Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali esikoleni

Lapho izingane sezivele zicwilisiwe enqubweni yesikole, kubonakala sengathi amakhaya abuyela esimeni esejwayelekile. Amashejuli, umsebenzi wesikole, izifundo nakho konke okuphathelene nesikole esijwayelekile kusezimpilweni zayo yonke imindeni. Kepha lapho izingane zingena esikoleni ekuseni, akudingeki sizishiye kuphela siye emsebenzini ... Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali esikoleni kubalulekile ekukhuleni okuhle kwezemfundo nangokomzwelo kwezingane. 

Kukhona ucwaningo olukhombisa ukuthi ukuzibandakanya kwabazali esikoleni kungakhuphula izinga lokuziphatha kwabafundi, ukuya, kanye nokuphumelela. Kepha izikole zingakhuthaza kanjani izinga eliphakeme, ukuzibandakanya okuphumelelayo kwabazali? Abazali nesikole kumele basebenze ngendlela efanayo ukuze izingane zizwe ukuhlangana okufunwa kwezemfundo, Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho imiphumela emihle ingatholakala khona ngokomzwelo nangokwezifundo.

Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali esikoleni kuyaqhubeka nokuba yinselelo kochwepheshe abazinikele ekuguqulweni kwezikole yize beyingxenye edingekayo yezinhlelo eziningi ezikhona zokuthuthukisa izikole. Ukuzibandakanya ngempumelelo kwabazali ezikoleni kuzothuthukisa indlela izingane eziziphatha ngayo emakilasini futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, izophinde ithuthukise ukuhamba kwabafundi, kodwa futhi ithinta ngokuhle nokusebenza kwabafundi.

Kodwa-ke, njengoba izikole eziningi ziqhubeka nokuthola ubunzima bokuchaza nokulinganisa ukubamba iqhaza kwabazali okunengqondo, eziningi azizwa sengathi imizamo yazo iphumelele. Kunochwepheshe abaningi emkhakheni wezemfundo ababona ukuthi ubudlelwane nabazali kungaba yimbangela yengcindezi enkulu emisebenzini yabo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ezikoleni nasemakhaya kunezinsizakusebenza ezenzelwe ukuthi ukubandakanyeka kwabazali esikoleni kukhuthazwe futhi kube nobudlelwano obuyimpumelelo. 

Ukungqubuzana kungaqhamuka, noma kunjalo, ngokuthi kungakhiwa kanjani lokho kubamba iqhaza… kubalulekile ukuthi abazali babone ukuthi imizamo yabo yokubamba iqhaza esikoleni iwufanele. Inani lemisebenzi yokubandakanyeka kwabazali esikoleni lithinta ngqo imiphumela yabafundi.

Ukuzibandakanya okuphumelelayo kwabazali esikoleni

Ukuzibandakanya okuphumelelayo kwabazali esikoleni kungachazwa njengokubandakanyeka okusebenzayo nokuqhubekayo komzali noma umnakekeli emfundweni yengane yakhe. Abazali bangakhombisa ukuzibandakanya emakhaya ngokufunda nezingane zabo, ukusiza ngomsebenzi wesikole, ukukhuluma ngezinto ezenzeka esikoleni, ukuya emicimbini yesikole, ukuvolontiya emakilasini noma uhambo lwasensimini lapho othisha bebuza ... Izikole ezinabazali abathintekayo zizoba nokuxhumana okungcono komndeni nezikole futhi lokhu kuhle kakhulu enqubeni yokufunda yezingane .

Yiziphi izithiyo ekubandakanyeni kwabazali esikoleni?

Izikole kaningi azihlangani nabazali ngoba zicabanga ukuthi azikwazi… futhi konke lokhu kungumbono nje. Othisha babona ukuthi imindeni ayifuni ukubandakanyeka lapho ingazi ukuthi ibambe iqhaza kanjani. Ngesinye isikhathi abazali bayanqikaza ukuzibandakanya esikoleni ngoba abanaso isikhathi esengeziwe noma ngenxa yokuthi abalwazi kahle ulimi lwendawo. Noma kunjalo, inkinga enkulu kungaba ukungaxhumani phakathi kwesikole nemindeni. Abazali bakholelwa ukuthi abamukelekile, ngokwengxenye yilokho abakwazile ukukuphila empilweni yabo. Kwesinye isikhathi kuthatha ukubandakanyeka okuncane ukuqinisekisa isipiliyoni esihle.

Ngaphandle kwezithiyo ezingaba khona, abazali nezikole bafuna ukuthi ubudlelwano buthuthuke ezinhlangothini zombili, ngoba lokhu kuzohlala kuhlomulisa abafundi. Abafana namantombazane bazokwenza kangcono esikoleni uma abazali babo bebandakanyeka kakhulu ngoba bazozwa ukuthi abakwenzayo esikhungweni semfundo kukufanele ngempela nokuthi abazali babo bayakwazisa futhi balwela nokwenza konke kuhambe kangcono.

Bangabandakanyeka kanjani abazali esikoleni?

Yize cishe zonke izikole zikhuthaza ukubamba iqhaza kwabazali, kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokubamba iqhaza ezisukela ekukhuthazeni ukuvolontiya, ekuqongeleleni imali, ekubambeni iqhaza ekuhlanganyeleni komama nobaba esikhungweni semfundo, ukukhuthaza imisebenzi yokufunda esikoleni, ekhaya, njll. Kungaba khona ezinye izigaba lapho abazali bezizwa bengcono iqhaza esikoleni Futhi, bayabona ukuthi umzamo wabo uyaziswa, ngokwesibonelo:

• Amaqembu okuzala. Ezikoleni, zisiza imindeni ukuthi ithuthukise amakhono abo wokuba ngumzali, inikeze imininingwane ngezigaba zokukhula kwezingane futhi inikeze izeluleko ngezindawo zasekhaya ukwenza lula ukufunda.
• Ukuxhumana. Izikole zingasebenzela ukwenza ngcono ukuxhumana nemindeni mayelana nezinsizakalo nokuxoxa ngenqubekela phambili yezingane.
• Ukuzinikela. Ukuzinikela kunikeza abazali ithuba lokuvakashela isikole sezingane zabo futhi bathole izindlela zokusebenza ngokuzithandela esikoleni noma ekilasini.
• Ukufunda ekhaya. Imibono kufanele kwabelwane ngayo ezikoleni nasezikhungweni zokukhuthaza ukufunda ekhaya ngokwenza okulindelwe okukhulu namasu ukuze abazali bakwazi ukugada nokusiza ngomsebenzi wesikole.
• Ukwenza isinqumbo. Ekwenzeni izinqumo, abazali bangaba sohlangothini lwesikole lapho beyingxenye yomkhandlu wesikole futhi ngaleyo ndlela bakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezithonya wonke umuntu esikoleni.
• Ukusebenzisana komphakathi. Ukusebenzisana komphakathi kuyisu lokufinyelela emphakathini ukukhuthaza ukuzibandakanya komndeni emphakathini, ikakhulukazi esikoleni. Kepha kufanele babe nomuzwa wokuthi umzamo wabo uthathwa ngokungathi sína nokuthi imibono yabo inesisindo nasemphakathini.

Ngabe ubamba iqhaza elibonakalayo nesikole sezingane zakho ukuba yingxenye yaleyo ngxenye ebalulekile ethatha izimpilo zabo?