Njengoba ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka emasontweni ambalwa okuqala, owesifazane angazizwa ejabule ngempela ngoba usanda kuthola ukuthi ukhulelwe futhi? cishe emasontweni angama-34, uzokwazi ukuthola ingane yakho ezandleni, ozoshintsha impilo yakhe futhi amenze umama omuhle.
Lapho owesifazane esefayela le- isonto lesithupha lokukhulelwa, ngombungu kuyisonto lesine ekukhuleni kwawo. Leli sonto lijabulisa impela ngoba yize umama engaliboni, ngaphakathi kwakhe umbungu osakhula uhamba ngamandla.
Kepha yini ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele ukubhekisise kuleli sonto lesithupha lokukhulelwa?
- Umama akakaboni lutho futhi ukubukeka kwakhe kusesejwayelekile, kubukeka sengathi akakhulelwe! Yize umzimba wakho usebenza ngokungakhathali ukudala isidalwa esisha ngaphakathi.
- Ingane iqala ukukhombisa ukuthi izitho zayo zizoba yini futhi izokwakha ikhanda layo lokho kuzophinyiselwa kakhulu.
- Umbungu ukala phakathi kwamamilimitha amane kuya kwayisithupha kuphela, ufana nembewu encane!
- Inhliziyo ipompa igazi ngamandla ukuze likwazi ukufinyelela kuzo zonke izingxenye zomzimba kahle, futhi ikakhulukazi ukuze lifinyelele ebuchosheni.
- Inhliziyo isivele inawo wonke amakamelo ayo futhi yakhiwe.
- Zizoba yini izitho ezivela njengoba zikhula esibelethweni.
Kulesi sigaba sokwakheka, umama kufanele azinakekele kahle, abe nendlela yokuphila enempilo: yidla kahle, ungabhemi, noma uphuze, noma uthathe imishanguzo engabekiwe futhi enganyelwe ngudokotela. Isicanucanu sokuqala singavela, esingahlala ezinyangeni ezintathu zokuqala. Ukuvalwa kwethambo le-neural kuyinto engokoqobo futhi ukukhula kombungu kushesha kakhulu, noma ngabe umama engaboni lutho!