Ubusha yisigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu sempilo kumuntu omusha kanye nasemndenini osondele kakhulu. Ukuhlubuka kukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi intsha eningi ibalekela ikhaya ngenxa yesimo esishubile nabazali bayo. Kuyisimo esicindezela kakhulu kubazali uqobo ngoba abazi ukuthi benze njani lapho bebhekene nakho nokuthi benzeni.
Kujwayelekile futhi kujwayelekile ku- izingane kusukela ngesikhathi besebancane bayasabela uma kukhulunywa ngokungaqondwa ngokufihla ezindaweni ezehlukene zendlu ukuze abazali babo bangabatholi. Inkinga yalokhu ukuthi ngokuhamba kweminyaka, ingane iyakhula ikhethe ukushiya ikhaya njengesibonakaliso sokubhikisha nokuhlubuka. Okulandelayo, sichaza izizathu zokuthi kungani umuntu omusha engabaleka ekhaya nokuthi yini okufanele yenziwe uma kwenzeka lokhu kwenzeka.
Izizathu ezenza intsha ishiye ikhaya
- Esinye sezizathu okungenzeka ukuthi ushiya ikhaya kungenzeka kungenxa ye- egunyeni elisetshenziswa ngubaba nasekuyekeleni kancane kakhulu.
- Njengesifundo kubazali babo ngohlobo oluthile lokuziphatha abake baba nalo phambi kwensizwa.
- Ngezinye izikhathi intsha ihamba yodwa yokuthola ukunakwa ngabazali babo.
- Ebhekene nezimbangela noma izizathu ezinjalo, abazali kufanele basebenze ngokushesha okukhulu futhi thola ingane yakho isesimweni esihle.
Ungasinqanda kanjani isimo esinjalo
Lapho ubhekene nengxabano enamandla nengane, kungcono ume bese uthatha imizuzwana embalwa ukuqondisa isimo. Ezimweni eziningi, ukungazi ukuthi ungayilungisa kanjani inkinga futhi kubhebhethekise ingxoxo, kubangela ukuthi isiboshwa esincane sentukuthelo sinqume ukushiya ikhaya. Kungcono ukuphefumula kuze kufike eshumini bese uzama ukulungisa inkinga kungakephuzi kakhulu. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ingxoxo isikhuphukile futhi kungenzeki ukuthi osemusha abuyele ezingqondweni zakhe, zizwe ukhululekile ukumlandela futhi umqinisekise ukuthi abuyele ekhaya. Uma kwenzeka ephunyukile unganakile, kufanele uye kubangani osondelene nabo kakhulu ukuze wazi ukuthi ukuphi. Lezi yizikhathi ezinzima ngempela kubazali okufanele wazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nazo. Uma kungekho owazi okuthile, kufanele ugcine ingqondo epholile futhi umlinde ukuthi abuye ngokushesha okukhulu.
Okufanele ukwenze uma ingane yakho ifika ekhaya
Into ejwayelekile kulezi zimo ukujabula ngokubuya futhi ubeke eceleni ukungabi namandla okufanele ube nakho. Akuyona into enhle ukugxilisa le nsizwa kwazise leli fomu lizokwenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho ungalahli imininingwane yochungechunge lweziqondiso okufanele uzilandele uma kwenzeka ingane yakho ibuyela ekhaya ngokuphepha:
- Kumele wenze isiqiniseko sokuthi uyaphila kokubili ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.
- Uma usuzolile ngokuphelele, kufanele umbuze ukuthi kungani ashiye ikhaya.
- Kufanele uhlale eduze kwengane yakho futhi ukhulume ngendlela ezolile ukuthi lokhu akufanele kuphinde kwenzeke. Kungcono ukulungisa izinto kunokubalekela ikhaya. Kumele umenze aqonde ukuthi ngenkathi esekhaya kufanele athobele uchungechunge lwemithetho.
Uma ingane ibalekela ikhaya, imvamisa idala isimo sangempela sosizi nokungakhululeki phakathi kwabazali. Akusona isidlo esinambithekayo ukuhlala nenyama yakho njengoba ingane yakho inyamalala ingashongo lutho. Ezimweni eziningi, umuntu omusha uvame ukubuyela ekhaya ephephile futhi ephilile. Ngaphambi kokuba lesi simo sivele, kungcono ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle nentsha futhi kufinyelele ekuqondeni okuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma bengazizwa bethandwa futhi bengaqondakali, kungenzeka ukuthi ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yabo bazocabanga ngokushiya ikhaya.