Ucwaningo eminyakeni eyi-15 edlule lukhombisa ukuthi inani lezifo zengqondo nokuphazamiseka kukhule kanjani ngesikhathi sobuntwana.
Ngokusho komelaphi UVictoria Prooday, eyodwa kwezinhlanu izingane inezinkinga zempilo yengqondo. I-Attention Deficit Disorder (ADHD) inyuke ngo-43%, kanti ukucindezelwa kwentsha kukhuphuke ngama-37% kanti izinga lokuzibulala ezinganeni ezineminyaka eyi-10-14 lenyuke ngama-200%.
Le datha ikhombisa ukuthi ngokungafani nokucatshangwa, Ubuntwana abuyona inkathi yegolide engenakho ukuhlupheka kepha kunalokho yisikhathi sokuba sengozini enkulu.
Kubo bobabili abadala nezingane, impilo yengqondo kanye nempilo engokomzwelo kudinga ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa okufanayo nempilo yomzimba. Ikakhulu ngesikhathi sobuntwana nasebusheni ngoba yizikhathi ezibucayi ekukhuleni komuntu. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlala kulezi zigaba kumaka futhi kunqume ubuntu balowo nalowo muntu.
Njengabazali, indima yethu ibalulekile.
Kusukela emavikini okuqala okuphila, omama nobaba basebenza njengabalawuli bemizwa yezingane zethu. Ngosizo lwethu, izingane zethu zizofunda ukukhomba lokho ezizwayo futhi zikwazi ukukuveza ngaphandle kokulimaza noma ngubani, noma bona noma omunye umuntu. Ukuvumela ukubonakaliswa kwanoma imuphi umuzwa, ngaphandle kokukuhlukanisa njengokwakhayo noma okungekuhle njengoba imizwa imane nje, kuzoba nomthelela empilweni enhle engokomzwelo nengokwengqondo.
Isidingo esiyisisekelo ezinganeni nasebusheni ukuba khona kwabazali bazo. Akudingeki nje kuphela ukuthi babekhona ngokomzimba, kepha obaba nomama kumele batholakale ngokomzwelo.
Ngokudabukisayo lokhu akwenzeki njalo. Ukuhamba okumatasa kwempilo, ubunzima ekuvumelaniseni impilo yomndeni nempilo yomsebenzi, ukungazazi izigaba zokukhula kwengane nomlando womuntu uqobo kwenza lokhu kuxhumana nalokhu kutholakala okubalulekile okungokomzwelo kube nzima.
Ukukhathala nokukhathazeka kuvamise ukufaka imicabango yethu negumbi elincane lokuthinta imizwa yobuntwana. Futhi-ke umuzwa wecala uyavela. Ingabe icala kusiholela ekuzameni ukumboza lesi sidingo sokuba khona ngezinto ezibonakalayo: amathoyizi, ubuchwepheshe bedijithali ...
Ukwazi lokhu kungasisiza senze izinguquko ezizothinta inhlalakahle yezingane. Izinguquko ezinjengokuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomndeni sabelana ngemidlalo nemisebenzi noma ukubeka eceleni iziphazamiso zobuchwepheshe eceleni ngenkathi sinabo kuzosiza ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nezingane zethu futhi ngenxa yalokho, impilo yazo izozuza.