Ukubonisana njalo ngezikhathi ezithile kusivumela ukuthi sibe nerekhodi lokukhula nentuthuko yabancane bethu. Kepha phakathi kokubonisana nokubonisana, imibuzo uqobo iyenzeka, lapho siqhathanisa izingane zethu nabangani, abafowethu abadala noma abazala. Mhlawumbe kulapho kukhulunywa ngokusebenza kwesikole noma uma kumayelana nokuqhathanisa amakhono. «Indodana yami incane ngeminyaka yayo«Abanye abazali bayangabaza ngaphandle kokusho ngokuzwakalayo. "Ngabe uzovuthwa ngokwesilinganiso seminyaka yakhe?" Ukukhula kwezingane ngokungangabazeki kungenye yezinkinga ezinkulu zabazali ngoba ingane ephendula ngokwanele kumingcele ebekiwe ingakhuluma nge ingane enempilo.
Vele, akulula ukubeka imithetho eqinile, ikhona izingane ezincane ngeminyaka yazo uma kuqhathaniswa nabanye futhi banempilo enhle. Kwezinye izimo, sinabancane abangaphezulu kwesilinganiso futhi abadlula ne-percentile ephezulu kakhulu. Yingakho kungekho okungcono kunokubuyekeza amagama esiwasebenzisayo ukuze singethuki.
Izingane ezincane…. futhi hhayi kangako
Kungenzeka yini ukukhuluma nge encane ngeminyaka? Kungaba yini ipharamitha esizisekela kuyo lapho sibheka izingane zethu. Ngaphandle kwamehlo athandwayo, lapho kukhulunywa ngomntwana omfishane, kubhekiswa komncane omfushane kakhulu kunokuphakama okujwayelekile kweminyaka yakhe nobulili. Kodwa-ke, ngale kwalesi sici, odokotela bezingane babheka izinto eziningana lapho kunqunywa ukuphakama kwengane nobudlelwano bayo nokukhula.
Esinye sezici ezinhle, ngokwesibonelo, ifa lofuzo. Ukuphakama kwabazali kuyinkomba enamandla uma kukhulunywa ngokuthola ukuthi ingane izofinyelela kude kangakanani lapho isikhulile. Uma abazali bengaphansi kobude obuphakathi, ingane kungenzeka nayo. Enye into ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthi ngabe indodana yami incane ngeminyaka yayo Kumele futhi sicabangele lokho okuthiwa izinga lokukhula, okungukuthi, izinga lokukhula kwengane.
Isigqi se ukukhula kwengane, okwaziwa njengezinga lokukhula, nakho kubalulekile. Kumapharamitha ajwayelekile, izingane zikhula ngesilinganiso esijwayelekile futhi yize kunezigaba lapho zikhula khona ngaphezu kokuphakama kunesisindo, ukuthambekela kuvame nokuba njalo. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo zezingane ezingakhuli ngezinga elifanayo nabangane bazo ngoba izinga lokukhula kwazo alilandeleki ngokwengeziwe. Lokhu kungaba umehluko maqondana nontanga yabo. Uma kukhona ushintsho olukhulu kulayini we-percentile kuyifulegi elibomvu njengoba lingakhuluma ngenkinga yokukhula.
Izingane ezincane: ukubhaliswa nezimbangela
Amashadi okukhula akuvumela ukuthi ulawule abancane njengoba bekala i- ukukhula kwengane isilinganiso seminyaka enikeziwe, ubulili nokuphakama. Ngakho-ke, umugqa ukhombisa isilinganiso sabantu bakuleyo minyaka abangahle babe nobude obuthile eminyakeni ethile. Uma i-percentile yengane ingaphansi kuka-3%, babhekwa njengengane emfushane.
Kunezizathu ezimbalwa zokuthi isiqu esifushane ezinganeni: kusuka esifushane emndenini (yize kunezinga elijwayelekile lokukhula), ukubambezeleka okujwayelekile ekukhuleni nasekuthombaneni (izingane ezisencane ngesikhathi sobuntwana bazo kodwa ezikuthola ukuphakama okujwayelekile ebudaleni), kanye nalokho okubizwa ngesiqu esifushane se-idiopathic, lokho ukusho ukuthi kuleli cala sikhuluma ngendodana esencane yeminyaka yayo kodwa enempilo futhi engenazizathu ezingakhomba.
Ukuphakama nokuphazamiseka
Noma kungenzeki ezimweni eziningi, uma kukhona ifayela le- indodana encane ngeminyaka yakhe Futhi unokungabaza, kungcono ukubonisana nodokotela ngoba kunezimo lapho ukukhula kuhlotshaniswa nezifo ezithile, ezifana nesifuba somoya, isifo se-celiac, isifo samathumbu esivuthayo, isifo sezinso, i-anemia, ukuphazamiseka kwamathambo nesifo senhliziyo.
Esinye isimo esidala izinkinga zokukhula ezinganeni Lokhu kungukushoda kwamahomoni: i-hypothyroidism, ukushoda kwe-hormone yokukhula, isifo sikashukela, nesifo sikaCushing (isifo esidala i-cortisol eningi emzimbeni). Izimo zofuzo nazo zihambisana nesiqu esifushane (IDown's Syndrome, i-Turner syndrome, I-Russell-Silver syndrome, i-Noonan syndrome, nezinkinga zamathambo ezingavamile ezifana ne-achondroplasia).
Abakwa-bisiqu esiphansi ezinganeni Kungaba futhi ngenxa yokungondleki kahle, imishanguzo esetshenziselwa ukwelapha i-ADHD noma i-steroids ye-asthma, noma ezimeni zezinsana eziye zahlushwa ukukhula kwesisu noma zincane kakhulu eminyakeni yazo yokukhulelwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.