Kuzo zonke ezi veki benditshilo kuwe, kwizihlandlo ezininzi, kungenzeka ukuba umbelekisi wakho akwenze "isicwangciso sokulumla ngokungaphelelanga" Buyela emsebenzini kwaye ugcine ukuncancisa. Namhlanje ndiza kuchaza ngokweenkcukacha, njani, nini kwaye ngoba.
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Isicwangciso sokuncancisa sizama ukuququzelela ukuncancisa ukuze sibuyele emsebenzini ngaphandle kokuyeka ukuncancisa.
Akukho sicwangciso sinye, kufuneka senziwe ngokweemfuno zikamama ngamnye. Kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ingqalelo kubudala bomntwana xa sivuka, inani lokondla alithathayo, ukuba ngaba uyancancisa, uxubekile okanye Sele sizise ukutya kunye neeyure esiza kuthi singabikho ekhaya, kodwa uhlobo lomsebenzi wethu kunye namathuba okuveza ubisi ngexesha lomsebenzi nazo zidlala indima ebalulekileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba sicinge ngayo kwangaphambili kwaye sithethe nombelekisi wethu okanye ugqirha wabantwana iiveki ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 ngaphambi kokuba sibuyele emsebenzini; Kubalulekile kungekuphela nje ukuba umzimba wethu uqhele ukutshintsha, nosana lwethu kufuneka luziqhelanise notshintsho olucingelwa kukungeniswa kokutya okanye ukutya ngebhotile, umntwana oqheleneyo kwaye onwabile ngokuncancisa unzima kunzima ukuziqhelanisa nemvakalelo yengono umlomo kwaye ngokubanzi kuthatha iinzame ezinkulu kwinxalenye yakhe wonke umntu ukuze akholise ngemfuno yokutya ngaloo ndlela.
Amathuba
Kuwo nawuphi na amathuba endinokuthi ndihlomle apha ngezantsi Kubalulekile ukuba xa uphuma endlini uye emsebenzini uye wondle umntwana kwaye ukhuphe ibele lakhe kakuhle, ukuze ufike emsebenzini ngaphandle kweentlungu okanye ukugcwala ebeleni.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba xa ufika ekhaya umntwana ancancise kwakhona, ukuba kanye phambi kokuba ufike bamnika ibhotile okanye isidudu umntwana akazukufuna ukutya kwaye akazukukhupha.
Olunye ulumkiso omele uluthathe kukuba nebhanki encinci yobisi lwebele. Xa kukho iiveki ezi-2 okanye ezi-3 ngaphambi kokudityaniswa kwakhona, unokuluveza ubisi kwaye ulufrize, ushiye ilebheli ngomhla wokukhutshwa. Ke umntwana uyaqhubeka nokusela ubisi lwebele kwiifidi osebenza kuzo.
Uvuka emva kweenyanga ezi-6 kwaye umntwana sele esitya okunye ukutya
Lelona tyala lilula. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba usana luqale ukutya i-purees okanye iiporridges, wenza ukuncancisa okumbalwa kwaye umzimba wethu uguqukela ekubeni ungabinanto, ke ngokuqinisekileyo asizukuba neengxaki ezinkulu xa kubuyelwa emsebenzini. Kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba unokuba nemizuzu embalwa yokubonisa ubisi kwimeko apho ibele lakho live kunzima.
Uya emsebenzini ngaphambi kweenyanga ezi-6, kodwa uhlala kufutshane nomsebenzi wakho kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuncancisa iyure ngosuku.
Ikwalicala elichanekileyo kunye nesisombululo esamkelekileyo. Akukho sicwangciso sokulumla kufuneka ngokwenene, kuya kufuneka ucace ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi xa umntwana ethatha isondlo ukuze acele elo xesha emsebenzini.Ungathethathethana nomphathi wakho ukuba uya ekhaya ukuncancisa okanye ukuba umntwana uziswa emsebenzini.
Uqala ukusebenza phakathi kweenyanga ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-6.
Nangona kuyinto enzima ngakumbi Akunakwenzeka. Ukuba emsebenzini kunokwenzeka ukuba ubonakalise ubisi lwakho, fumana impompo elungileyo yebele kwaye nje ukuba uqaphela uvakalelo lobisi olukhulayo, yenza intetho. Ungagcina olo bisi kwifriji kwaye ulunike umntwana kusuku olulandelayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ekuhambeni kwexesha, kuyakufuneka ukhuphe amaxesha ambalwa, ungakhathazeki, xa ufika ekhaya beka umntwana ebeleni nanini na xa ubuza kwaye uza kubona ukuba isixa asinciphi.
Ukuba uya emsebenzini kwiiveki ezili-16 okanye ezili-18
Lelona tyala linzima, Ngaphandle kokungqubana ne-WHO ekhuthaza ukuncancisa kuphela ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezi-6; ngenxa yokuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba umama ashiye usana olunje luphantsi kokhathalelo lomnye umntu kwaye luncinci kangakanani uncedo alunalo emntwaneni.
Kule meko kuyenzeka kuthi njengakulezo zangaphambili, kuxhomekeke kwiiyure omke ekhaya, kodwa unengxaki eyongeziweyo kwaye oko kukuthi, ngokuqinisekileyo usana luthatha ngaphezulu ngakumbi kunangexa lineenyanga ezintlanu ubudala.
Ukuba ujoyina kwiiveki ezili-16 kwaye Ugqiba ekubeni uthathe iiyure zokuncancisa usuku ngalunye Isenokungonelisi kuba uthatha iziselo ezininzi ngexesha lomsebenzi, ukuba awukho ekhaya phakathi kweeyure ezisi-7 nezisi-8 ayizukuba nzima kakhulu, kuba uyakufika ekhaya xa umntwana efuna ukutya kwakhona, kodwa ukuba awukho ngaphezulu kweeyure kuyakufuneka ubonakalise ubisi kwisifuba esingenanto kwaye ukwazi ukufika ekhaya ungaziva ugcwele kwaye uqaqanjelwe (ngomngcipheko wokuba nesifo sokukrala kwebele) kwaye umntwana kuya kufuneka anike ukondla ngobisi lwebele obukade ulugcinile ngaphambili.
Ukuba sele uchithe iiyure zokuncancisa ngenxa yokuba uziqokelele ngaphambi kokujoyina umsebenzi kwaye ukude nekhaya phakathi kweeyure ezisi-7 nezisi-8, ungazama ukuphelisa izithonga apho ungayi kubakho ekhaya ngaphambi kokujoyina, ukuze xa ubuyela emsebenzini umntwana wakho nesifuba sakho siqhele. Ngapha koko, fumana impompo elungileyo, kunzima ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubonakalise ubisi emsebenzini, kule meko ngokuzincama okuthile kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabinangxaki. Kodwa ukuba ukude nomzi ngaphezu kweeyure ezili-10 nasemsebenzini akunakubonakaliswa, ngaphambi kokujoyina, thetha nenkampani yakho, zama ukuthetha-thethana ngokutshintsha umsebenzi okomzuzwana, okanye uvavanye ukuba unakho na ukulahleka ngenxa yomngcipheko wokuncancisa.
Ukuba akukho nanye kwezi enokwenzeka ukugcina ukuncancisa kunzima. Kule meko, unokuqhuba, ngoncedo lombelekisi wakho, ukulumka okuqhubekekayo, de ushiye kuphela ukutya okuqinisekileyo ukuba uya kuba sekhaya kwaye abanye ubanike ubisi olugcinileyo okanye olungelolwakho. Emsebenzini, nxiba ibra eqinileyo kunye nokuncancisa kanye phambi kokuba uphume ekhaya, nasemva kokuba ubuyile; Kunye nokuphumla kwemini nasebusuku zonke izithonga onokuthi uzenze. Kuyabingelelwa, kodwa kamsinya nje ukuba nobabini niqhele, ezo mbumbulu ziya kuba ngumzuzu oxabisekileyo kuni nobabini.
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Molo Nati, inyani kukuba abo kuthi banethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba babe neentsana iinyanga ezininzi (nokuba yiminyaka) ngaphandle kokujoyina umsebenzi wabanye, asihlali sicinga malunga nokuba kunzima kanjani kwabanye oomama abakhutshiweyo iphelile, kwaye bafuna ukuqhubeka nokuncancisa.
Yiyo loo nto olu lwazi luluncedo kakhulu, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba luluncedo nakomama abafuna isikhokelo. Kukwabalulekile ukuba bazi ukuba banokuxhomekeka kumbelekisi wabo ukuba acwangcisele imeko leyo.
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Enkosi Macarena. Kulusizi ukuba oomama abancedwa ngakumbi kwaye baninzi abasenokukhetha ngaphandle kokuya emsebenzini kwiiveki ezili-16 emva kokubeleka, xa i-WHO inyanzelisa iinyanga ezi-6 zokuncancisa ibele kuphela. Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo kuwe. Kumsebenzi wam ndenza izicwangciso ezininzi zokuncancisa (ndibabiza njalo) kwaye ndinomama abaninzi abaphumeleleyo, enkosi kwezo zicwangciso, ukugcina ukuncancisa. Kuyandonwabisa kakhulu xa bendixelela ngayo kwaye ndibabona bonwabile.
Unyanisile, kulihlazo ukuba ikhefu lokuya kubeleka alilungelelaniswanga, ubuncinci, kwisindululo se-WHO sokugcina ukuncancisa ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezi-6. Enkosi ngegalelo lakho. Konke okugqibelele