Noma yisiphi isikhathi sonyaka yisikhathi esihle sokuqala ukuthuthuka nokuba nempilo enhle yomndeni. Ushintsho lomndeni kungumbono omuhle inqobo nje uma lezo zinguquko zingaba ngcono ngandlela thile. Njengoba wesaba umzamo, kuhle ukukhumbula ukuthi uwena kuphela umuntu ongashintsha futhi abe nemiphumela engcono. Lo umlayezo onamandla ongawudlulisela ezinganeni zakho.
Ukuba unyaka wonke ngaphambi kwakho kufana nokuba namafutha okuphulukisa avela emaphutheni enziwe ngonyaka odlule. Ukubona ukuthi yiziphi izinguquko ozidingayo njengomndeni, kuwumqondo omuhle ukubheka ngaphakathi kuwe hhayi umhlaba wangaphandle, ngoba izimpendulo ziphakathi kwezinhliziyo zenu. Ikuvumela ukuthi ube nezinguquko ezinempilo ezimpilweni zakho ukuze ube nokuphila okunempilo kakhulu kuzo zonke izici.
Sonke singashintsha
Sonke singashintsha uma ngabe sifuna ukufeza izinhloso ezintsha. Lona omunye umlayezo onamandla ongawusho ezinganeni ukuze zazi ukuthi yizo ezinamandla ezimpilo zazo, hhayi izisebenzeli zangaphandle. Lokhu kubalulekile ekukhuleni komuntu siqu kwanoma yimuphi umuntu, kunoma yimuphi ubudala.
Inguquko ejwayelekile ingumphumela wamandla angaphandle, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, angaphakathi. Ukuzishintsha okuhle kuyingane yentando yangaphakathi. Izifundo zenguquko ziza kithina sonke ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene ngezimo ezahlukahlukene. Ungawugweme umsebenzi ohilelekile kulolo shintsho noma wesabe inqubo evumayo ukuthi iyisidina. Ukubuyekezwa okulungile kuyisimangaliso.
Uma ufuna ukuba noshintsho olumangalisayo emndenini wakho, bese uqala ukwenza lokhu kuthuthukiswa empilweni yakho ukuze izingane zakho zikubone, isibonelo sokuthuthuka ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo nenhlalakahle. Ukuzinza empilweni yakho yengqondo kuncike kakhulu ekutheni uyiphila kanjani impilo yakho kanye nomndeni!
Chaza izinhloso zakho
Ungumuntu onezici eziningi onamagumbi amaningi, amanye awo ongakatholi. Chaza zonke izici zakho. Kufanele uzibuze izinto ezinjengalezi:
- Ngimeleni futhi yini engifuna ukuyizuza?
- Kungani ngifuna lokhu?
- Ngizokwenza kanjani?
- Ngisiphi isikhathi sami esifanele sokwenza ngokuqhathaniswa nokusukuma?
- Kufanele ngiqale kuphi ukwenza izinguquko?
Ukuchaza izizathu zakho yisinyathelo sakho sokuqala esisekuguqukeni okuhle empilweni yakho nasemndenini wakho.
Funda ukuthi izinyathelo ezincane zihlala ziza kuqala
Ngokuvamile, thatha izinyathelo ezincane kukho konke okwenzayo. Uma ufuna ukuzifaka kabusha ngobusuku obubodwa futhi ucabange ukuthi kungenziwa ngesinyathelo esisodwa esikhulu… Usendleleni engafanele. Ukugxuma okukhulu kungadala ukuwa okukhulu. Zonke izinto ezizinzile ziza ngezinyathelo ezincane. Uma uthola ukuthi okuthile ozama ukukufeza kukuhlula ngokweqile, zama ukuhamba kancane, nokunethezeka. Izinga lenguquko alibalulekile njengenqubekela phambili ebonakalayo nengabonakala.
Uma ngokuzithandela ususa ukugxila kwakho ngokuphelele enhlosweni eyodwa, ungabuyela emuva bese ubona isithombe esikhulu ngokwengeziwe salokho okuphambi kwakho.
Gubha intuthuko yakho
Kungenzeka ukuthi usenokuncane okusafanele ukwenze, kepha usuvele wafika ibanga elide. Zivuze ngentuthuko osuyenzile kuze kube manje: ngezinjongo osuzizuzile, ngokuyala okukhombisile, ngolwazi olutholile.
Qhathanisa lapho wawuneminyaka eyishumi edlule, ngonyaka odlule, noma ngenyanga edlule, nokuthi ukuphi manje. Khumbula ukuthi awukwazi ukukhombisa ikusasa elingcono kakhulu ngaphandle kokubungaza impumelelo enkulu yesikhathi esedlule.
Gcina abanye engqondweni
Eqinisweni, lapho abantu becabanga ngokuthuthuka bacabanga nje ngomhlaba wabo "Ngifuna, ngidinga". Empeleni, ukwenza ushintsho lube nenjongo ngokwengeziwe, unganweba izinhloso zakho zokwenza ngcono.
Uma uthatha ukunakekela kwakho ngokuzithandela, ungabuyela emuva ubone isithombe esikhudlwana. Lokhu nakho kukunikeza ukuhlakanipha okukhulu kunoma yisiphi isimo. Zijwayeze ukucabangela hhayi izidingo zakho kuphela, kepha nezidingo zomhlaba okuzungezile. Yiba nomusa, mnene, unake kakhudlwana, ngoba ngolunye usuku uzodinga lezo zimfanelo ezibuyisiwe.
Thembela kumathuba akho
Sonke sinento eyodwa emiqondweni yethu esaziyo ukuthi kufanele noma sifuna ukuyenza, kepha siyanqikaza ukukwenza nganoma yisiphi isizathu. Singasaba inqubo noma umphumela, kepha lelozwi elincane elisekhanda lakho liyaphikelela; kungahle kusihluphe ukuqeda ubudlelwane, siye endaweni entsha, sibhale incwadi, sishaye noma sithathe noma yisiphi isinyathelo esicabanga ukuthi sinenzuzo.
Lona unyaka wokufeza lokhu onakho engqondweni yakho, azikho izaba ... themba amathuba akho futhi ubonise izingane zakho lokho okwazi ukukwenza. Futhi kuthiwani uma kungahambi kahle? Ukuthi uzofunda emaphutheni futhi ukhule njengomuntu kuzo zonke izici.
Cabanga ngaphambi kokwenza
Ukwenza ngokomzwelo kungazilimaza thina nabanye. Ukukhuluma ngentukuthelo noma ukwenza ngokuphelelwa yithemba kuvimbela inqubekela phambili nobudlelwano nabanye, futhi ikakhulukazi nezingane zakho.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukulawula imizwa yakho futhi ucabange ngemiphumela izenzo zakho ezingaba nayo esikhathini esifushane nesikhathi eside. Bhala phansi imicabango yakho bese ubuyela engxoxweni ngemuva kokuthula. Cabanga ngaphambi kokwenza futhi uzoba yisibonelo esihle kakhulu ezinganeni zakho.
Zinakekele kangcono
Uma ungazinakekeli, ngubani omunye ozokwenzela yona? Zijwayeze ukunakekela umzimba wakho ngokweqile, ingqondo nomoya. Indlela yokuqala futhi elula yokwengeza ukuzondla kwakho ukuqeda imithelela enengcindezi nengalungile empilweni yakho yansuku zonke. Lokhu kukhulula amandla akho okunakekela izifiso zakho kanye nezithuthukisi. Izingane zakho zizobona kuwe isibonelo esihle sokunakekelwa nokukhula.
Kholwa, ungabhubhisi
Siyaphuza ukudala, futhi siyashesha ukucekela phansi. Ukugcina umthetho wokudala ungcwele kubalulekile. Lokhu akubandakanyi umhlaba wethu wemvelo kuphela, kepha nemicabango kanye nezindinganiso ezilethwe ngabanye. Ungonakalisi ukuhlonishwa kwabanye, noma uchithe ithemba noma ucekele phansi inhlalakahle yanoma ngubani noma yini.
Nikeza impilo kubudlelwano, imikhuba, imicabango, amaphrojekthi ... okunempilo, njll. Sekela ukwenziwa kwezinto ezinhle kakhulu futhi ezinhle unyaka wonke.
Yiba nguwe, yiqiniso
Iningi labantu linomuzwa wokuthi kufanele lingene esimweni esinqunywe kusengaphambili ukuze samukeleke emphakathini. Ngaphansi kwale ngcindezi, kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi ubusuvele uzalwe ungumsebenzi wobuciko. Akudingeki ukuthi upende isithombe sakho esisha ngokuphelele ukuze waziwe noma uthandwe yizingane zakho… Ngoba kubo uphelele!
Thembela kuwe uqobo, okuvela kalula kusuka emnyameni wobuntu bakho. Ungabi namahloni ngokuthi ungubani ngempela: uphawu lokuhweba lwakho lokuhleka, ubuthakathaka bakho, amandla akho, leyo ngxenye yomzimba oyidelelayo. Ukuba yingqayizivele kuyinzuzo, ngoba ubuqiniso bayo empeleni buyithuluzi lakho lokunqoba elingcono kakhulu.