Yinto engeke ilawulwe, ikakhulukazi komama abasha, kubonakala sengathi ukuqhathanisa izingane nabanye kuyinto eza ngokwemvelo. Uma ingane enezinyanga eziyi-18 ingakhulumi kodwa ingane yakwamakhelwane iyakhuluma, omama bathwala izandla emakhanda ngoba kungenzeka okuthile okubi komncane wabo. Kukhona labo abacabanga ukuthi bangaba nohlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka ... ukuthi ezimweni eziningi, lokhu akulona iqiniso, yizinkathazo nje omama abaningi abanazo ukuthi izingane zabo azilandeli isigqi esivamile sokuziphendukela kwemvelo.
Ukuqhathanisa kuyesabeka, kanjalo nomama ababona ezinye izingane benza izinto okungenzeka ukuthi abakaze bazizuze ezabo. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi ingane ngayinye inesigqi sayo sokuziphendukela kwemvelo futhi akufanele iphazanyiswe.
Ngeke ulindele ukuthi ingane iqale ukukhuluma ezinyangeni eziyi-12 ngoba ingane yakwamakhelwane isivele ikwazi ukukhuluma nokuphinda amagama. Cha, isigqi sokuziphendukela kwemvelo sabancane asihambi kanjena. Izingane zidinga isikhathi sazo ekufundeni kwazo okusha, okuyizinto ezinhle kubo.
Uma ingane yakho ingakhulumi okwamanje, ungaqhathanisi, kufanele umkhuthaze ngokwanele ukuze kancane kancane afinyelele ezinhlosweni zakhe. Kuphela uma ubona ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba nenkinga, njengokungajiki lapho uzwa igama layo noma izwi likanina, ukungalungisi amehlo ayo, ukungafuni ukudlala, ukungacoshi izinto noma ukungamomotheka ... lapho-ke yiba nomqondo omuhle wokuthi umyise kudokotela wezingane ukuze azi ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle ekuziphendukeleni kwakhe. Kodwa ungalindeli ukuthi ucabange ukuthi noma yini ingenzeka enganeni yakho uma ingaqinisekiswa ngudokotela wezingane kuqala. Noma unanoma yimiphi imibuzo onayo, hamba uye kudokotela wezingane.