Uma ucabanga ukuthi indodakazi yakho ingahle ingabi nabantu, ukuzifundisa ngalesi sifo kubalulekile. Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane zibonise isimilo esihle nesingesihle emphakathini njengoba zikhula futhi zikhula. Ezinye izingane ziqamba amanga, ezinye ziyahlubuka, ezinye zihoxa kuzo, njll. Kepha ezinye izingane zikhombisa amazinga aphezulu okuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini. Banobutha futhi abalaleli. Bangantshontsha baphule izinto, futhi bangakwazi nokuhlukumeza abanye ngokomzimba nangamazwi.
Le ndlela yokuziphatha ingahle isho ukuthi indodakazi yakho ikhombisa ukungaziphathi kahle kwabantu. Lokhu kuziphatha kuyalawulekaKepha kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu ngokwengeziwe ebudaleni uma kungaphathwa kahle. Uma ukhathazekile ukuthi indodakazi yakho inokuthambekela kokungahlali nabantu, lapha sizobona izihluthulelo zokubhekana nale nkinga.
Kuyini ukuziphatha kwengane okungahambisani nomphakathi?
Ukuziphatha okungafani nomphakathi kubonakala ngentombazane enesimo sengqondo esinolaka nesidelelayo. Unobutha nabasemagunyeni futhi unokuthambekela kokuqamba amanga. Lezi zinkinga zokuziphatha zivame ukuvela ebuntwaneni nasebusheni. Ngokuphikisana nalokho ongakucabanga, zivame kakhulu ezinganeni ezincane.
Lesi sifo singabonakala njengento engajwayelekile futhi ekhathazayo, kepha empeleni kuvame kakhulu ukwedlula indlela esicabanga ngayo. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi yini ukuyikhomba, nokuthi inesixazululo ngoba ngemfundo nangokwelashwa lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lungalungiswa.
Izici ezinobungozi zokuziphatha okungafaneleki ezinganeni
Ukunquma ukuthi intombazane ingakwazi yini ukuhlangana nabantu, kufanele ubheke imvelo yakho nasebudlelwaneni bakho obudlule nobamanje. Ezinye izinto zingaba:
- Isimo ingane ekuso, kokubili esikoleni nasendaweni ehlala kuyo.
- Izakhi zofuzo nomlando womndeni nakho kungaba yinto enqumayo
- Isibonelo esibi sabazali noma abanakekeli bentombazane, noma ukunaka intombazane
- Ikhaya elingazinzile lapho intombazane ingabona khona ukuziphatha okungalungile, njengodlame
Ezinye izifo njenge-hyperactivity nezinkinga zemizwa futhi kungadala ukungazwani nabantu. Abantu abasha abane- ukunakekelwa kokushoda kokungasebenzi kahle, noma i-ADHD, zisengozini enkulu yokuba nezenzo zokungahlali nabantu.
Ziyini izimpawu zokuziphatha okungafaneleki ezinganeni?
Ukuziphatha okungafani nomphakathi ingaqala ukukhonjwa ezinganeni ezineminyaka emi-3 noma emi-4. Uma ibonakala isencane kangako futhi ingalashwa, kungaholela ekuphazamisekeni okukhulu kakhulu kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-9. Ngakho-ke, sizobona izimpawu indodakazi yakho engaziveza ukuze sizibone:
- Kulimaza izilwane noma abantu
- Qamba amanga uyeba
- Ungahlubuka noma wephule imithetho
- Ukucekela phansi impahla noma ukucekelwa phansi kwempahla
- Izitayela zobugebengu
Ucwaningo luxhumanise ukungaziphathi kahle kwezingane ezingeni eliphakeme lokuphuza ngokweqile nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ebusheni. Lokhu kuzilimaza kungaba nethonya lofuzo, ngamacala omndeni, noma ngethonya labangane nemvelo lapho intombazane ihlobene khona.
Uziphatha kanjani umfana noma intombazane engathandani nabantu?
Izinhlobo ezibucayi zokuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini kungaholela ekuphambeni kwesifo noma ekuxilongweni kwesifo esiphikisayo esiphikisayo. Izingane ezingathandani nabantu, ngenxa yezinkinga zazo ngezibalo zeziphathimandla, zivame ukushiya isikole zisencane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kukhulunywa ngokusebenza nokuba nobungane noma olunye uhlobo lobudlelwano, kunzima kakhulu kubo. Abahlanganisiwe emphakathini.
Ungayiphathi le nkinga ebuntwaneni nasebusheni, kungaholela ekuphazamisekeni kobuntu okungahlali nabantu lapho usumdala. Abantu abadala abaphila nalesi sifo bavame ukukhombisa ukungaziphathi komphakathi nezinye izimpawu zokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-15. Ngakho-ke, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ivele ngokuzumayo lapho isikhulile.
El ukungahambisani nobuntu Ingatholakala ngokunaka izimpawu ezithile, okungaba:
- Iswela uzwela nokucabangela abanye
- Ukwedelela nokuhlukumeza igunya kanye namalungelo abantu
- Isimo sengqondo esinolaka nobudlova
- Ukuzikhukhumeza
- Khombisa isimo esihle sokukhohlisa
- Abazisoli ngobuqotho
Izindlela zokuphatha indlela indodakazi yakho engaziphathi ngayo
Ukuvimbela kusenesikhathi kubalulekile. Ngokushesha lapho itholakala, usheshe uqale ukulungisa. Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo kungokufanele kakhulu ukuguqula lesi sifo. Ukuqeqeshwa kwamakhono okuxazulula izinkinga kubalulekile ukufundisa ngozwela.
Uma kunesidingo, umbono wokwelashwa komndeni nawo ungacatshangelwa. Ngefayela le- ukwelashwa komndeni, abazali bangafunda indlela yokubhekana kahle nezimo ezingathandeki ukugula kwendodakazi yabo okungaholela kuzo. Umsebenzi obumbene wesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, umndeni kanye nesikole kubaluleke kakhulu.
Imfudumalo nothando, isiyalo esinengqondo, kanye nesitayela segunya lokuba ngumzali kuvame ukuba nemiphumela emihle. kulezi zinhlobo zezingane. Lokhu kungasiza indodakazi yakho ukuba nobudlelwano obuhle futhi ithuthukise ukusebenza kwayo esikoleni.
Ukuthi izingane nentsha ziyahlubuka futhi zinokuthambekela okuthile kokungajwayelani nabantu, kuyinto ejwayelekile. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume nendodakazi yakho ukuyazisa ukuthi indlela eziphatha ngayo iyakukhathaza, ngoba kungahle kube nesimo esingaziwa esingaphansi esidala lesi simo sengqondo. Ngendlela efanayo, ungaxhumana nochwepheshe wezempilo ukuze uyihlole bese wenza uhlelo olusebenzayo lokwelapha indodakazi yakho engaziphathi kahle.