Omama abangabodwa bangeze ukucindezeleka kunoma imuphi omunye umndeni, njengoba kufanele babhekane nezithiyo eziningi bebodwa. Yize ngikhuluma ngomama abangabodwa, kusobala ukuthi kukhona nobaba abangashadile futhi okumele nabo babhekane nezimo ezinzima empilweni yabo yansuku zonke. Konke lokhu kungabeka omama abangabodwa nobaba abangabodwa abazizwa becindezelekile maqondana nokuba ngumzali.
Ukuba ngumzali noma ukuba ngumzali ngamunye kungafaka ingcindezi eyengeziwe futhi kwenze umzali azizwe ekhathazekile empilweni yakhe. Uzwa sengathi akekho umuntu ongabelana naye imisebenzi yansuku zonke noma ukwenza izinqumo, Obaba abangabodwa nomama abangabodwa kufanele banikeze ukusekelwa okukhulu ezinganeni zabo njengoba zizizwa zinesizungu futhi kwesinye isikhathi zingazinzi ngokomzwelo. Kuyadingeka ukunciphisa izingcindezi emindenini enomzali oyedwa ukuqinisekisa ubuzali obuhle.
Gcina umbhalo walokho imali
Udinga ukuphatha kahle imali yakho ukuze uyenze ize iphele inyanga. Akulula ukuba ngumama ongayedwa noma ubaba ongayedwa nokukwazi ukuqhubekela phambili ngokukhokha zonke izikweletu ngomholo owodwa nje. Ukufeza lokhu kuzofanela wazi ukuthi yiziphi izinkokhelo zakho nokuthi ungazixazulula kanjani, gcina irekhodi lemali engenayo nezindleko ukwazi ngempela ukuthi unemali engakanani ekupheleni kwezinyanga.
Uma udinga umsebenzi omningi, uneziqu zemfundo noma enye into, kufanele uthole ngosizo olungatholakala kubantu abakusimo sakho. Udinga ukubheka izindlela zokuphuma ungagxili kokubi, kepha kukho konke ongakufeza ngamandla.
Khuluma ngokusobala
Kuyadingeka ukuthi ube nabantu abaseduze kwakho abathembekile futhi abakuvumela ukuthi ukhulume ngendlela ozizwa ngayo nangosuku lwakho losuku. Kungenzeka nokuthi uma ukhuluma uyabona ukuthi izinto zingaphinde zenziwe kabusha futhi zibonakale ngomunye umbono.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ukhulume nezingane zakho ngemizwa ezingaba nayo kulesi simo. Ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho kuzohlala kukwenza uzizwe kahle futhi uqonde ukuthi uzizwa kanjani futhi uzwisane nabanye. Kuyindlela yokuthi bazi ukuthi nawe unemizwa nokuthi izinto ezingcono zingafinyelelwa ndawonye.
Thola usizo nokusekelwa
Ukuthola ukwesekwa kungumbono omuhle kodwa kuzoba ngcono uma nawe ufunda ukukusebenzisa. Awufuni ukuphatha yonke into ngokwakho ngoba kwesinye isikhathi akunakwenzeka. Thola ukusekelwa nosizo ngomndeni wakho nabangane, ngoba uma uyakudinga futhi ukucele, nakanjani uzokwazi ukulalela. ngakho-ke ngeke uzizwe ukhungathekile kwezinye izikhathi.
Ungahlangana nabantu abaningi abasesimweni esifanayo nokuthi ngale ndlela ungakhuluma nabo ngokwenzeka kuwe nokuthi bakuchazele ukuthi bazixazulula kanjani izinkinga zabo, mhlawumbe ngaleyo ndlela ungazizwa uvikelekile futhi uthole okunye izixazululo.
Futhi, udokotela wezingane angaba ngumthombo omkhulu wosizo nolwazi, ikakhulukazi ezindabeni ezihlobene nempilo yezingane zakho, uma unemibuzo mayelana nalolu daba, unganqikazi ukuya ekubonisaneni kwabo ngoba bazokwazi ukukuqondisa ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Yiba nesikhathi esezingeni lomndeni wakho
Ukuba ngumzali ongayedwa kungacindezela kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzodinga isikhathi esincane usuku ngalunye sokujabulela izingane zakho. Chitha isikhathi nabo udlala, ufunda, ubabukele buthule babadlala, benza amaphrojekthi, ubasize ngomsebenzi wesikole, ubuke ama-movie noma ulalele umculo. Isikhathi sakho yisipho esihle kunazo zonke ongasinika izingane zakho.
Izingane zakho azidingi amathoyizi emfashini, noma ubuchwepheshe, noma okwakamuva kakhulu ... izingane zakho ziyakudinga, Badinga isikhathi sakho, bakwange, bakuqabule, bazi ukuthi bayabathanda, bakutshele ukuthi bayakuthanda. Izingane zizojabula uma zibona ukuthi kuwe kukhona uthando olukhulu olungenamibandela ngazo.
Zitholele isikhathi
Leli phuzu lingakubiza kakhulu ukwenza kodwa ngoba kunzima kakhulu akusho ukuthi kufanele ulibeke eceleni. Akulula ukuzitholela isikhathi lapho usebenza ngokugcwele, kufanele unakekele ikhaya, uhlanzeke, unakekele izingane, uzisize ngomsebenzi wesikole, uchithe isikhathi esihle nazo, njll. Futhi uthole isikhathi sakho? Kubukeka sengathi kuzwakala njengehlaya, kepha akukho okungaba kude neqiniso.
Ukuba nesikhathi sakho kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba nawe kudingeka ube nesikhathi sempilo yabantu abadala. Ungafuna ukusebenzela umzanyana othembekile onolwazi lokunakekela izingane futhi ukwazi ukuchitha isikhathi wedwa noma nabangane bakho. Yenza izinto ozithandayo, ezikugcwalisayo, ezikwenza uzizwe kamnandi.
Ukubaluleka kwemikhuba
Izindlela ezidingekayo zidingakala ngokuphelele kuyo yonke imindeni, kepha uma kukhulunywa ngemindeni enomzali oyedwa, zibaluleke kakhulu. Imizila izokusiza uthole ukwakheka okuhle futhi uhlele usuku lwakho kahle.
Kubalulekile ukuhlela ukudla, imisebenzi yasendlini, isikhathi sokulala nanoma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi ngokuya ngempilo yakho. Izikhathi kuzodingeka zenziwe njalo ukuze izingane zakho zazi ukuthi yini okufanele ziyilindele usuku ngalunye, ngakho-ke imizila izobasiza bazizwe belondeke ngokwengeziwe futhi uzoba nokuthula.
Gcina isiyalo esihle
Ukuyala okufanelekile kubalulekile futhi kuyadingeka kuyo yonke imindeni. Abazali abahlukanisile noma abahlukanisile kumele basebenze ngokubambisana ukujezisa izingane zabo ngendlela efanayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi noma ubuhlobo bungebuhle kakhulu, ubheke okuhle kwezingane zakho futhi wenze umzamo wokukwazi ukubafundisa ngendlela efanayo.
Kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde izindlela ezinhle zokuphatha indlela izingane eziziphatha ngayo ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka ezinganeni nakubazali.
Gcina isimo sengqondo esihle
Khumbula ukuthi izingane zakho zizohlala zithinteka yimizwa yakho nesimo sakho sengqondo ngempilo. Izingane zakho zidinga ukuzwa uthando lwakho olungenamibandela ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukwethembeka ngemizwa edabukisayo. kodwa futhi kufanele bazi ukuthi kunezikhathi ezingcono nokuthi ziyisizathu sakho esikhulu senjabulo nothando. Izingane zakho ziyikho konke kuwe futhi kufanele zikwazi nsuku zonke.