I-American Academy Yezingane ushicilele umbiko ngokuzibulala kwentsha ezifundweni zezingane nokunaka imicabango yokuzibulala. Ngalokho imihlahlandlela yeminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye eyedlule ivuselelwe ezosiza odokotela bezingane nabanye ochwepheshe abahlobene nobuntwana nobusha; kumayelana nokuhlola ngokufanele izimo ezahlukahlukene zobungozi ezinganeni.
Sabala lapha ukuthi ukuzibulala kuyimbangela yesithathu yokufa kwabantu abaphakathi kweminyaka engu-0 kuya kwengu-19, kodwa e-United States banezibalo ezethusayo: sekuyimbangela yesibili yokufa phakathi kuka-15 no-19; ukulimala okungahlosile kuphela okusemuva kwezehlakalo. UBenjamin Shain, njengombhali oholayo nomholi wocwaningo, uthi ukuxhashazwa kuyimbangela, futhi ekugcineni ukuxhumana phakathi kokuhlukumeza nokuzibulala kuye kwaqashelwa.
Kodwa-ke, akuyona ukuphela kwembangela, ngoba izinto ezinobungozi zihlukahlukene, kuyilapho izinto zokuzivikela zincishisiwe. lapho abantu abadala abaphethe lezi (namanje) izingane bengakwazi ukubona ushintsho noma ukungenelela uma kunesidingo. Umlando wokuzibulala (noma ukuzama), umbono wokuzibulala wezihlobo phambi kwezincane, izinkinga zempilo yengqondo kubazali, ukubuzwa kokuma noma ubunikazi bobulili ngemvelo, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, izinkinga zempilo yengqondo (kufaka phakathi ukuphazamiseka kokulala noma i-bipolar disorder), iziqephu zokudakwa ngokweqile, ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokuhlukumezeka, ukusetshenziswa kwe-ICT noma i-Intanethi ngezifo.
Ukuzibulala kwentsha: umqondo wangempela kodwa ongekho kubantu abadala.
Kukhona nezinye izimbangela njengokuwohloka kobudlelwano bemindeni, ubunzima esikoleni, ukuhlala wedwa emphakathini, ukucindezelwa ngokweqile ezimpilweni zabo ... Umbuzo uwukuthi, ingabe siyazi ukuthi intsha isengozini kangakanani? Kwesinye isikhathi omama nobaba bakholelwa ukuthi ngokukhula kumele siziqhelelanise, Kodwa-ke, kanye nokubashiyela okwabo futhi sihloniphe ubumfihlo babo, singakwazi futhi kufanele sibe khona njengezinkomba.. Singamamodeli, sisebenza njengomhlahlandlela, futhi singaqukatha, sisize ukuphatha imizwa, sinake okubakhathazayo, futhi sihloniphe abakuthandayo nezidingo zabo. Ukuba ngumama nobaba kuyizindlela ezenelisa kakhulu, kepha ukudonsa isikhathi eside, futhi akukhona okungaphansi: ngabantu abakhiwayo.
Lapha sikhulumile yokudangala nengcindezi ezinganeni, kanye ne- ukulimala okwenziwe; ukuthola ukuthi umuntu onempilo yakhe yonke ephambi kwakhe uba nezingxabano ezinzima ngokomzwelo kunzima kakhulu, kepha isisombululo ukubhekana nezinkinga noma ngabe zinkulu kangakanani, ngoba intombazane noma umfana akakwazi ukuyisingatha eyedwa. Ukwesaba, amahloni, ukungaqiniseki kuzosenza sithambekele ekunciphiseni ukuhlupheka, kumane kuyiphupho nje, iqiniso linobunye ubuso, ubuso esingabuboni kodwa buzibonakalisa, kwesinye isikhathi ngendlela embi kakhulu.
Kwenziwa kanjani lokhu?
Kungumqondo ovamile ukuthi uma abazali bebona izimpawu bathatha indodakazi noma indodakazi yabo bayise kudokotela wezingane noma kudokotela womndeni, noma kudokotela wezengqondo; owokuqala angabhekisa eMnyangweni Wezempilo Yengqondo. Iseluleko sami ukuthi ngibuze umbono wochwepheshe abaningana bese unquma ukuthi uzoya kubani, ngaphandle uma sizithola sinenkinga enkulu noma ukuzilimaza, lapho-ke, sizolibhekisa Eziphuthumayo Zesibhedlela, bese siqala noma siqale kabusha ukwelashwa kweziguli. Umbiko engikhuluma ngawo ukhuluma ngamazinga obunzima, ngokwengozi yokuzibulala, okumele ihlolwe; ukuvimbela noma ukutholwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kuhlale kungcono, kunjalo.
Futhi ukuhambisana nomndeni kuyadingeka, akwanele ukuyisa ingane masonto onke ekwelashweni kwayo, uma kunesidingo umndeni wonke uzoya ekwelashweni komndeni, futhi lapho kutholakala amaphethini obudlelwano adinga ukuguqulwa, kuzolungiswa okudingekayo.
Odokotela bezingane: lapho ukuhlolwa kwenziwa kuqala ngudokotela
I-American Academy of Pediatrics ifake izeluleko zodokotela bezingane kulo mbhalo, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi intsha ifika kudokotela ngezinkinga ezingokomzwelo ezingatholakalanga yizihlobo zazo. Izimpawu noma izimpawu zokudangala kufanele zicatshangelwe. Udokotela futhi angabuza ukuthi zikhona yini izibhamu ekhaya noma ngobudlelwano nabazali. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyadingeka ukuthi bathole ukuqeqeshwa okuthile futhi basungule izindlela zokuxhumanisa neminye imithombo yomphakathi, yezempilo noma yezemfundo..
Ingozi yokuzibulala ikhona kungakhathalekile imvelaphi yezenhlalo nezomnotho noma ubuhlanga, yize amanani ehlukahluka kubantu abathile. Ngokuqondene nezindlela (khumbula ukuthi sikhuluma nge-United States) ezisetshenzisiwe ukuklinya, izibhamu, ukufaka ushevu nokuqalisa kusuka phezulu. Noma ngubani obhekele ukunakekelwa noma ukufundiswa kwezingane ezisencane uyanconywa ukuthi aqondise okuqukethwe okubukwa kwimithombo yezokwazisa nakwezokuxhumana, ngoba indlela yokuzibulala ingalingiswa; Ngaphandle kokuthi bengafinyeleli kokuqukethwe okunodlame noma okuyingozi ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngakho nomuntu omdala.