Ngaphezu kokwanele ... uyilokho izingane zakho ezikudingayo ukuze zijabule. Bakudinga ngokufezeka kwakho nokungapheleli kwakho, ngokukhathazeka kwakho ... bakudinga ngoba uyabakhathalela. Uma kwenzeka uzwa sengathi awuzanele izingane zakho noma ukuthi awenzi konke okufanele ukwenze… yeka ingqondo yakho kulowo mcabango obhubhisayo! Kusukela manje kuqhubeke kuzofanele uphinde ufundise ukuqonda kwakho okuncane.
Nsuku zonke izinsuku ezingama-21 phinda le mantra: 'Nganele'. Ungakusho wedwa, kufanele uhlale ngokujulile maphakathi nobukhona bakho. Qaphela ukuthi ungumuntu obaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni zakho nokuthi lokho akusoze kwashintsha ngenxa yanoma yini eyenzekayo emhlabeni.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi igama elithi 'kwanele' alichazi ngempela ukuthi uzizwa kanjani noma ufuna ukuzizwa kanjani ngomndeni wakho noma ngezingane zakho, ungalishintsha ngokukhululeka. Ungafaka elinye igama kwimantra yakho eyisibonelo: jabule, uqine, uzethembe, njll.
Uma udinga ukuthola amakhono wokuthuthukisa indlela okhuliswe ngayo futhi ukholwa ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzizwa ungcono emfundweni yezingane zakho, bese uthola amakhono wokuba ngumzali. Ungaqala ukufunda izincwadi ezihloselwe abazali noma uye kochwepheshe bezemfundo nokuba ngumzali ukuze bakweluleke ngakho konke okudingayo ukuze ukhulise izingane zakho ngenjabulo nokuthi uzizwa uvikelekile ngobuzali obunikezayo, ngawo wonke amathuluzi owasebenzisa nsuku zonke.
Khumbula nsuku zonke ukuthi nguwe wedwa obaluleke kunabo bonke ezinganeni zakho. Badinga ukuzwa ukuzethemba kwakho, bazi ukuthi uyakwazi okwenzayo nokuthi konke okwenzayo kungcono kakhulu kubo. Izingane zakho zikudinga eceleni kwazo, azidingi ezinye ngoba zikudinga wena kuphela. Abazali babo bayinsika ebaluleke kakhulu ezimpilweni zabo futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kufanele ulwe ukuze ubanikeze ukukhuliswa okuhle kakhulu.