NgoMsombuluko uJoey Salads uthumele okunye kokuhlolwa kwakhe kwezenhlalo futhi ngacabanga ukuthi ufuna ukukuhlanganyela nawe; UJoey 'uyinkanyezi ye-youtube', noma esikwaziyo ngalezi zingxenye njenge- 'youtuber'. Kanye no-Emily waqala ukubuka i- ukusabela kwabantu abehlukene kumama oncelisa esidlangalaleni; Futhi kwakukhona konke: kusuka kowesilisa ovuka ohlangothini lwakhe futhi ashiye ecasulwa 'ukuthuka' kwentombazane, kuya entombazaneni evumela ukuthi iphikisane ngokulula kokukhombisa amabele ayo esigcawini somphakathi, idlula endaweni evuthiwe ongakhathaleli nakancane ukuthi ingane idlani. Kungani lokho kumayelana nayo: Eminyakeni emithathu edlule, i Ikomidi Lokubeletha le-AEP ukhiphe inothi echaza ukuthi izingane kudingeka zibe njalo fed 'ngokufunwa'.
'Ukufunwa' kusho ukuthi isifuba kufanele sinikelwe lapho ingane isicela, futhi inqobo nje uma ifuna, ayikho enye indlela yokuvumelanisa ukukhiqizwa ubisi nezidingo zakho; kunengqondo kangangoba ngikuthola kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi kudala impikiswano engaka. Odokotela bezingane bekomidi bangeze ngokuthi 'ukuncelisa ibele emphakathini akufanele kubhekwe njengokuhlambalazayo noma ngokocansi; noma ukufihla / ukubamba, ngoba lezi zimfanelo ziba yisithiyo ukuqhubeka nokuncelisa, futhi zidikibalise omama besikhathi esizayo. Kulandela kulezi zitatimende ukuthi omama akudingeki ukuthi bangene egumbini elingcono noma elibi ukondla izingane zabo; futhi-ke ukuthi ayikho inkampani noma isikhungo okufanele sinqande isenzo semvelo esinjalo, maqondana nalokhu, ngithanda ukukuqhakambisa isinyathelo seBrazil ukuhlawulisa noma yikuphi ukuvinjelwa kokuncelisa ibele esidlangalaleni, yize ngasikhathi sinye kungiphatha kabi ukuthi kufanele siye kulezi zinto ezeqisayo.
Nayi ividiyo kaJoey Salads, kepha okokuqala ngikubhekisa esithombeni osibonile kusihloko seposi: Kuyisibonelo sesimo sokuzenzisa esikhulu umphakathi wasentshonalanga owakhe mayelana nokuncelisa omama. Akekho ongabaza ukuthi amabele kufanele akhonjiswe ekukhangiseni, kumabhayisikobho, noma ngaphansi kwanoma yisiphi esinye isizathu ... ngokwami angithuki lapho ngibona isikhangiso sezingubo zangaphansi lapho imodeli ikhombisa khona ngomzimba wayo iphosta ibhasi (angingabazi uma kunesidingo, yebo, noma uma kulusizo ukumelwa komphakathi kwabesifazane); Kepha angizukuphika ukuthi zonke lezi zithombe zifaka isandla ocansini lomzimba wesifazane, futhi zigcine ngokudala ukwamukelwa kwethu.
Kepha, ngokubuka kokwamukelwa, kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi kusikhathaze ukubona umama encelisa ibele?
Kungani kufanele umama azimboze ukuze ancelise ibele emphakathini?
Ngemuva kokufuna imithombo eminingi yolwazi ukuze ngikwazi ukuzichazela ukuthi yiziphi izizathu umuntu angazihlupha ngazo ukubona owesifazane otholakele, ngithole izizathu ezahlukahlukene njengokucabanga ukuthi okufunwa omama ukuthi kube yisikhungo sokunakwa (iphutha) Kukhona futhi labo abangakabi umama / ubaba okwamanje futhi abangakuqondi (kuzofika), kungenzeka yini ukuthi kungenxa yomona? (mhlawumbe kukhona okuthile kwalokho), ... Noma yikuphi ukuphikisana okwethulwe kimi, kuzokwehluleka ukuvumelana, futhi lapho ngikhuluma ngamazinga aphindwe kabili ezisizungezile, uzoqonda.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umama ngamunye uncela esidlangalaleni njengoba efuna / ekwazi: kwesinye isikhathi kwanele ukuthi uphakamise ihembe kancane ukuze ingane engaphezu konyaka izokhipha ibra ne-latches, abanye, ingane incane kakhulu futhi kufanele uthole okuningi; Kwesinye isikhathi izingubo zanele ukuze isifuba singavezi okuningi, ezinye zingabonakali, futhi kukhona nezikhathi esinganaki ngazo ngoba sikuthatha njengesenzo semvelo, ukuthi ... Inkinga ukuthi abanye abantu bathole umqondo ongafanele, nokumosheka ngendlela yabo yokubona izinto into enhle kangaka.
Ngaphambi kokuqhubeka, ngifuna ukuqaphela iqiniso lokuthi (ngokocwaningo lwango-2013), Isizathu sesibili esenza kungabi lula ngomama ukuncelisa ibele kufanele sikwenze esidlangalaleni; Ngokusobala lesi simo sengqondo sibangelwa ukwenqatshwa emphakathini, kepha uma ukuncelisa ibele kunenzuzo enkulu (futhi kunjalo), senzani esingabasizi omama futhi siyeke ubandlululo oluningi kangaka?
Futhi kungani kufanele ucashe egumbini labahlengikazi noma endlini yangasese ukuze uncelise ingane yakho ibele?
Wake wambona umuntu ethatha ipuleti lakhe lesobho noma i-hamburger ayifaka kusinki ayodla evikelekile ekubukeni / nasezilimini ezimbi? hhayi? Yebo-ke usunayo impendulo: asikho isizathu. Futhi ukuthi amakamelo ezincelisayo awekho yonke indawo, kodwa noma kunjalo ngumama onquma ukuthi uzowasebenzisa noma cha; Kubonakala kimi ukuthi kuyabandlulula, ngoba asithumeli asebekhulile endaweni efihlekile ukuze singababoni, futhi asivimbeli (kungadingeka kakhulu!) Ukuba khona kwabantu abanezinkinga zokuhamba, enye indlela nxazonke: sibasiza ukuba babelane ngezikhala ezifanayo nezethu.
Kepha uma ubukhona babanye abantu bukukhathaza ngempela, futhi ufuna ukukwenza ngendlela ehlukile ...
Ngakho-ke sikunikeza ezinye izindlela, kodwa kucace ukuthi nguwe onqumayo: kunezimpahla zokuncelisa ezimakethe ezingacasha ngoba lonke ibele alibonwa, futhi ungazimboza kancane nge-gauze (engingeke ngikwenze ukuncoma ukuthi uzimboze ngesikhafu esikhulu ngoba lokho kuyamangalisa baby, futhi Kubonakala kuyingozi kimi), noma ukukhetha izindawo ezinabantu abambalwa; enezingane ezincane kakhulu futhi usebenzisa izingane ezithwala Ukuncelisa ibele kukhululekile, kanti abanye abazi kangako ngakho. Futhi ekugcineni, uma omncane esevele enezinyanga ezingaphezu kwezingu-18/24 ubudala, ungazama ukuxoxisana nge-tit, bese uyihlehlisa uze ubuye ekhaya.
Kuthathwe ngamazinga aphindwe kabili
Akungabazeki: i-eroticism ibhekwa kahle, ukuncelisa ibele akunjalo, futhi yize kwabelwana ngomsebenzi, ngithanda ukuveza ukuthi ukuxhumana nomphakathi kukhuthaza lo mbono: isibonelo, yize kunemithetho yomphakathi, i-Facebook ithi ngeke ihlolisise izithombe zomama abancelisayo, ngesikhalazo esincane nje, okuqukethwe kususiwe futhi kuvinjelwe ama-akhawunti. Singaya uma ufuna umsuka wombuzo ngomunye umbuzo, ayini amabele uma ungancelisi ibele? okwenzekayo ngukuthi ngenxa yezici ezahlukahlukene bagcine sebemelele inkanuko yobulili (ngikubhekisa kumabhayisikobho ezocansi ukuze ukuqonde), ngenkathi ngithuthukisa umbono wokuncelisa ibele njengento engcolile.
Kodwa-ke, futhi awazi, kukhona amasiko lapho lokho kungenzeki khona: awubheki intombazane encelisa ibele ngokunganaki, futhi akekho noyedwa okhombisa 'ukunengeka' ngesenzo esihle nesimvelo. Ekurekhodweni ozokubona ngezansi, leli zinga eliphindwe kabili likhonjiswa ezithombeni ezimbalwa, omunye wabalingisi abaphambili ngumlingisi u-Alyssa Milano, ongazange ananaze ukuvikela ukuncelisa ibele ngemuva kwengxabano ngemifanekiso yokuncelisa kwakhe ingane yakhe. Kwenzekani kithi? Ngabe uMyley Cyrus onendwangu ecwebezelayo ngaphezulu kwezingono zakhe angaba ku-TV kanti u-Alyssa (noma ngubani) akakwazi ukuthumela izithombe zakhe ku-Instagram? Uma kungadingekile ngaphezu kokuhlaziya ngokuningiliziwe uhlobo lokucabanga olukhona, ukuze ubone ukuthi sihlekisa kangakanani.
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Ingabe ungomunye walabo abacabanga ukuthi omama banezingane ngenhloso eyodwa yokukwazi ukuthola ama-boobs ethu noma kuphi?
Hhayi-ke, ulahlekile kakhulu kunenaliti esfeni, ngiyaxolisa ukukusho kahle lokho
Umbuzo ulayishwe ukuhlekisa, kuyindlela yami yokukhombisa ukuxakeka kwami kulelo zinga eliphindwe kabili engikhuluma ngalo. Ukube besikucacisa lokho siqala ngesidingo sezingane ukunceliswa ibele, mhlawumbe bekungeke kusikhathaze, Noma ngabe yayizoqhubeka nokwenza kanjalo? Ukufanekisa, isibonelo (esingelona iqiniso kodwa esifana nezimo zangempela) Ngikukhombisa esinye isivivinyo esidale ukuvakashelwa okuningi kunevidiyo yamaSalads, futhi sashicilelwa kusasele isonto. ITrollstation, 'idlale' nabagibeli bomunye umzila wesitimela ongaphansi komhlaba eLondon, ukubona ukuthi benzenjani lapho bebona indoda ebidinwe kakhulu, eziphatha ngendlela enolaka nomama oncelisayo. Ekugcineni umfana uthatha isinqumo sokuhlala phakathi kowesifazane nesihambi esithukuthele, kuyilapho lo wesilisa ephindelela ephindelela ukuthi wayengenandaba nemibono yabanye, kepha ekwenzeni umlingisi onengane mbumbulu abone ukungafaneleki kokuziphatha kwakhe.
Ngibheke ngokukhululeka ukuthi abagibeli abakhele indawo yesehlakalo bathini Bazama ukuvikela lo mama (mbumbulu), ngenkathi bezama ukwehlisa uSlattery (okuyigama lomlingisi), ngaphandle kwempumelelo eningi iqiniso. Ngithe kimi 'Ngiyethemba sinesikhathi sokuguqula le mibono emibi kakhulu yokuncelisa ibele'. Nayi ividiyo:
Ngabe ukuncelisa ibele kusuke sekuyisihloko esamukelekayo sekudala impikiswano? Ngicabanga kanjalo, kodwa futhi siqala kusukela esikweni, noma indlela yokwenza izinto emiphakathini ehlukene, ngemibono ehlukene ngobuzali. Ngakho-ke manje kufanele ngiphinde: ukondliwa kuyilungelo lanoma yimuphi umntwana, ukuncelisa ibele kuyindlela enhle yokukwenza, izincomo ezisabalele kakhulu zifaka ukukwenza ngokufunwa, lapho kufunwa kungasho ukuthi kufanele uhlale ebhentshini lepaki ukuze ingane idle, futhi lokhu ngasikhathi sinye, kufanele uzitholele okuncane (noma okuningi, kuya ngokuthi ubona kanjani).
Ekugcineni, nokubeka amahlaya, ngikushiya nale meme yamanye ama-E Ekhombisa uhlu oluphelele lwezindlela lapho ukuncelisa kuthinta wonke umuntu ongancelisi; amanzi acacile.
Isithombe - (Ikhava) OkaDavid Horsey, umdwebi wamakhathuni weLos Angeles Times, (okokugcina) Amanye ama-E Cards
Ngiyasithanda lesi sihloko. Kuyimpikiswano evulekile emphakathini futhi kudala izingxoxo ezibuhlungu. Ngabe besizodlela endlini encane noma ngabe simboza amakhanda ethu ukuze sidle endaweni yokudlela? Isilingo esihle.
Sawubona Nati, le mpikiswano kanye nokushintshana ngemibono kufanele igcinwe impela; ngoba ngendlela engenangqondo kakhulu sibona ukuthi omama abancelisayo banconyelwa kanjani (kwamanye amazwe ngaphezu kwamanye), futhi angikwazi ukuchaza ukuthi, njengoba kuyisenzo semvelo esingenazo izinhloso ezimbi, kukhiqiza kanjani impikiswano.
Ozithobayo nokubonga ngokuphawula.
"UKUCABANISWA KWAMAPHOYISA AMASHA E-ColOMBIA NGESIBONELO"
Ngekhodi entsha yamaphoyisa, kungokubona kwephoyisa ukuthi uma wena, njengomama, uphazamisa abanye futhi ngeke ukwazi ukuncelisa ingane yakho endaweni yomphakathi, ngoba ungaboshelwa isenzo esilihlazo endaweni yomphakathi.
Hawu Janeth! Ngempela? Yikuphi ukudabuka 🙁 Ukuncelisa ibele isenzo esingahloniphekile? Anginikezi udumo!
Siyabonga ngokwabelana.
Sawubona uJaneth, lapho kukhodi entsha yamaphoyisa ikusho lokho? Bengiyifunda ukuze ngikhulume kahle ngale ndaba futhi angikutholanga. Uma unganginika imininingwane, ngiyayithokozela.
Impela, kuyindida-ke ukuthi abantu abacabanga ukuthi ukuncelisa ibele kuyisenzo esicasulayo, nokuthi singenziwa emphakathini, ukuba ngabantu "abanekhono lokucabanga" bakhombisa ukungazi ngokuphelele, kube sengathi abazange banceliswe nakanye omama babo futhi ngenhlonipho efanele, ngikholelwa ukuthi uma benza lokhu komunye omama, ngizwa inzondo noma ukwenqaba umama wabo, umyeni wakhe futhi mhlawumbe nomama wabazukulu babo. ... Bathola lesi senzo singamukeleki ngezizathu ze-X noma ze-Y, esikhundleni sokugxila kulabo abadlwengulayo, ababulali, abantshontshayo, abaphatha kabi, njll.
Ngakho-ke bayakhathala ngokuba ngaphezu kwezilwane, ngoba isidalwa esingakwazi ukuzikhulumela ngamazwi sinomqondo wokuphila, wobuhle kunalaba bantu abayiziwula nemicabango emibi.
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Hhayi ukuthi izwe eliningi liyisiphukuphuku njengami; I-Colombia, izama ukulingisa ama-gringos ngalo mqondo; ayishodi kepha bayaphoqa ukugqoka i-burqa. Ngithola lo mbono ungacabangeki kangangoba ungiholela ekucasukeni kokuhlala emphakathini we-fundamentalist ngobusuku obubodwa: Shaya umthetho ngokukhohlakala kosopolitiki namajaji. Ngokusobala, kufanele kube khona ukugqugquzela okuthandwayo okuphikisana nokuphathwa kwemithetho ethinta omkethu namadodakazi ethu.
Ushaye isipikili ekhanda, inkinga eyisisekelo yi-machismo, intshisekelo yezentengiselwano emzimbeni wowesifazane yiyo eholela ehlazweni lapho sizikhombisa ukuncelisa.
Siyabonga ngokuphawula.