Ukuba ngumzali kungumsebenzi onzima, futhi izingane zifanelwe ukwesekwa kwethu njengoba zilwela ukwenza okusemandleni azo zonke izinsuku zempilo yazo. Abazali abasha basengozini enkulu kunoma yisiphi isiphakamiso sokuthi ngabe ngabe benze okuhlukile. Futhi, ogogo nomkhulu abazi njalo okungcono kakhulu. Ogogo nomkhulu abathembeke kakhulu bayokuvuma lokho kwesinye isikhathi Lapho bengavumelani nesinqumo sabazali, kwesinye isikhathi babephutha.
Ukugxeka ngokungaqondile kungaba ingozi futhi. Izinkulumo ezinganembile noma amahlaya ahlekisayo angenza umzali osengozini azizwe kabi. Ukuqhathanisa nakho kungaba buhlungu kakhulu. Ungalokothi uqhathanise ukusebenza noma ukukhula komzukulu nokwenye ingane.
Lapho ogogo nomkhulu bengagxeki kakhulu futhi bengakwazi ukuthi cha, nakho kungadala inkinga ebudlelwaneni. Ilungelo logogo noma umkhulu lokutotosa abazukulu bakhe ligxilwe ngokuqinile esikweni lethu, kepha labo abanengqondo bayazi ukuthi kunemikhawulo. Umkhulu ongakwazi ukuthi cha kubazukulu bakhe uzoshiya abazali babo endaweni embi.
Ogogo nomkhulu kufanele bathi cha lapho abazukulu becela okuthile abazali babo abangakuvumeli, kungaba uswidi, isipho, noma ihora elengeziwe kuthelevishini. Ogogo nomkhulu kufanele bathi cha lapho abazukulu becela okuthile okungalimaza impilo yabo noma ukuphepha kwabo. Uma kukhulunywa ngokuthenga isipho esiceliwe, kwesinye isikhathi ogogo nomkhulu kufanele bathi cha. Noma kunjalo, zizoba khona izikhathi eziningi zokuthi yebo kubazukulu! Kuyadingeka kuphela ukuthi kuxoxwe kuqala nabazali ukuze bahlale belandela umugqa ofanayo wezemfundo nokuguquguquka. Futhi, ogogo nomkhulu ingaguquguquka ngandlela thile kunabazali ezimweni ezithile, inqobo nje uma bexoxile nabazali phambilini.