Izingane ziyathanda ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yasendlini, kepha kuyadingeka ukuzisiza ukuthi zisebenzisane nazo kucatshangelwa okuthandayo, izintshisekelo zazo kanye nendlela yazo yokuzwa umhlaba. Ukuze yonke into ilinganiswe, inhloso ukuthi abazali babasize babambe iqhaza ekuhlobiseni kwekamelo lokulala ebanikeza izinketho esezicabangiwe ukuze bazizwe beyingxenye yezinqumo ezithathwa ekamelweni labo.
Uma umshiya nenkululeko yokuzikhethela ukuhlobisa igumbi lakhe lokulala, ungazisola ngoba kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi lokho akuthandayo (kwengane noma eyeve eshumini nambili oshintsha ngesikhathi esifushane) akuhlangene nawe nhlobo. Ungacabanga ngegumbi lokulala lendodana yakho eyeve eshumini nambili eligcwele imidwebo noma izingqwembe zesithombe sayo yonke indawo? Noma mhlawumbe ukhetha ukubeka izibani ze-neon esikhundleni sesibani esinokukhanya okulungele umbono wakho ... Kungenxa yakho konke lokhu akudingeki ubanikeze yonke inkululeko yokuhlobisa igumbi labo lokulala, kepha kubalulekile ukuthi babambe iqhaza ukuze bazizwe bekungelabo.
Izingane bezihlobisa amakamelo ngokusho kokuthandwa nalokho abakuthandayo ngaphandle kokubheka okunye. Bebengakwenza becabanga kuphela ngokuthanda kwabo kwangaphakathi ngaphandle kokuthintana nemithetho yokuhlobisa noma yokwakha. Kuyadingeka ukuthola ibhalansi ekwakhiweni nasekuhlobiseni ukuze izingane nabazali bathole izinhlobo ezifanele zokuhlobisa lapho wonke amaqembu ephuma ejabule futhi esizana.
Yenza uhlu lwezinto abazithandayo nabazithandayo
Ohlwini, kufanele kube nezinto ezisohlwini lwalokho akuthandayo nongakuthandi. Lapho umuntu enesitayela sakhe, akunandaba ukuthi abanye bakutshelani. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ingane yakho ibhale ohlwini imibala emithathu eyithanda kakhulu naleyo engayithandi nhlobo. Uma igumbi kwabelwana ngalo, zonke izingane ezilele kulelo gumbi kuzofanele zikwenze futhi lapho funa ukuhlanganiswa kombala ukuze wonke umuntu ajabule ngesinqumo sokugcina. Ungakhetha umbala ongathathi hlangothi noma wokugqamisa ukuze uvumelane ngokuphelele.
Nciphisa izinketho
Lapho kunezinketho eziningi kakhulu etafuleni kuyadingeka ukuthi uzinciphise ukuze ngale ndlela zinganqotshwa noma zilahleke phakathi kwezinketho eziningi. Inani lezinketho ezingatholwa ngabazali lingaba likhulu impela Kepha izingane zingathola isithukuthezi ngokusesha ngemibala eminingi noma ngezinketho zendwangu. Udinga ukukhetha okulungile ucabangela ukuthanda kwabo futhi ngaleyo ndlela unciphise izinketho ozozethula ezinganeni.
Ngale ndlela ungagcina ukulawula komhlobiso ngokuzibophezela (ekugcineni kosuku nguwe okhokhela umhlobiso wekamelo lokulala lezingane zakho futhi uyazi isabelomali okufanele ukwazi ukusisebenzisa egumbini lokulala).
Ngokufanelekile, kufanele unikeze izingane okungenani izinketho ezintathu ezintweni ofuna ukuzengeza egumbini (ukuthi uthathe isinqumo phambilini) bese uvumela izingane zakho zisho uvo lwazo ngenketho ngayinye.
Vumela nezingane zikhethe
Bazobe bekwenza ngempela, bazobe bekhetha abakufunayo ekamelweni labo lokulala futhi bazozwa ukuthi ngenxa yakho, bazokwazi ukukhetha okuthile okukhetheke kakhulu ekamelweni labo lokulala. Futhi mabazikhethele okuthile abazokufaka egumbini, Kungaba umdwebo, umdwebo, umdwebo, isiguqo, indwangu, isibani ... okuthile okukhombisa ukuthi ikamelo lakho lokulala nokuthi lihlotshiswe ngenxa yezintshisekelo zakho nezinto ozithandayo.
Bacele usizo lokwenza umsebenzi
Njengoba nje bezoba nezwi ezintweni zokuhlobisa igumbi lokulala, kubalulekile futhi ukuthi babambe iqhaza ekuhlobiseni. Ngikhuluma ngokubamba iqhaza emsebenzini wangempela womhlobiso, ngoba lena yindlela yabo yokwazi konke abakwazi ukukufeza futhi nokuthi bazizwe bekhonjwe ngokwengeziwe ngaphakathi ekamelweni labo lokulala.
Lokhu kuzosiza wonke umuntu obamba iqhaza ekuhlobiseni igumbi ukuthi azizwe ejabule ngomphumela, ukuthi ifenisha isendaweni eyodwa, ukuthi izinto zibekwa lapho zithanda khona kakhulu ... kepha njalo ngaphansi kweso lomuntu omdala. Lokhu akukona ukudala isikhala sokulala, kumayelana nokwakha isikhala esiyisiphephelo sansuku zonke nokuthi ngaphezu kokudlulisa ukuzola, ukuthula, injabulo ... Kwangathi nawe ungaba nomuzwa omkhulu wokuziqhenya ngokubamba iqhaza lapho kungenzeka khona.
Yiba ovumelana nezimo futhi ulalele lokho abakutshela kona
Kungenzeka ukuthi ngesikhathi esithile kuyo yonke le nqubo kube nezikhathi zokungezwani, kulezi zimo ungazami ukwethuka noma ukufuna ukubakholisa ngalokho okubonakala kukuhle kuwe futhi kuphelele lapho ... mabaveze umbono wabo futhi bakutshele ukuthi kuyini. bafuna ngempela noma banentshisekelo kokuningi. Uma bebona sengathi ubaphoqa ngokuthile esikhundleni sokunikeza imibono ukuze bakutshele lokho abacabanga ukuthi kungcono kakhulu, kungenzeka ukuthi umzabalazo wamandla omubi ungavela esikhathini esithile. Umbango wamandla awufanelekile uma ufuna ukuzuza okuthile ngokuthula nangokuzwana, ngakho-ke vumelana nezinqumo zakho kepha mabenze ingxenye yabo.
Wake wahlobisa igumbi lokulala nezingane zakho? Ngabe basebenzisane noma uthathe isinqumo sokuthi yini engcono? Sitshele ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nokuthi izingane zakho zisebenzisane kanjani nawe ezinqumweni zokugcina. Futhi uma ungakaze ube nethuba lokuthi izingane zakho zisebenzisane nawe kuphrojekthi efana nale, unganqikazi ukwenza kanjalo. Ngenxa yalolu lwazi nizokwazi ukusebenzela kokuthile okubalulekile ndawonye Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzophinde uqinise isibopho sakho esingokomzwelo, into ngokungangabazeki ezokuhlanganisa kakhulu njengomndeni. Ukukwazi ukwenza izinto abazali nezingane ndawonye, ukuthi izingane zakho zizwe ukuthi imibono yazo ibaluleke kanjani nokuthi uyazihlonipha ... ngaphandle kokungabaza kuzokuhlanganisa kakhulu.