole isifundo (noma amakhulu ambalwa) ekubekezeleni nasekuxazululeni izinkinga.
Zikhumbuze ukuthi izingane zakho kufanele zazi ukuthi kulungile ukwenza amaphutha inqobo nje uma zivuma lokho kwehluleka futhi zifunde kuzo. Bazothola amandla nokuqina kuphela uma behluleka. Lapho bezizwa bekhululekile ukwenza amaphutha, kuningi okusamele kusetshenzelwe ukuze bathuthuke impela ekufundeni kwabo ngaphambi kokuphila.
Sisasebenza kumqondo wokuthi 'yini esikufundile nokuthi yini esizoyenza ngokuhlukile ngokuzayo ', kancane kancane, kancane kodwa ngokuqinisekile,… Okwamanje, qiniseka ukuthi wenza okusemandleni akho nsuku zonke ngenxa yemfundo yezingane zakho. Bafundise ukuthi ukwenza amaphutha kulungile, inqobo nje uma befunda kubo ukuze bangabuyeli etsheni elilodwa kabili, noma bangenzi ngendlela efanayo.
Akukhona ukuthi ufuna izingane zakho zehluleke empilweni, ukude nakho. Ukuqonda nje ukuthi kumele behluleke ukuthuthukisa amakhono abalulekile ukuze baphumelele empilweni. Yize kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ukuthi ungabasizi, kubalulekile ukuthi ungakwenzi kepha ubheke okwenzeka eduze.