Akulula ukukhuluma nokuchaza ngokuthomba nezingane zakho, kepha kubalulekile ukwenza lokho ngoba kufanele kube nguwe onikela ngolwazi hhayi kuphela, kepha futhi nokuqonda komzimba wakho. Kuyafana futhi uma unengane ekhubazekile. Kumele uchaze ukuthi ukuthomba kuyini nokuthi kuzomthinta kanjani eminyakeni elandelayo, ngokwamakhono akhe. Yize kuyindaba ebucayi nenenselele, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani emzimbeni wakho. Lokhu ngosizo lwakho nokuhlela kahle akudingeki kube nzima.
Lapha sizokunikeza amathiphu ukuze uwanakekele futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuxoxa nengane yakho ekhubazekile mayelana nokuthomba.
Ngokushesha kungcono
Ngenkathi izingxoxo mayelana nokuthomba zingabonakala zikhungathekisa kwesinye isikhathi, ufuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi usheshe ube nazo. Musa ukulinda ingane yakho ize ibe phakathi kwama-hormone asakhula futhi izinguquko zomzimba ukuqala ukuba nezingxoxo mayelana nokuthomba.
Izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zizodinga imininingwane eminingi kunaleyo video yezikole engayinikeza. Ngakho-ke, zinike isikhathi sokuxoxa nengane yakho. Khetha indawo ethule ngaphandle kweziphazamiso ukukhuluma ngesihloko. Ukuze ukwenze, cabangela ikhono labo lokuqonda.
Enye indlela yokuqala ingxoxo ukubuza ingane yakho lokho eseyakwazi kakade. Lolu lwazi luzoba yindawo enhle yokuqala ingxoxo. Isibonelo, ingane yakho kungenzeka ukuthi isivele inolwazi lwe-anatomy nokukhiqiza kusuka esigabeni sezempilo noma sesayensi. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungalusebenzisa lolu lwazi bese uqala lapho. Akunasidingo sokuqala kusukela ekuqaleni.
Igxathu emvakwe gxathu
Njenganoma yini enye ongayifundisa izingane zakho, idinga ukuhlaziywa futhi ichazwe "ngesahluko". Awufuni ukuchaza yonke into mayelana nezocansi nokuthomba ngasikhathi sinye noma kuzoba imininingwane engaphezu kwamandla akho.
Uma unendodakazi enokukhubazeka, kuzofanele uchaze ama-mense, amapads ayo nokuthi isetshenziswa kanjani. Kamuva ungakhuluma ngezinhlungu zokuya esikhathini, i-premenstrual syndrome ... Futhi ngolunye usuku ngokuthi kungani isikhathi siyadingeka ukukwazi ukukhulelwa izingane. Yethula konke ngokucacile nangokuqondile futhi ungazami ukunikeza imininingwane eminingi ngasikhathi sinye.
Kuyasiza futhi ukubuyekeza izigaba zokuthomba. Lokhu kungakhuluma ngoshintsho ekuphakameni, izwi, isimo sesikhumba, nomoya. Kwenze kucace ukuthi akuyona yonke into eyenzeka ngasikhathi sinye, kepha ukuthi lezi zinguquko zenzeka esikhathini esiyiminyaka ecishe ibe yishumi. Futhi, kungadingeka ukuthi ukhulume ngesihloko kaningi ngalesi sikhathi. Akuvamile ukuthi izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zihlale zixakekile noma nini lapho zibona ushintsho emzimbeni wazo. Kuzofanele umqinisekise ukuthi yonke intsha iyabhekana nalokho ebhekene nakho.
Sebenzisa amagama afanele
Kusukela ekuqaleni, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi usebenzisa amatemu wesayensi wezingxenye nemisebenzi yomzimba. Ungesabi ukusebenzisa amagama afanele…. Kumele balazi igama lakhe, bangamfakiseli amandla bese bebiza izinto ngamagama.
Isibonelo, amantombazane ane-vulva, i-labia yangaphandle, i-labia yangaphakathi, i-clitoris, i-urethra, kanye nesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Khonamanjalo, abafana banamasende, i-scrotum (i-scrotal sac), ipipi, i-glans ne-urethra. Kuvamile ukuthi abantu abadala bazizwe benamahloni lapho besebenzisa lawa mazwi nezingane zabo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abantu abasha baqonde ukuthi la magama ameleni uma bekwazi ukuwaqonda.. Ukubazi kungenza kube lula kakhulu kubo ukukhomba izinkinga zezokwelapha kamuva empilweni.
Futhi, ukusebenzisa amagama afanele kungagwema ukudideka kwengane yakho enezidingo ezikhethekile. Cabanga ukuthi kungadida kanjani ukutshela izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile ukuthi ingane ikhula esiswini somunye uma iqhathaniswa nokubatshela ukuthi ingane iyakhula esibelethweni sikanina. Uma usebenzisa igama lesisu, bangadideka bacabange ukuthi umama udle ingane. Noma, bangazibuza ukuthi ingane ingene kanjani esibelethweni somuntu ... Ungavumeli ukungakhululeki kwakho ngale ndaba kukuvimbe ekubonakaleni nengane yakho enokukhubazeka. Thembeka futhi uvulelekile ekuxhumaneni futhi ungafihli noma izinto zobuntwana.
Ukucindezeleka kuyinto evamile
Lapho umzimba wengane uguquka ngokushesha, njengalapho izinwele ziqala ukukhula ezindaweni lapho kwakungekho khona phambilini, lokhu kungasabisa futhi kudidise abanye babo. Ngenxa yalokhu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ugcizelele ukuthi izinguquko ababhekene nazo zivamile ngokuphelele nokuthi wonke umuntu udlula kuzo. Ungakhuluma futhi nangeqiniso lokuthi umzimba wawo wonke umuntu uyashintsha ngendlela efanele lowo muntu.
Isibonelo, abanye abantu baba bude impela kanti abanye bahlala bafushane. Abanye abantu bangakhula izinwele eziningi, kanti abanye bazoba namanani amancane… futhi lokhu kuvamile. Ukukhomba umehluko kuzonikeza ukukhululeka ekwazini ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi babe njengabo bonke abantu. Kubonisa futhi ukuthi akukho okuxakayo ngalokho ababhekene nakho.
Thola isikhathi esifanele
Ungasebenzisa izibonelo ezivela empilweni yansuku zonke ukukhuluma ngokuthomba nezocansi. Isibonelo, ungakhuluma ngokukhulelwa komuntu omaziyo, mayelana nokuthomba kwezelamani, njll. Izibonelo zempilo yangempela ziyabasiza baqonde lokho ababhekene nakho nokuthi kusho ukuthini lokho lapho sebekhulile.
Ungafunda futhi izincwadi ndawonye ezikhuluma ngokuthomba, ukunakekelwa komzimba nokuzala. Ungakhohlwa ukukhuluma futhi ngokubaluleka kwenhlanzeko enhle, njengokugeza njalo, ukusebenzisa isiphunga, nokugeza ubuso. Lawa makhono empilo abalulekile axhumene nezingxoxo ezimayelana nokuthomba nokushintsha komzimba.
Phinda imininingwane kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, vumela ingane yakho ekhubazekile ukuthi ibuze yonke imibuzo eyidingayo ukuze iqonde kangcono ukuthi ukuthomba kuyini futhi izinguquko ohlangabezana nazo.