Intsha ayivamile ukukhuluma ngokukhululeka uma kungenjalo nabangane bayo, futhi abazali kaningi abazi ukuthi bangazenza kanjani izingane zabo zikhulume nabo.
Ubusha yisigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi lapho abantu abasha bedlula ezikhathini eziningi ezingokomzwelo nezimbi. Ngokulandelayo sizokhuluma ngomzuzu wosizi abavame ukuhlala kuwo, nempendulo enganikezwa njengabazali.
Intsha nezinguquko zayo
Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, intsha ivame ukuzizwa ingaqondwa, ihlonishwa kancane futhi ibhekwe. Intaba-mlilo engokomzwelo abayikhuthazelayo kwesinye isikhathi, ibafaka kosizi olujulile okuba nzima kubo ukuphuma kulo.. Intsha ayivamisile ukuvula uma ingekho ngeyabo abangane, futhi abazali kaningi abazi ukuthi bangenza kanjani izingane zabo zikhulume futhi zibethembe.
Ngalokhu kushoda kokuxhumana phakathi kwawo wonke umuntu, le nsizwa iyakhungatheka futhi ibaleke ngokomoya, izehlukanise futhi ayijabuli. Injabulo itholakala lapho umuntu enethezekile naye, futhi ebusheni, umfana usemzuzwini wokufuna ubunikazi bomuntu siqu. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke uzithole futhi ngeke uvumelane, noma uzizwe kanjalo. Konke lokhu kumholela ekutheni azizwe edabukile futhi engakhuthazeki.
Izibopho kanye nomuzwa wosizi
Inkululeko yentsha iyindlela yabo yokusindiswa, futhi ukudala izingxabano ezithile noma izingxabano nabazali kubenza bacwile osizini olujulile bese behamba.
Ngesikhathi sokuthomba intsha ifuna ukudlubulunda futhi yazi kahle ukuthi ikhona imikhuba nemikhawulo, abafuna ukweqa njalo. Inkululeko yabo iyindlela yabo yokusindiswa futhi idala izingxabano noma izingxoxo ezithile nabazali nomndeni, ibenza bazibeke endaweni ekude nabo. Yilapho indodana ilwela khona ukwenza okulungile, ngenkathi "I" yayo engakakhuli kahle imphoqa ukuthi alandele enye indlela.
Ukuzwa ukhathele, ungenalutho, udangele ... yizimpawu zalolo sizi lwentsha. Lapho ziba zimbi kakhulu, ziza ngemicabango esongela ubuqotho bazo ngokomzimba, azifuni ukudla noma zingakwazi ukulala, kuyadingeka ukukhuluma nochwepheshe ngokuphuthumayo. Lezi zici zingamela i ukucindezeleka. Uma isimo sithatha amasonto, kulungile ukuncoma, kanye / noma ukuphelezela, owelapha.
Ungayisiza kanjani eyeve eshumini nambili
Njengabazali kufanele nibasekele. Kusukela esemncane kubalulekile ukuthi kube nokwethembana nokuxhumana engxenyeni yomndeni. Uma lesi sisekelo sakhiwa, kuzoba lula kumuntu osemusha ukwazi ukuthi uyaqondakala futhi uyathandwa. Njengoba nje ubusha bungukuziphendukela kwemvelo, abazali kufanele bashiye isikhala kodwa bazi izidingo zabo noma izinguquko emikhubeni noma ekuziphatheni kwabo, ukushintsha kwakho abangane, uma kukhona uhlobo lokusetshenziswa ...
Indodana esakhula izizwa inesizungu futhi idabukile, ngakho-ke ukukhathazeka nezidingo zayo akufanele kubhekelwe phansi. Isifiso sothando nokuzwela kumuntu onesikhathi esibi kubalulekile. Umuntu odabukisayo uyakwazi ukuphuma ekunganakwa kwakhe ngemuva kwesikhashana, ngakho-ke ukwesekwa komndeni kuzoba yisikhuthazo kuwo. Yiba nemikhuba nemithetho ekhaya, hlanganyela ndawonye emisebenzini, phazamisa ingane ngokuzivocavoca nemizila enempilo ngaphandle indlu, kuzokwenza ushintshe imizwa yakho futhi ungazizwa ubhajwe.