Ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo kubalulekile ekuqondisweni okuhle ngoba abantu bayingxenye yeqembu futhi sithanda ukuzizwa sikukho. Izingane, njengabantu abadala, nazo zidinga ukuzwa ukuthi ukuhlangana nokuxhumana ngokomzwelo nabantu ezibazungezile ... ngaphezu kwakho konke, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, nabazali bakhe.
Ukuxhuma nezingane akulula kepha kuyadingeka. Ukuxhuma nezingane zakho kusho ukukwenza ngothando nenhlonipho emsulwa ekhona futhi yize kukhona ukungqubuzana, imfihlo ukuthi ubaphathe behlise umoya. Ukucindezeleka kwansuku zonke kungaba nzima, ukukhathala ... kodwa umuzwa wokuphila okwamanje ungakusiza kulokhu.
Sonke sinezinsuku ezimbi, kepha lezo zinsuku ezimbi ziyisihluthulelo sokuthola ukuxhumana okuhle. Ukwazi imizwa yakho nokwazi ukuthi ungayilawula kanjani kubalulekile, ngokwesibonelo, lapho izingane zakho zihlukumezekile emgwaqweni noma Unomuzwa wokuthi usuku alupheli ngenxa yokukhathala okuphethe.
Njengoba ubhekene nalezi zimo eziyinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe, kulapho izingane zidinga kakhulu ukuthi ubakhombise uthando lwakho ngendlela eqotho kakhulu futhi uzixhume ngazo zombili nemizwa yazo. Ukufeza lokhu, kuzofanela uqale uxhumane nawe, wenze izivivinyo zokuphumula. Lapho ufuna ukuxhumana nezingane zakho, qoshama ubheke emehlweni azo…. Ngoba lokho kubukeka kuhlanzekile ongakwazi.
Qinisekisa imizwa yakho, kodwa futhi neyakhe. Menze abone ngamazwi nangezenzo zakho ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi uzizwa kanjani nokuthi uyazi ukuthi ubhekene nesikhathi esibi. Khombisa ukuzwelana nokuzimisela futhi uzomangala ukuthi indlela abaziphatha ngayo ingathuthuka kanjani ngokushesha. Uma ngikhuluma nawe, mlalele ngempela ngoba ukulalela ngenkuthalo kuyadingeka ukuze athuthuke kahle.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuxhumana okuhle ngokomzwelo kuzoletha kuphela izinzuzo ngoba nizozwana kahle, ngeke kube khona ukubangisana ngamandla futhi okuhle kunakho konke ... uzoba nobuhlobo obusekelwe enhlonipho nasothandweni ngezindlela ezimbili. Ukwethembana, ukuxhumana kanye nokuba qotho yizona zinsika eziyisisekelo ukuze umndeni usebenze.