Izingane nentsha zibhajwe esifisweni sokuvuthwa kakhudlwana futhi zikhule ngokushesha, zikwazi ukuzimela, zikwazi ukusebenza kahle, kepha futhi zidinga futhi zifuna ukunakekelwa nokuvikelwa nguwe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuze bajabule badinga ukuzwa ukuvikela obanikeza kona, ukuphepha komndeni nokwethenjwa kwabazali. abamthanda ngaphandle kwemibandela.
Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi zingazithola zombili. Uthando oluzwayo kuye nokuthi kunemikhawulo nemithetho ekhaya akusho ukuthi abakwazi ukulawula ezinye izinqumo ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene. Abancane bajwayele ukuthobela imiyalo yabantu abadala ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi ukubanikeza ithuba lokuzikhethela ngezikhathi ezithile kuzobasiza bazizwe bezethemba ngokwengeziwe futhi bakwazi nokukhuthaza ukuthatha izinqumo okunempilo.
Kubalulekile ukuthi banikezwe ithuba lokuba nezinketho ngaphakathi kwemikhawulo owawusungule ngaphambilini. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ifuna ukulala kamuva, ungamtshela ukuthi uyaqonda, kodwa ukuthi udinga ukulala kahle ukuze avuke ekuseni kakhulu esikoleni. Ungasho okuthile okufana nalokhu: 'Kuthiwani ngokulala noma kunini lapho ufuna khona ngeMigqibelo nangamaholide kodwa uzame ukuba lapho ngaphambi kuka-9.30 ebusuku ebusuku lapho kunesikole ngosuku olulandelayo?
Kwesinye isikhathi izinqumo zingaba lula, njengokukhetha ukuthi bafuna ukuba yini ngophudingi noma izingubo abafuna ukuzigqoka ukuphuma. Kubalulekile ukuthi unikeze izingane zisencane ithuba lokuzinqumela, ngakho-ke zizofunda nokuthi cha noma zizenzele izinqumo kwezinye izimo.
Ingabe uyazivumela izingane zakho ukuba zenze izinqumo ezincane ekuphileni kwazo kwansuku zonke futhi ngaleyo ndlela uzizwe sengathi ziyalawula?