Njengoba wazi, namuhla sigubha i- Usuku Lomhlaba Wonke Labantu Abangezwa. Y es esta (la sordoceguera) una realidad que la mayoría desconocemos, por lo que hemos creído justo visibilizarla en Madres Hoy. Esta discapacidad dificulta enormemente la comunicación y “obliga” a utilizar el contacto físico como fuente de información; cabanga, kungaboni noma ukuzwa ... kunzima ukuzibeka endaweni, futhi ngasikhathi sinye kube lula ngozwela oluncane nokuzwela.
Kungenzeka ukuthi kukhulunywe ngezinhlobo eziningana zobumpumputhe, ngokuya ngomzuzu lapho ukukhubazeka kuvela khona; yibo abanquma ukutholwa (noma cha) kolimi olukhulunywayo kanye nokugcinwa kwalo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukhona neziqu. Zonke izici ezahlukahlukene ezingavela kulezi zinguquko ezichazwe ngenhla, sinqume uhlelo lokuxhumana ebesingakhetha ukulwenza lula ukuxhumana nabantu abaphethwe ubumpumputhe bokungezwa. Okuvame kakhulu yilezi: alfabhethi, non-alfabhethi, amakhodi wokubhala, noma abanye; Ngaphezu kwalokhu, ngiyaqonda ukuthi emphakathini lapho kutholakala khona ulwazi nobuchwepheshe, nathi kumele sibheje indlela ethi, evela othandweni, eyenza kube lula ukuxhumana nalabo abangenazo izindlela zokuyithuthukisa.
Ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nenhloso yalokhu okuthunyelwe, ukuhlinzeka ngezinsizakusebenza zokuxhumana nezingane eziyizithulu, ngikholwa ukuthi kufanele sazi imiphumela yalolu hlobo lokwehluka okusebenzayo. Isibonelo, bangathinteka ngemizwa yokuqina okukhulu kunaleyo ebonwa noma ezwiwa yizingane ngaphandle kokukhubazeka kokuzwa noma okubukwayo. Futhi akugcini ngemizwa kuphela, ngoba ukungabi khona kwalezi zinzwa kusho ukuncika kokuxhumana nokuzimela okuncane.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezinenkinga yokungezwa
Kakade ekukhuleni kusukela ekuzalweni, kunezinkinga ezithile zezingane ezinezithulu ezingabonwa, uma ziqhathaniswa nezinye. Isibonelo, isibopho esihlobene nomama ngokuthintana ngokomzimba (isikhumba nesikhumba) akufanele sihlanganise noma yibuphi ubunzima obukhulu; kepha ukulahleka kwangaphambi kwesikhathi (noma ukuzalwa ungaboni) kokubona noma ukuzwa kuzosho ukuthi omncane ngeke akwazi ukuhumusha ngokusobala lokho abazali babo abafuna ukukutshela, futhi ungakhungatheka ngenxa yokungaphendulwa kwemizamo yakho yokuxhumana. Akufani lapho inkinga yenzeka ngesikhathi esithile ngemuva kokufunda ukukhuluma.
Futhi ngemuva kobuntwana ngaphandle kobunzima (ngokuqinisekile futhi kugcwele uthando nokuhlangenwe nakho okuthokozisayo), ngezinqubo zesikole nezidingo ezikhethekile ezihilelekile ... kufika ebusheni. Isigaba sezinguquko ezinkulu esixhunyaniswe nokwenziwa kwe-de-idealization yabazali kanye nokuhlonza nontanga yabo. Kepha lapho nje iqembu lidingeka kakhulu, lingahle linqatshwe, libe nobunzima bokuhlobene neqembu, noma kube nezinkinga ezingokomzwelo ezihambisana nokuzethemba. Ngakho-ke ... singakhuluma nangokufundisa ngenhlonipho nokwamukela umehluko; nasekuhloleni konke okunganikelwa yilabo abanamanye amakhono.
Ukuxhumana okunzima ... kepha kungenzeka
Njengoba wazi, ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu kwenziwa ikakhulukazi ngolimi lomlomo (ukwamukela nokwamukela); yize kuyinqubo yokushintshana ngolwazi engenziwa ngezindlela eziningi. Kepha ukuze sibhekane namaqiniso, sizophetha ngokubaluleka komsele wokuzwa nowokubonakalayo, futhi lapho ukuwohloka kungokubili, ubunzima buyanda. Ngikhumbula lapha ukubaluleka kokuthinta.
Njengoba ingane isencane kakhulu, ukuxhumana kwethu naye singakusekela ezinsikeni ezintathu ezibalulekile: imizila, ukulindela izixwayiso, ithuba lokulawula imvelo. Ngokusobala kulezi zinsika amasu ahlukanisiwe azothathwa ngokuya ngokuthi ayazigcina yini izinsalela zokuzwa noma ezibonakalayo.
Ukuxhumana nezingane eziyizithulu: umndeni
Ukubekezelela abanye abantu kufanele kungapheli, kepha ikakhulukazi nalabo abayizithulu, futhi uma beyizingane, kufanele sithole izindlela zokugwema ukusindwa. Yini enye:
- Ngokuhambisana nokubekezela, sizofunda ukuxhumana ngokunikeza ikhefu eliningi kule nqubo, ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi siyaqonda futhi siyaqondakala.
- Sungula imizila yokusebenza: noma bengasizwa noma bangasiboni (noma benze okuncane kakhulu) singabajwayela ukuqala nasekuqedeni imisebenzi ngezimpawu ezihlukanisiwe eziphindaphindwayo. Isibonelo, beka ingane engubeni ngengubo phansi bese ukhombisa ukuthi ikhona ithoyizi ngokucindezelwa, ngaphambi kokuletha izandla zabo entweni.
- Thinta, thinta, thinta ... ungesabi ukuphulula, ukuthinta, ukubamba, umazise ngezici zakho (isandla somfowethu, umlomo kamama, izinwele zikababa, imibimbi kayisemkhulu).
- Shintsha imvelo ukuze iphephe futhi ithembeke.
- Ingane enobumpumputhe nayo ingakhetha, futhi kufanele ukhuthaze ukwenziwa kwezinqumo. Isibonelo ngamathoyizi, ngezingubo, ungamvumela ukuthi abone ngezandla zakhe, ahlole futhi enze umqondo wakhe, ahloniphe isinqumo sakhe.
- Ukunakwa kwezixwayiso: ukungakhululeki, ukungakhululeki, isidingo sokushintsha imisebenzi, noma ukuyeka ukudla. Ngamunye ukuveza ngendlela.
- Qamba! Njengoba imidlalo yamagama isungulwa nezingane ezigcwele, imidlalo yokutholwa ngokuthinta ingasungulwa eyenza impilo yalezi zingane ibe mnandi kakhulu.
- Funda emaphutheni.
- Khuthaza imfucumfucu ebukwayo neyezwayo ngokusebenzisa izinto ezinemibala ehlukene nobubunjwa, ukushintsha amathoyizi kakhulu, ukujwayela imisindo ehlukene, njll.
- Jabulela.
Ukuxhumana nezingane eziyizithulu: isikole
Nayi ividiyo lapho abalamuli besikole (abadingekayo ekufundeni kwabafundi abanezithulu) besho okwenzeka kubo. Uzoyithanda.
Izithombe - UDaveynin, Isikhulu sezindiza uJoanna M. Kresge