La ukukhahlela kokuqala, umcimbi onjani! Ungasho vele ukuthi uxolile ngempela. Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, konke ukunaka kwakho kuzoya ekuzizweni kwengane yakho nakakhulu. Ungethuki uma kunganyakazi njalo, izingane nazo ziyalala futhi zikhathele, kepha yebo kufanele unake.
Njengoba ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka ukunyakaza kwabo emathunjini akho kuzocaca futhi kuhambisane ngokwengeziwe. Futhi cishe ekugcineni uzokwazi ukubona ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba wakhe ezama ukuvula imbobo. Nawa amanye amathiphu ukuthi yimaphi amasonto lapho ajwayele ukunyakaza khona kakhulu noma ukuthi enzeni uma ungazizwa.
Ngizoqala nini ukuzwa ingane yami?
Into ejwayelekile ukuqala ukuzwa ukunyakaza kwengane phakathi kwesonto le-16 nelama-22 lokukhulelwa. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi omncane noma omncane ubelokhu ekhankasela amathumbu akho kusukela ngeviki 7, benza amasondo ezinqola zabo futhi baziqeqesha kanzima. Sethemba ukuthi ungakwenza bheka ezinye zezinto ezinyakazayo, noma ngabe awuzizwanga, lapho wenza eyodwa i-ultrasound.
Ngokwalokho esikubonisile, kulula ukukuzwa uma wena uzolile, uhlezi noma ulele phansi. Uma uzwile ingane yakho ngaphambi kwamasonto ayi-16, kuhle lokho, kepha futhi kungaba ukunyakaza kwamathumbu noma igesi nje. Ama-Gilts avame ukubadida. Abesifazane aba-thinner bavame ukuzwa ukunyakaza ngaphambi kokukhulu kakhulu kwesidalwa, esingachazwa njengenhlanzi ebhukuda isuka endaweni iye kwenye.
Jabulela amasonto amabili noma amathathu noma asele kuze kube umlingani wakho naye angabona ukuthi uhamba kanjani indodana noma indodakazi yakho. Yisikhathi lapho kungokwakho kuphela.
Ngenzenjani uma ngiyeka ukuzwa ukunyakaza kwayo manje?
Khumbula ukuthi akuzona zonke izingane ezihamba ngokufanayo futhi yize isipiliyoni siyizinga, ungakhathazeki uma ingane yakho ingasebenzi kakhulu. Ku-trimester yesibili yokukhulelwa ukunyakaza sekuvele kujwayelekile futhi kukhulu. Bonke omama bayazi ukuthi yini isikhathi sosuku lapho umbungu usebenza kakhulu. Futhi lapho isikhathi sokubeletha sisondela, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi ingane inyakaze kancane, inendawo encane futhi ingena esinqeni.
Kodwa-ke, uma kukhona okukhona ukuntuleka ngokuphelele kokuhamba, khona-ke kungaba uphawu lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Xhumana nombelethisi wakho noma umbelethisi noma uye ngqo kuchwepheshe. Kepha ngaphambi kokuthatha lesi sinyathelo, nokuthula kwengqondo kwakho phuza amanzi noshukela noma ijusi yezithelo, into "ekwenza uthuke." Lokhu akusheshi, linda cishe imizuzu eyishumi. Uzobona ukuthi ihamba ngaphezu kokucabanga kwakho. Kepha uma kwenzeka udokotela wakho ezoncoma iphrofayli ye-biophysical, noma i-ultrasound ukukala izinga le-amniotic fluid.
Hay Odokotela basikisela ukuqopha ukunyakaza kwengane, nsuku zonke ngasikhathi sinye, ku-trimester yokugcina. Okufanelekile ukubala okungenani ukunyakaza okuyishumi emahoreni amabili, uma kwenzeka, yeka ukubala.
Amasu nokuzivocavoca umzimba okwenza ingane yakho izizwe ingcono
Sibonisene futhi enye yezindlela ezibonakala zisebenza kahle ukuzwa ukuthi umntwana unjani lala ubheke phansi. Umqondo ukuthi ulale ubheke phansi embhedeni, uvule imilenze yakho uzwe ukuthi ingane izizwa kanjani "icindezelwe" futhi ngaleyo ndlela izohamba. Lokhu kungaba zijwayeze isikhathi esingangesonto 15 noma 16.
Kusukela ngeviki le-18, ubuchopho bengane bungezwa eminye imisindo. Lapha unendatshana ekhuluma ngezinto ezimnandi izingane ezizizwa zisesiswini. Ngakho-ke sebenzisa ithuba, uhlale ngokuthula embhedeni futhi Hamba ngokuthinta isisu sakho ngobumnene ngenkathi ukhuluma noma umculela. Enye indlela yokukhuthaza ukunyakaza kwakhe ukudlala umculo eduze kwakhe, kepha hhayi kakhulu. Amagagasi azosakazeka kangcono ngaphakathi kwesisu sakho futhi lokhu kudlidlizela kuzokushukumisela ukuthi unyakaze. Iseluleko sokugcina esikunikeza sona ukuthi lala ohlangothini lwesobunxele, futhi uhlale uzolile kakhulu, naka ukunyakaza kwabo.