Ingane izokuzwa ukuzinza nokunethezeka lapho ubaba noma umama emoyizela.
Abazali yinsika lapho umntwana ahlala khona. Zonke izimfundiso, izenzo, isimilo, izinqumo zomzali zithinta futhi zisho ingane yakhe. Masazi ukuthi ukumamatheka kwabazali kubaluleke kanjani ekukhuleni kwengane.
Umsebenzi wabazali
Abazali bavame ukunikela konke kusuka ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yabo. Uthando lwengane luqotho. Baletha emhlabeni isidalwa nokuthi yimuphi umbumbi abaqala ukubumba yena. Umsebenzi womzali uyaqhubeka futhi ushubile. Isikhuthazo, ukubekezela, ukubambisana, ukwesekwa, uthando lukababa enganeni yakhe kuzonquma indlela yakhe yokwenza nokwenza. Izingane zidinga izinkomba, imihlahlandlela, futhi zidinga ukukhulela endaweni lapho uthando lubusa khona.
Izingalo nokwangana kukababa kuvame ukuba yisiphephelo sezingane zakhe. Ukubukeka, ukumamatheka kwehlisa ukudabuka nosizi lwengane. Ingane ibazi kangcono abazali bayo kunanoma ubani omunye, njengoba okuphambene kuyiqiniso. Amagama ngokuqinisekile azohlala ezikhathini eziningi. Ingane izokuzwa ukuzinza nokunethezeka lapho ubaba noma umama emoyizela. Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi ngendlela engokwemvelo ngokuphelele. Ukubona nje indodana izenzela okuthile kuvusa ukuziqhenya nenjabulo ebusweni bukababa.
Njengomthetho ojwayelekile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma lapho omunye wabazali engekho, isithombe esiza engqondweni yezingane izikhathi ezinhle. Isilayidi somqondo sokumamatheka komzali sinokubaluleka okukhulu. Uma kwakukhona ukumamatheka kwakukhona umoya ojabulisayo. Izikhathi ezikhunjulwayo yizo ezinamandla futhi ezimnandi. Lezo zikhathi zihlala ziqoshiwe ngoba kunikelwe okuthile.
Ukumamatheka kwabazali
Ukwabelana ngezikhathi ezinhle ezigqoke ukumamatheka kuhlanganisa kakhulu izibopho.
Ngokumoyizela kukababa, izingane zibona inhlalakahle, injabulo, ukuthula futhi zingokwazo, ziyakhululeka futhi zithembele. Ukumamatheka kukhombisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwamalungu womabili. Ingane ithola umyalezo futhi ibalulekile ezingeni lomzwelo. Ingane ebona abazali bayo bemamatheka iphendula ngendlela efanayo futhi izokwenza kanjalo ngokuzayo. Uzothola ukuthi ngemuva kwalesi senzo isenzo se- injabulo.
Amandla wokumamatheka makhulu ngokungenamkhawulo kunalawo wemali. Naye ingane izobukeka ibalulekile futhi ikwazi ukubhekana nezinselelo ezizivelelayo. Lapho ingane ibona injabulo ebusweni bukayise, iyaqonda ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle futhi iyamazi. Ubaba uyinkomba yakhe futhi uzomthanda ngezenzo zakhe, kepha naye kudingeka abe njalo kuqondwe futhi thanda.
Ukumamatheka kukababa kuvulela indodana indlela
Ngokumamatheka kukababa noma kukamama, ingane inciphisa ukubekezela, ukuphana, uzwela nokuthanda. Ukumamatheka nokubukeka okujabulisayo kunika ingane amandla okuqhubeka ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuwa noma ukuzizwa ingenamandla. Ubaba omomothekayo wenza indodana icabange ukuthi akayedwa nokuthi angaba njengoba efisa ukuba, angesabi lutho, futhi angazethembi.
Ukumamatheka kuyathethelela futhi kuvumele, kuthembe futhi kusize. Ukumamatheka kuyinto eqotho ezalwa ngendlela engokwemvelo futhi evezwe kumuntu omthanda ngempela. Ukumamatheka kufanele kube qotho ngoba uma kungenjalo kulimaza izinhlangothi zombili. Indodana izotheleleka ngobuhle obulele kuyo. Ukwabelana ngezikhathi ezinhle ezigqoke ukumamatheka kuncibilika kakhulu izixhumanisi.
Ngemuva kokumamatheka, amagama aqotho futhi anomusa endodaneni efisa uzwela, uthando, ukuzola, ukucatshangelwa. Ukumamatheka kukababa endodaneni:
- Uthembekile futhi akazideli.
- Veza uthando olungenamibandela.
- Kusho ukusekela nokwethemba.
- Iveza ukuzibophezela nokwamukela. Kuzoba kuhle ku ukuzihlonipha kwabancane.
Ingane izozizwa ikhululekile futhi izokuqonda ukuthi ukumamatheka kuzalwa ngaphakathi nangokweqiniso. Ukumamatheka kuyisipho esitholakala kuwo wonke umuntu kepha sinenani elikhulu. Labo abazizwa bebodwa futhi bengenakuzisiza bazothokozela isenzo somzwelo esinjalo esivela emphefumulweni. Indodana izama ukunikela ngakho konke okusemandleni ayo futhi iyikhombisa isenzo sokwamukela njengokumamatheka kuzoyivumela ukuba indize.