I-oda aligcini ngokwenyama kuphela, ubaba angafundisa indodana / indodakazi yakhe ukuhlela ngokwengqondo futhi ibe namandla wokuxazulula.
Abazali, othisha bezingane, balwela ukubafundisa izindinganiso nezimfundiso ezibasebenzela ukuqala kwabo, futhi babaqinisekise njengabantu abazimele kusasa. Isici esibalulekile ukuhleleka, ngoba kuzosindisa ingane ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Sizokwazi amanye amaqhinga okufundisa ingane ukuthi ihleleke.
I-oda, inani elihlanganiswe empilweni yansuku zonke
Ukuze ingane ifunde ukubaluleka kokuhleleka nokuhleleka kuyimpumelelo enkulu, futhi lemiqondo ayikhulisiwe nakancane. Umuntu onesiphithiphithi ufuna izinkinga, ukungaqondi noma ukuxazululwa kwe izingxabano. Isihloko esingalawuleki, esifakwa ezinxushunxushwini, sizojwayele ukuba nobudlelwano nabantu abangazelele abangenalo uthando lwabo, futhi sizokhombisa isici esingahlelekile. Ukwenza ukwenzelwa, noma ukwenzelwa okuthile, akukhiqizi umuntu onezimiso eziqinile zokubhekana nezimo ezithile.
Umuntu othanda uku-oda angakudlulisela emfanekisweni wabo, indlela yabo yokwenza imisebenzi yabo noma ukuphatha abanye abantu. Nsuku zonke ingane ingafunda ukuthi njengoba yenza izinto isazoyithola imiphumela. Akufani ukuhlala endlini ehlelekile, ehlanzekile, ehlelekile, eqoqiwe kunakuyo enakho konke okungcolile, okungcolile futhi okungenayo nencazelo. Ukubonakaliswa kokushoda kwe- ukuvumelana endaweni ejwayelekile, kuba yisibonakaliso uqobo kanye nosizi oluzolandela izinyathelo ezithile.
Ikusasa eli-odawe lengane
Kusukela ebuncaneni, ikakhulukazi eminyakeni engaba mithathu ubudala, lapho ingane iqonda kangcono futhi isebenzisane kakhulu, abazali kufanele bafundise ingane yabo ukubaluleka kokuhleleka. Akukho ukuhleleka komzimba kuphela, okuthinta izinto ezibonakalayo zekhaya, isikole noma imvelo lapho umuntu ekhona. Kukhona ne-oda ingqondo, lokho kukuvumela ukuthi uhlele futhi ungadideki ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi wenzeni. Ubaba ofuna ukufundisa indodana yakhe ukwazisa nokuhlonipha ukuhleleka, angacabanga ngombono wesikhathi esizayo ohilela ingane.
Kusasa ingane kuzodingeka ibe yingxenye yomphakathi njengelungu elisebenzayo futhi njengobaba noma umama, umngane, isisebenzi…, badinga ukwazi ukuthi kufanele basabele kanjani futhi bathathe isinqumo. Kusasa, ingane izobe ingumphathi wezenzo nezinqumo zayo. Uzohlanganiswa nomphakathi lapho kufanele uthobele okuthile imikhuba Futhi ngeke ube nabazali bakho nomndeni wakho abazokusiza lapho ukhungathekile.
Imiyalo yokufundisa ukuhleleka
Ukuhleleka njengengane kusho ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uhlanganiswe nomphakathi, lapho kufanele uhlangabezane nezimfuneko ezithile ukuze uhlale ngendlela eyamukelekayo.
Umkhuba wokugcina i-oda nokufunda ukuwazisa wengeza ukuzimela nokuzimela, futhi wenza kube lula ukuqondisa nokwenza lula cishe yonke into. Ngezansi kuveziwe amanye amathiphu awusizo abazali okufundisa izingane zabo ukubaluleka kwe-oda:
- Umzali ogcotshiwe: Ngokwesibonelo ungafundisa ingane. Ibuka izimo zikababa noma zabazali, ingane izokopisha futhi ibheje ngaleyo ndlela yokuphila. Ukucela ukuhleleka kufanele kwenziwe ngendlela elinganiselayo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi uyingane futhi uzovilapha izikhathi eziningi.
- Amabhokisi ahleliwe nezikhwama: Kungaba amabhokisi, iziqu noma izikhwama, amathoyizi nezitsha ingane edlala ngakho kumele kuhlelwe futhi kugcinwe kahle ezindaweni zabo. Ingane izokwazi ukuthi konke kungokwaluphi uhlangothi, ingafaka ngisho namalebula anamagama, uma ingakakwazi ukufunda okwamanje, izitikha noma izibalo ezinemibala.
- Musa ukuqongelela izinto ezingenamsebenzi: Ingane akufanele iqonde ukuthi inani eleqile ngokweqile lezinto elifanele. Lapho izingane zisencane kumele zithole okulungile nokuthi yini eziyidlalayo futhi eziyifundayo. Ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi ukubona ukuthi ingane ayisebenzisi ithoyizi, kungaboniswana futhi kunikelwe.
- Lapho umdlalo usuphelile, kuyaqoqwa: Ingane kufanele ifunde ukuthi kudlalwa isikhathi esithile, kepha lokho uma sekuphelile futhi kufanele wenze okunye noma ulale, konke kuqoqwa kahle. Ubaba uzomsiza, mhlawumbe aze afike eminyakeni engama-4, kodwa bobabili kufanele bakwenze ndawonye.
- Ingane ingadlala lapho abazali bakhona: Endlini ngayinye kubekiwe indawo yemidlalo. Ingane kufanele ibe negumbi layo futhi isize ukuyigcina ihlanzekile futhi ihlanzekile. Kwezinye izimo kukhona ezinye umkhuba mdala kulo mdlalo, noma lapho wonke umuntu akuyo. Ngendlela efanayo kufanele uqoqe konke lapho uthinta.