Ukuqinela abanye kuyinkinga ejwayelekile ezikoleni emhlabeni wonke. Kuyinkinga yezenhlalo ethinta izinkulungwane zezingane edolobheni ngalinye futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi sonke simise lesi sihlava. Ezimweni ezithile, kuyadingeka ukuqala ekhaya. Uma ingane yakho iye yaba yisisulu sokuxhashazwa noma ukuxhashazwa, indlela eya ekululameni ingaba nzima kakhulu kunalokho ongakucabanga.
Imiphumela yokuxhashazwa ingahlala isikhathi eside enhliziyweni yalowo ohlukunyezwayo, noma ngabe sekuphelile ukuhlukunyezwa. Futhi, uma kungabhekwana nayo ngokushesha, kungaholela ezinkingeni zezingane ngokuzayo. Kunamasu athile okufanele awazi ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi ukululama ekuhlukunyezweni ngaphandle kwemiphumela emibi empilweni yayo.
Chaza ubuntu bakho
Ingane yakho akudingeki izizwe ichazwa ngokuxhashazwa. Okwenzeka kuwe akudingeki ukuthi kukhombe ukuthi ungubani noma ubuntu bakho. Akufanele umvumele ukuba achaze ukuthi ungubani njengomuntu. Ingane yakho kumele ibone ukuthi iziqhwaga zikhetha ukungaziphathi kahle futhi kufanele ikhethe ukuthi okwenziwa abanye akumthinti nakancane. Ingane yakho ayikufanele ukuhlukunyezwa.
Fundisa ingane yakho ukwenza amagama alimazayo ashelele njengamanzi. Vumela izenzo ezibuhlungu zibashiye esikhathini esedlule futhi zingamaki ikusasa lakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zibone amandla azo futhi zikhule. Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi uyazi ukuthi kukhona okuningi emhlabeni ngaye nokuthi anganikeza okuningi kwabanye.
Shintsha umbono wakho
Ingane yakho ingashintsha umqondo wayo. Izingane eziye zahlukunyezwa kwesinye isikhathi zizwa ukuthi ukuhlukumeza kudla yonke imicabango yazo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi icabange kabusha ukucabanga kwayo futhi iguqule umbono wayo ngokuxhashazwa. Umgomo ukuthi ingane yakho igxile emicabangweni yayo ezintweni ezinenjongo noma ezinenjongo empilweni yayo.. Imicabango yakho akufanele igxile kuphela ekuhlukumezeni oke wabhekana nakho.
Uma ungazi ukuthi ungayisiza kanjani ingane yakho kulokhu, ungacela usizo lwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisebenzayo ukuze sisebenze ngokwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo futhi sisize ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi ukuqondisa kabusha izinqubo zayo zokucabanga. Uma ingane yakho izizwa inecala ngoba ihlaselwa esikoleni ngoba icabanga ukuthi kuyiphutha layo ngandlela thile noma ngoba izizwa ingakwazi ukuguqula isimo ... Udinga ukushintsha le micabango engemihle ukuze unike amandla isimo.
Ingane yakho kuzofanele ithole amandla ayo, ibone ngokwesibonelo ukuthi inamandla kunalokho ebicabanga, iyaqina, inozwela, ukuthi imiyalezo engemihle ayimthinti ngoba inamandla angaphakathi kunalokho eyayicabanga, njll.
Yiba nokulawula
Ukuze ingane yakho ingezwa ukwesaba, kufanele izwe ukuthi isilawula isimo noma okungenani ukuthi ilawula lokho ezizwa ngakho ngalokho abanye abazama ukumenza azizwe ngakho. Imizwa yokungabi nalusizo ivamile kwizisulu zokuxhashazwa futhi le mizwa ingahlala empilweni yabantu abadala ... Ngemiphumela emibi ebuntwini babo nasekuziphendukeleni komuntu siqu. Ungaphila impilo yakho njengesisulu esiphakade, ubukele phansi ubudlelwano obungaba nempilo ngokuguqula kube yingozi.
Ingane yakho idinga ukubona ukuthi ngenkathi ingakwazi ukulawula okwenzekile kuyo, ingalawula ukusabela kwayo. Ukubuyiselwa emuva kuqala lapho ungalawula khona imicabango yakho, imizwa, nezenzo zakho bese uqala ukwenza ukukhetha okunempilo. Siza ingane yakho ibone izinto empilweni yayo akwazi ukuzilawula. Isibonelo, ungakhetha ukucabanga ngokunye kunokuhlukumeza. Noma, ungakhetha ukwenza okuthile ukusiza abanye ezimeni ezifanayo. Iphuzu ukuthi ingane yakho ifunde ukuthi ungazibona kanjani izinqumo ezinempilo bese uzisebenzisa empilweni yakhe.
Lokhu kuzokusiza uzizwe ulawula empilweni yakho futhi kwenze ukuthi umcabango wesisulu ungahlali isikhathi eside empilweni yakho. Lapho uzwa ukuthi uyakwazi ukwenza nokukhetha wedwa yize ubhekene nezimo zokuhlukunyezwa, uzokwazi kangcono ukuphuma kulo mjikelezo ononya. Lapho isiqhwaga sibona ukuthi izenzo zaso zokuhlukumeza azinawo amandla noma amandla amaningi kulowo ohlukunyezwayo, isiqhwaga kungenzeka siyeke.
Ukukhula komuntu
Udinga ukubona izindawo ingane yakho engakhula futhi yelaphe kuzo. Isibonelo, ungathola ukuthi ingane yakho idinga usizo ekwakheni ukuzethemba noma ekuqiniseni ngokwengeziwe. Kungadingeka futhi ukusebenza ekucindezelekeni noma ekukhathazekeni okuzwayo ngenxa yezimo zokuhlukumeza ohlangabezana nazo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi unake njengomzali emibonweni onayo uma kwenzeka kuba nengozi yokudangala noma imicabango yokuzibulala. Umgomo ukukhomba izindawo empilweni yengane yakho ezidinga ukwenziwa ngcono.
Uma kunesidingo, ungasebenza kulesi sici nochwepheshe uma kwenzeka udinga ukuholwa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo. Ngale ndlela izingane zakho zizokwazi ukwazi imicabango yakho, ngalokho ezizwa ngakho kwabanye nangokuziqonda futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, zizofunda ukuzilawula ezimweni ezingenakukwazi ukuzilawula.
Qeda ukuxhashazwa
Njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni kwalesi sihloko, ukuqeda ukuxhashazwa kungumsebenzi wawo wonke umuntu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi njengomzali wazi ukuthi nawe kuningi okumele ukwenze.
Ingxenye yenqubo yokuphulukisa kwengane yakho ukuze ikwazi ukushiya imizwa yobuhlungu ngenxa yokuxhashazwa. Ubuciko buyadingeka ... Ngakho-ke inhloso ukuthi ingane yakho ingavumeli imicabango engemihle ihlasele ingqondo yayo.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ngenkathi lezi zindlela zibhekelwa ukunqoba ukuxhashazwa, kuthathwa izinyathelo ukuze ingane yakho izizwe ivikelekile. Uma kunesidingo sokushintsha izikole, kuzodingeka ukuthi kwenziwe kanjalo lapho izinyathelo ezithathiwe zinganele.