Ubusha yisigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi kubo bobabili abazali nezingane zabo abadlula kulesi sigaba. Angazama ukukwenza uzizwe unecala ngokuthola ukuthi awumqondi noma ngisho, angasho amagama anjengokuthi uyakuzonda noma ukuthi awulutho kuye. Ngokusobala, Ngamazwi wemizwa kuphela angazi ukuthi angahanjiswa kanjani kahle futhi akufanele ukuthathe njengokuhlasela komuntu siqu.
Lapho osemusha ekuhlasela, akuyona into ehlobene nawe, yimizwa yabo, ubunzima babo bokuzithiba, ukungakhuli kwabo ukuqonda nokuveza imizwa yabo. Bakudinga kakhulu kunakuqala, bakudinga ukuba ube ngumhlahlandlela wabo ... Ngisho noma bekuphika ngokuqondile noma bezama ukukwenza ubone ukuthi abakudingi nakancane.
Uma uthatha lokhu kuhlasela uqobo, uzomnika amandla kuphela futhi umenze acabange ukuthi awunawo amandla anele noma ukuzithiba okuzokwenza uzizwe ungaphephile nokuthi impi ekhaya iyaqinisekiswa. Uma lapho ingane yakho ithomba, nawe unakho… Kuzoba nezinkinga kuphela ekhaya. Uma ungafuni ukuthatha ukuhlaselwa kwentsha yakho uqobo, kufanele ukhumbule okulandelayo:
- Adonse umoya kakhulu
- Vumela ubuhlungu bamazwi abo buhambe, khumbula ukuthi akuwona amagama aqondiswe kuwe ngempela
- Khumbula ukuthi kufanele ufunde ukuqonda imizwa yakho
- Ungamthethisi noma ube nezimpendulo ezinolaka
- Zama ukuzwelana nengane yakho bese uzibeka endaweni yayo, khumbula ukuthi kunjani ukuba yingane ecasukile futhi engazi ukuthi ingasabela kanjani ngokufanele
- Cabanga ngokuthi ungaphendula kanjani ngomoya ophansi nangokwakhayo
- Beka imingcele ngezwi elipholile
- Vumela ingane yakho yazi ukuthi useceleni kwakhe futhi awulwi nayo
- Thatha ngothando nangenhlonipho